Rooby Rooby Roo

My fandom list could probably get me diagnosed / whatever pronouns, idrc / 18+

[sgraffitobonito]

To anyone whose posts I’ve spam-liked, I apologize for blowing up your phone, have a cookie 🍪

[anxietyproblem]

[zero-two-ten]

this site has one setting

[jenroses]

I’m laughing, but there’s a super useful corollary, which my husband calls “the Red Balloon.” He was a defense lawyer and had a fair number of drug addicts come through, and there is a thing where if you’re like, on your first offense, they’ll do a thing where you can go to treatment and if you complete it they’ll take the conviction off your record.  And he would tell his clients, “Look, everyone’s going to tell you not to do drugs. They’re going to say it over and over again. And it’s like, if people tell you not to think of a white elephant, you’re going to think of a white elephant. But the trick to not thinking about a white elephant is to think of a red balloon. So you need to find your red balloon. For some people it’s yoga. For others it’s woodworking. For some people it’s scrapbooking or gardening or any of a long list of things to do. They focus on that, it’s a lot easier to succeed in ignoring the white elephant.” So yeah, “watch yourself” is one thing… but the better idea is to watch something else. (Even if it’s fanfic about werewolves fucking.)

It’s a form of productive dissociation, and is super, super helpful. It’s easy for me to get bogged down in how much pain I’m in… but some of the most painful periods of my life have also been the most productive, writing-wise, because writing is one of my red balloons. 

[kittydorkling]

There is a phrase I use A LOT in my parenting and my son gets very sick of it, but it’s true:

The thing you practise is the thing you get good at.

You may not intentionally be practicing “being grumpy” but if you don’t put effort into practicing “not being grumpy” then I’m afraid that’s what you’re doing. It’s hard! It’s really hard! Sometimes, for some things, it’s pretty much impossible and that sucks!

But being carefully aware that you are going to get good at the things you do most of is a good way to be more careful of what those things are. If that makes sense.

[bogleech]

You gotta appreciate sometimes how tumblr works in such a way that everyone who wants to reblog this interesting or useful psychological advice is also forced to reblog the thing about werewolf fucking

[whimperingwizard]

jujutsu kaisen + text posts II

[darlingminjin]

I introduce you... Matching! <3

Original artists: @fool_rith and @Ickyeddie (twt/x)

[gabelew]

pre-calamity naps! I couldn't help myself but i think with that the sleepy zora piles are officially out of my system and i can go draw something else woo

[theonion]

[doctor-bodacious]

[explore-animals-and-wildlife]

[angrrrl]

[sexhaver]

[bietrofastimoff23]

I like how caricatured Tai Lung's confusion looks. It's so obvious that this guy is not used to frustration.

[ozempicofficial]

[are-they-a-faggot]

sorry i said id go to bed but this is The funniest thing ive seen in like the past like. 4 days thanks oomf

[oneclickangel]

reblog if you're corny and insufferable

[aurumacadicus]

[catgirlbulge]

i don't know mythbusters you tell me

[zedogica]

ok. i survived 25 years outside the international space station. who gives a shit

[biglawbear]

Technically most moss is outside the international space station

[davvvd]

[thesandcog]

I'm not usually a fan of a big height difference in pairing, if anything, I prefer when they're basically the same height, and sometimes I like when one of them is low-key obsessed with being taller even if its like an inch. HOWEVER when it's spideypool,,,

something about Peter being like 5'7/5'8 and Wade being around 6'4 just buzzes in my brain

I love huge muscular Wade and more lean muscular Peter, something about it just so yum, like please observe how @smoky-moka draws them, cause its literally the only way I view them in my head

I also read a fic and this is how I pictured them in it and it's just UGH so good, i haven't been into spideypool for a bit and I am now happily back in the building

[oneheadtoanother]