Room for Dessert?

28, They/He, 18+, asexual feedist, occasional writer

[shakes-and-cakes]

You can call me Cake! I'm a 28 year old nonbinary Fat Admirer. I'm not currently a gainer but I fantasize about gaining weight and maintain a comfortably chubby baseline fluctuating around 200 lbs. I'm asexual, currently single, and am pretty much exclusively attracted to fat people and weight gain. Outside of kink I am fat positive and have been chubby most of my life, so I have no patience for anyone doesn't respect fat people!

Some kinks I like and may explore in my writing include

Extreme feedism, up to and including loss of mobility and health problems. I understand this isn't everyone's cup of tea, so feel free to ask if you need anything tagged

Soft feedism

Mutual weight gain

Manipulative feeders and dubious consent on the part of the feedee (EXCLUSIVELY in fiction, I will make sure to tag this if I write about it)

Enabling and accidental weight gain

Stuffing, especially with sweets

I'm bad at keeping up with DMs but feel free to message me or send asks if you want!

[tlirsgender]

In this economy feedism is a physically impossible kink akin to vore or furry tf

[tlirsgender]

Feedism but it's just sexualizing having 3 meals a day

[tlirsgender]

Microdosing feedism by eating dinner

[shakes-and-cakes]

Feedee who grazes all day and eats the equivalent of 5 or 6 meals on a light day. Feedee who feels like they don't eat that much because it's so spread throughout the day even though it's more than most people eat in several days because they never dramatically stuff themself.

Feedee who wonders why they're gaining so consistently and starting to struggle so much with their mobility even though they're just a casual feedee who likes to snack and not one of those hardcore feedees who do nothing but stuff themselves.

[bigbellybelle]

I should be shirtless more often,,, especially in this heat!

[livestockprincess]

I like when gaining weight starts to get dark and scary I like how I’m fucked up and can’t hide it

[thecrownestt]

The mild panic of outgrowing the seating at one of the restaurants you enjoyed the most and your feeder Does. Not. Care. They always treat your loss of mobility or accessibility as something that always has been the case. Your past being wiped away.

It's alarming! Booths are one thing, (even that came kinda quick...) Seating though? Chairs? How many other places are you too big for. Are you really the fatass who can't go in public because you're a bit too big for the world. You don't FEEL that big yet. You like to go places! You can't be shut out this soon.

And yet here's your feeder. Not a care in the world. Shushing you. Reassuring you. It's not so bad. Someone's getting plump. They are in denial. This is bad? Can we talk about this? Oh. They brought you cookies in bed. Maybe this can be discussed later. No. Wait.

Maybe you did hate going out to the restaurant. It was a hassle. Those aches and pains... they weren't so bad, but they won't be missed.

But. You might leave the house once a week. Always for that restaurant? Are we replacing it with anything? Is there any reason to leave home? Please? Promise we'll talk about this tomorrow?

Maybe you are overthinking. Give up for tonight. We'll talk tomorrow. Or this week. Your feeder promised to keep it in mind. You like your feeder. You trust their judgment. Eat the cookies. Sleep it off.

[cheeseburgersinparadise]

🌺SPRING EATING CHALLENGE

Hi all - a bit late but it’s finally here! The eagerly anticipated stuffing challenge for spring.

🌺 The challenge: eat 5 hotdogs with a bun and any toppings of your choice, along with 1 pound of side, and at least 24oz of drink. Think picnic themed - so potato salad, pasta salad, grain salad, etc. drinks can be whatever you want!

Rules:

🧺 you must be 18 or older to enter. age must be listed in bio or your entry will be discarded.

🧺 the challenge runs from 3/10/2026 - 4/6/2026 at midnight. this gives you 4 weekends to try it! late submissions are not counted.

🧺 you must take a before and after photo including your belly, food, and the time. entries can be reblogs of this post, DMs, or submissions to me.

🧺 you have three hours to complete this challenge

🧺 any good faith attempt will automatically earn one entry! So please give it a try! Completed entries will count for 2 entries, with a maximum of 2 total entries. Any additional food aside from the challenge will not count towards additional entries.

🧺 if you need to make substitutions, message me and we will discuss what you can eat instead!

🧺 winner will be decided via wheel of names on 4/7/2026. The prize is 50 dollars sent through PayPal. This is the only way I will send money.

any other questions please reach out! These challenges are for the community to have fun and push themselves a little bit, so if there’s something preventing you from participating, please let me know so we can make an accommodation! The more stuffed bellies we get to see, the better. 😌

Have fun and don’t make yourself sick!!

[shakes-and-cakes]

Just curious, does anyone here have an extra fattening banana bread recipe?

[fatyote]

Ah, I see we've come full circle again to our yearly boost VHC discourse and fearmongering. Ha.

It drives me slightly insane that posts about x "horrible" product that's "bad for you" (in itself, a funny thought considering how many of us are extreme gainers) will spread like wildfire, meanwhile no one bothers to put effort into raising awareness about the behavior that leads to folks having bad experiences in the first place.

So...once again, a kind reminder to research any supplement or etc that you're going to put into your body - especially if you're going to use it in any sort of extreme way. Know what's in it, know what risks those ingredients may carry (and especially, in what dosages), and how they may interact with your specific health situation. If they exist, learn the ways you can manage/mitigate the risks.

And if you're not comfortable with any of this? Guess what? You don't have to use the supplement, food, method, etc. That is perfectly a-ok. I promise you can still gain without it.

Don't jump in headfirst to anything just because it's widely used or your favorite gainers use it. Just because it may seem safe or easy for one person to use doesn't mean it will be for you - never, ever assume that.

Everything carries risk, and everyone has their own potential sensitivities, and every body will react differently to different things. And of course, everyone has their own risk thresholds too.

Please make educated decisions, especially when it comes to your body.

[quiet-admirer]

And remember, if we want to look out for each other in our community and make sure we are spreading information for risk-aware consensual kink practices, we need to be sharing verifiable, researched information so that people can make INFORMED, EDUCATED decisions for themselves. We owe it to each other to create an environment where we are empowering people to make informed decisions, not just telling people that certain kink practices dangerous and shouldn't be done based on some people's experiences.

There are always going to be people who want to engage in that kink practice anyway, so harm reduction approaches and language are essential. Not only to help people, as fatyote says, act based on their own personal risk threshold and manage their own risks to their comfort level and needs, but also, when people feel like they're doing something unavoidably/inherently dangerous yet keep doing it because it's something important to their sexuality, it can foster shame, fear, and feelings of disempowerment/not being in control.

Let's help each other in our community actually make risk-aware decisions!

[shakes-and-cakes]

Me being interested in urbanism and walkable cities, but also into the idea of being too fat to walk around those cities in the first place🤭

[shakes-and-cakes]

Feedee on the edge of immobility desperate to claw back control, but too helpless to their cravings to stop it from happening.

Every time they have to walk they wonder if it's the last time, breathing heavily with every slow deliberate movement from the sheer effort of hauling their body a few steps. Yet every meal is a mountain of grease and sweets, devoured before they can worry whether this will be what pushes them over the edge

[shakes-and-cakes]

Just finished an impromptu second takeout dinner after I already ate 5 slices of pizza 😵‍💫

[shakes-and-cakes]

I really like the idea of slowwwly increasing someone's portion sizes day by day. Almost imperceptibly more food and more calories each meal, but by the end of each month each plate is noticeably heavier than it was at the beginning.

Part of the fun is going as long as possible without acknowledging it. You feel your belt fit a little tighter. "That meal looks basically the same as yesterday's, right? Are you sure you're not imagining it?" Your thighs rub a little worse. "I just eat as much as it takes to fill me up, I'm not doing anything different than I always have"

You start running out of breath faster, avoid exercise when given the opportunity, and reach for idle snacks more than ever before. And still, every meal is slightly more food than the last one. You don't even realize how outlandish your portion sizes have gotten compared to before this started.

When you do finally acknowledge it, will you go back? This has been done so gradually that your body has adjusted to the new portions, it expects them, and you've adjusted to your lazier lifestyle. won't it be easier to just give in and see how far we can take this?

[adiposityacolyte]

A reminder for this season of feasts!

[shakes-and-cakes]

Feedee who's been so overfed for so long they have no concept of what a healthy portion size is anymore. Their feeder starts to get fat too because they constantly encourage them to eat more, because there's no way a tiny plate like what they take can fill anyone up

[wonderingsoftly]

hello i'm back and with more f/ire e/mblem brainrot........

i've always liked a/she and d/edue together (storywise and gameplay-wise) and that open poll i put out there had me thinking about them more...i reread their supports and their ending and made myself start to cry

ashe turns down a knighthood to open an inn that specializes in duscur cuisine, implied to be because of dedue??? and dedue frequents it on his breaks? they've both lost their families as casualties of war...and ashe sees dedue for who he really is, dedue caring for ashe almost like he does for dimitri, staying up late and saving dinner for him after a failed scouting mission?

dedue get to be spoiled and cared for by a man who loves everything he is??? and dedue wants ashe to be cared for as well??

like......the pieces were all there for me!! i just needed to put it together!!

(1. ashe gets dedue's input on the food he makes. 2. he makes a lot of it every time dedue comes to visit. 3. dedue finishes it all because he cares for ashe and he likes ashe's cooking, and he comes nearly everyday. 4. ??? 5. profit)

i have some more pieces/vignettes in progress for them and it's giving me butterflies...i'll probably get those up soon based on how fixated i am on these two right now

[shakes-and-cakes]

I still feel really thin compared to most people on here and then I catch sight of my figure at an angle like this

And I realize oh, maybe I am a little bit chunky