I wanted to ask you how long it took for you guys to hug each other for the first time. Because my tc and I are kind of in the midst of this weird stage in which we never know how to greet each other.
Hey! I apologize for the belated answer, but for the past year or so, eversince I started working, I mainly used this app only to keep in touch with my friends.
Now, to answer your question: in the academical environment where I "grew" as a student (and am currently teaching) professors are not allowed to have physical contact with students other than on a professional level (hand shakes, for instance).
However, during my 4th year (by then, I already knew my tc for about 1 year and took 3 semesters with him), I went to office hours on my birthday and handed him a box of chocolate (it's a common practice where I live). After he wished me a "happy birthday" and such, I asked if we could hug, and he agreed. It was short, with a pat on the back, and tbh, we both felt a bit uncomfortable. Now, almost 3 years later, we incorporated hugs in our daily greetings, and they feel more natural.
This hugging thing depends on many aspects, such as your school/university rules, cultural background, level of closeness with your tc and so on.
Personally, I suggest not to rush into physical contact, as it will come naturally when the right moment arises. However, if you are really willing to do it and don't want to feel silly if you initiate it and they do not reciprocate, you could simply ask, just as I did.
Hope my answer was helpful!
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