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“The #ImpeachmentTaskForce has launched its first ad - an ad that demands senators put country over party and vote to remove Trump from offi

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An Open Letter to Tumblr about the Adult Content Ban and How it is Hurting Your Users:

Recently, Tumblr was removed from the Apple app store due to an incident involving child pornography. This incident is incredibly unfortunate, but it doesn’t stand alone. Tumblr was also removed from the app store due to the large influx of porn bots and pornographic spam, users claiming to be proud to be pedophiles, blatant Nazism, racists who are not deleted for sending hate and harassing users, and more. I myself reported someone for harassing me, but because I had blocked the person and couldn’t access the messages where they harassed me, they were still able to send me anonymous asks. Your support staff, with back doors to the website (presumably), claimed they could not access the messages, and I was left SOL. Many features on this website do nothing to actually protect your users from harassment, racism, homophobia, transphobia, Nazis, pedophiles, predators, porn bots, and more.

You claim in your statement to us that you “have been working on these problems for a long time”. This is blatantly untrue. Please do not lie to us and patronize us. We’ve been here. We’ve seen you do nothing over, and over, and over again.

We complained to you for months and months about the rampant porn bots, and you did nothing except add a report button on mobile which only reported sensitive content or spam at best. You could have addressed this problem with an effective algorithm, but you did not. We complained to you about being harassed and sent hate speech for being LGBT+, and you did nothing. We complained to you about blogs being randomly deleted, and sometimes you’ve restored them, other times you have not. We complained to you that there were people proudly claiming to be “Minor Attracted Persons”, or pedophiles, and you did nothing. We complained to you about people proudly claiming to be white supremacists, and you did nothing. All of these things are “against the community guidelines”, and yet over and over, you have not found effective ways to handle these problems or suppress the feeling of welcome that these users claim to get here. You have had a long time to work on these problems, but you haven’t addressed them. To say you have is untrue.

Multiple other social networking websites, such as Wordpress, Facebook, Instagram, Pinterest, and others have effectively dealt with rampant pornography, racism, pedophilia, and other problems without causing massive issues for their users who are not misusing the platform. They are continuing to find new, effective ways to deal with these issues without causing problems for their userbase as a whole. There is no reason that you are unable to do this effectively other than that you wanted to do it quickly. You have once again chosen your stock holders over your users. And we have had enough.

You have already started to ban “Adult” content with a new algorithm. Here are screenshots of just a fraction of the posts you have flagged as containing adult content:

Your new system of simply tackling everything at once is not working. At all. And each of these screenshots is proof of your utter incompetence. None of these posts contain pornographic acts, “female nipples”, or any community violation of any kind.

We, the users, have been asking you for months to deal with these problems - particularly, the porn bots and bots that spam. In order to block a bot from a side blog, I have to do it manually, even though they are in my side blog’s feed. This is a huge issue for mobile - only users. They keep cropping up in droves, taking over our posts and tricking google into making it look like a legitimate blog linked to a pornographic website. We have complained to you for months and months now, and your solution to simply “ban all adult content” is ineffective. I agree that children should not be able to access pornography - but this is not how you tackle a porn bot problem. Your system is utterly useless, allows for racists, pedophiles, porn bots, and Nazis to remain untouched. It also harms sex workers and real people who may use this website for some forms of adult content responsibly. Moreover, as seen above, it harms plenty of users who have in no way violated your terms of service.

If you keep this up, you threaten your website and company as a whole. Many of us are backing up our blogs and planning places to go to.

You already have a content filter for “sensitive” content (content inappropriate for younger viewers). You could have improved this, instead of attacking your entire user base. It seems to be a very lazy “solution”, if you could call it one at all, and one that harms your entire userbase.

If you are going to keep this filter in place and make Tumblr, a website that has never been known for being family friendly and has never claimed to be, you are going to lose millions of your users. We are already planning our exodus. It isn’t hard to follow. Censor us, and we will go somewhere else. That is not a threat. It is a promise.

Sincerely,

The users of your website.

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They flagged this post immediately and I’ve submitted it for review… this is… quite a week.

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If you believe these words, reblog it, please. I want this to be right in their face because I couldn’t email them directly.

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Change

I've been reblogging hot scenes I COULD do on this blog. That's changing.

From now on, only pics from scenes I've done.

Does that sound more interesting? If so, reblogs with the link back here...

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Time to reblog this I think

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So important now, especially since THAT movie will be dropping soon in a theater near you!

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Not going to stop reblogging stuff like this until that celluloid abomination has been and passed.

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Important distinctions

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Nope. Here’s three reasons why:

STIs like HIV, chlamydia, and gonorrhea are all passed through body fluids. Those include pre-cum, vaginal fluids, and rectal fluids (as well as cum and blood)

Other STIs like syphilis and herpes are passed through skin-to-skin contact with an active infection

And since pre-cum can contain sperm, pulling out doesn’t prevent pregnancy either

So you can pull out, but STIs can still stick around for you and your partner.

I milk myself playing with dildos in my asshole. The sensation is a intense and long orgasm.

I bet I could help with that... Ever get to San Francisco

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One thing that I have always struggled to understand about polyamorous relationships is jealousy and feeling significant. I just read your post where you said that your love for Castrokink will always be strongest. What would you do if someone else that you are in a relationship with became upset/jealous about the fact that they know you will never care as strongly about them as you do Castrokink? Meaning that they feel that they are not as important as him and it makes them feel insignificant?

Love is limitless . Every poly relationship stands on its own and there should be no competition . Jealousy and envy is something everyone experiences throughout their life and it’s a natural thing . I was talking to one of my exes the other day and we were having this conversation about jealousy and envy . I was telling him how even I get jealous and envious sometimes when sir does intense play with other subs , it’s a natural reaction . You have to realize in polyamory that , just because your boyfriend is dating / playing with others , doesn’t mean he loves you any less .

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Well said, @whisperpup. I’ll add that in a good poly relationship, love acts as a multiplier. By that I mean that when I have intense feelings for a boy, it strengthens the love I have for others.

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@whisperpup, you are wise beyond your years. Perhaps Anonymous should look up compersion https://en.m.wiktionary.org/wiki/compersion to understand how one can deal with jealousy and envy by finding ways to enjoy the pleasure in the happiness and pleasure of others we love.