Soft Feedism

Hi! he/him 30s feeder/feedee/mutual gainer So, this is a blog about feedism. Cute-feedism-things focuses on the cute aspects of feedism, such as making food for your partner, using their belly as a pillow, and all the fat related puns. If there's anything you want to know, feel free to drop an ask. Profile pic by @Massivelyfattening

[cute-feedism-things]

HARD RULES

This blog is 18+

Don't message me if you're under 21

If you don't have your age in your bio or pinned post, you're getting blocked

Other block able things include, only having pictures of half naked people on your blog, posting pictures of people without their consent or attribution, and putting fetishy stuff on not fetish posts.

Ive been blocking nearly 60% of the blogs that follow me, so I thought I should keep this pinned.

[funnier-as-a-feedist]

The results are here!

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Potential list of trigger warnings under the cut

Potential trigger warning for: death feedism, ableism, fatphobia, eating disorders, emetophobia, body image, body checking, sex negativity, self harm, mentions of grooming/human trafficking/prostitution, zoophilia, necrophilia, raceplay (these mostly apply anecdotally to the write-in sections, which you can skip)

The canva charts are fully interactive, so you can mouse over different categories to view the labels (on some sections where they didn't fit). This presentation was designed on a laptop and is best viewed in landscape mode. You could view it with your phone on landscape but some of the text might be small. (Also I'm sorry some of the data reads as "sales" or "employees", I was using presets lmao)

Tl;dr version: feel free to skip the "write-in" sections. I tried to make this as visually appealing & legible as possible, so if you just want a brief overview of the charts, you don't need to read all of the pages in full (73). If you're interested in the entire .csv sheet, it's linked as a canva document for you to see. (Don't worry about the canva account doxxing me, it's one of many throwaway accounts, it was just convenient for the login)

Everyone who said thank you about conducting the survey, you're so welcome and I love you!! I spent hours working on this over the last week, and I read through every single result. Everyone who said this survey helped inform their opinions and came to deconstruct their internalized fatphobia, I am so glad. I'm so grateful to every one of my participants, even the one person who told me they hope I die <3

I wanted to be able to present my results in a visual, accessible way, and although I wish I didn't have to link outside of tumblr, there was no way for me to be able to embed that many images/charts in a post, so I decided on canva because of their chart features.

I had so much fun doing this and I learned a lot in the process!! I got a lot of feedback (both positive and negative) about the answers I provided for each question. My next survey project will be a survey for feedists; I'm just not sure of the precise topic. Next time I will have a more typical 1-5 "Strongly agree" to "Strongly disagree" range of answers, with less write-ins lmao. I received a lot of offers for help from professionals with statistic/analytic experience, but I feel like because my scope was limited (due to the participants being largely tumblr-based) and biased (because of the leading questions or biased phrasing) I had to do the best I could with the data. I still think I got really high quality results overall. I chose to keep write-ins as their own page for each question rather than omit them entirely or add them into other categories, which took MUCH longer than I was expecting, but I think allows for more nuance and in-depth analysis.

Feedback is more than welcome! If you have any ideas/questions you'd like to see implemented for my next survey (for example... a thesis heheh) let me know!

[funnier-as-a-feedist]

Also anyone who rbed the original survey post for your followers to take, please rb the results so it can reach them, as most people who took this probably aren't interested in following me!

[cute-feedism-things]

Drinking my protein milkshake after finishing a 2 hour arm day.

Bulking is looking good on me don't you think?

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Some may look at me and see a fat belly that hangs out of 4xl shirts.

I look at me and see a massive canvas, perfectly made for hickies.

We're both right.

[cute-feedism-things]

Let me be your fat personal trainer. I'll show up in shorts and a T-shirt that my belly hangs out of and walk you through the exercises. You'll get to oogle all of my fat and how much it jiggles while I'm demonstrating what to do.

I'll even try to get you to push yourself at first, but it's obvious you don't want to be doing this.

You're just doing this because you think you should. Your heart isn't in it.

You actually just want to eat. To let yourself grow fatter. To feel your weight creep even higher.

The only way you want to push yourself is with how much food you can stuff into your growing belly.

And I can train you for that too.

Soon you'll be even fatter than me.

[cute-feedism-things]

There Need to be MORE Cute Fat Couples!

I know I’ve said it before on here, but I want to see more fat people having awesome relationships with each other.

[ssoftdesires]

god you’re so fat [flirtatious] [affectionate]

[chubtings]

come rest your weary head on a tummy you helped soften

[tummysmoocher]

I think more people should get turned on by eating too much and being full and noticing their clothes don’t fit the same anymore and

[tummysmoocher]

I think more people should whimper and moan after they stuff themselves too full, so turned on you can see it thru their panties or boxers. I think more people should feel their brains go fuzzy when they walk and feel their fat wobbling and bouncing. I think popping buttons or seams on clothes should get them close to cumming I think that

[littlefingies]

I don't know how to make this not sound mean but I'm not trying to be mean, so please know that going in.

Listening to a podcast about bodies and eating disorders and the body positivity movement of the last decade ish and hearing someone say (paraphrasing from memory here) "body positivity was all capitalism, there were no legislative changes, just new brands of jeans"

Legislative changes are super important but I cannot emphasize enough that jeans coming in bigger sizes and fat-friendly cuts is actually a really big deal! With meaningful impacts on people's lives (including mine)! Fat people do need clothes! And you may not realize this, but if you're over a certain size (that's not even that big a size) there's a very good chance you can go to a big box store and *not find anything that fits you*. There are towns in the US where if you're over a size 18 you need to drive an hour away or shop online to get things in your size. And they're expensive! "Just buy used" if they even have your size! Fat people want to look nice too. And we face enough judgement during job interviews (to give one example) without trying to do it in clothes that don't fit or are super uncomfortable.

Actually: If you're fat and you want to look cute/hot/masc/femme/etc I cannot recommend this website enough, you put in your measurements and it lists what brands have your size. You can filter for stuff like sensory friendly, nonbinary, masc, organic, etc. It's not AI just a database.

Phoria

Phoria is a platform to help plus-size and gender-expansive people build a more sustainable and ethical wardrobe they love. We’re a benefit

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One reason feedism is great is that it can be just really chill.

Just let me play with your chub while we cuddle

Or pop a cupcake in your mouth at dinner

Maybe we could just get in bed and watch movies while snacking for hours

Or I could even just hug you and feel how soft you are while we’re pressed against each other.

There are just so many little, nice moments that don’t need to be planned or thought out.

[chubbymilkshake]

Renaissance artist that becomes obsessed with a muse, with each new portrait said muse getting bigger and bigger from all the decadence the artist indulges the muse with

[funnier-as-a-feedist]

[cute-feedism-things]

My favorite soft bake cookies were on sale at the store so I bought 2 boxes.

And I'm thinking about going back...

[cute-feedism-things]

Manifesting abundance in the 3 B's

Belly

Butt

Bank account

[bigfatteddybear]

I love it when bellies are described as growing, as if it's a forgone conclusion that you will keep eating yourself fatter and fatter and fatter... You're so greedy now. Everyone can tell. You're not done growing. You're far from it...

[amph1tr1t3]

I've been feeling pulled back toward softer feedism lately.

"I baked this for you," feedism. "I saw they had your favorite," feedism. "Do you want seconds?" feedism. "Let's spend the night in, I'll order," feedism.

"You'll be more comfortable with those unbuttoned."

"The gym will still be there tomorow."

"Your body will always be the perfect size for me."

"I just want to know you're satisfied."

"I know a perfect form of cardio for you."

"Just one more bite, so I know you really enjoyed it."

"Yes, I'll help you up."

Gentle. Loving. Devious.

I just want to make someone dinner. And dessert. And bring them snacks while they work. Day after day. Increase their portions. Step up their meal schedule. Leave little, irresistible treats where they're bound to notice them. Surreptitiously size up their clothing so they don't have to confront their gain. Soothe their worries with kisses and distract them from their plans to lose weight (with everything that comes after kisses.)