SheProspers

LOA, Law of Detachment, Mindset 101,for the girlies that wanna prosper all year

[theambitiouswoman]

Whimsical hobbies that rewire your brain✨

1. Flower arranging- Trains creativity. Slows your mind. Builds patience.

2. Journaling by candlelight- Processes emotions. Clears mental clutter. Calms your nervous system.

3. Painting or sketching- Shifts you out of overthinking. Activates imagination. Reduces stress.

4. Reading fiction Expands perspective. Improves focus. Strengthens empathy.

5. Learning a new language- Builds discipline. Sharpens memory. Boosts confidence.

6. Baking from scratch- Encourages presence. Creates structure. Feels rewarding.

7. Pilates or slow yoga- Regulates your body. Lowers cortisol. Improves mind body connection.

8. Tea rituals (slow mornings, loose leaf)- Creates calm. Builds routine. Signals safety to your body.

9. Gardening or caring for plants- Grounds your energy. Teaches consistency. Connects you to nature.

10. Playing music or singing- Releases emotion. Improves mood. Builds self expression.

11. Perfume layering- Awakens your senses. Builds identity. Anchors memories.

12. Scrapbooking or mood boards- Clarifies vision. Organizes thoughts. Boosts creativity.

13. Walking without your phone- Reduces overstimulation. Improves clarity. Regulates your mind.

14. Writing letters (even if unsent)- Releases emotions. Brings closure. Improves self awareness.

15. Dancing alone in your room- Shifts your mood. Releases tension. Builds confidence.

16. Cooking slowly, without rushing- Builds presence. Creates calm. Strengthens routine.

17. Digital detox evenings- Resets your brain. Improves sleep. Lowers anxiety.

18. Rearranging your space- Refreshes energy. Creates control. Sparks motivation.

19. Learning about herbs or natural remedies- Deepens connection to your body. Builds intuition. Encourages care.

20. Practicing handwriting or calligraphy- Improves focus. Slows your thoughts. Trains patience.

21. Watching the sunrise or sunset- Regulates your rhythm. Brings perspective. Creates peace.

22. Collecting small beautiful things (shells, books, fabrics)- Builds appreciation. Trains your eye for beauty. Grounds you.

23. Listening to instrumental music- Improves concentration. Calms your mind. Enhances creativity.

24. Taking yourself on solo dates- Builds independence. Strengthens self worth. Creates joy.

25. Thrifting or vintage shopping- Trains creativity. Builds personal style. Encourages mindful consumption.

26. Making your bed beautifully each morning- Creates discipline. Sets the tone. Builds self respect.

27. Practicing gratitude (out loud or written)- Shifts your mindset. Reduces stress. Attracts more positivity.

28. Learning to do your own hair or beauty rituals- Builds independence. Boosts confidence. Creates self trust.

29. Listening to podcasts while walking- Expands your mind. Builds focus. Makes learning effortless.

30. Sitting in silence (no music, no phone)- Resets your nervous system. Improves clarity. Strengthens inner peace.

31. Reading poetry- Softens your mind. Expands emotion. Deepens perspective.

32. Doing your skincare slowly- Builds presence. Reinforces self worth. Creates calm.

33. Listening to nature sounds- Regulates your nervous system. Reduces stress. Grounds you.

34. Organizing small spaces (drawers, bags)- Creates mental clarity. Builds discipline. Feels satisfying.

35. Learning slow, intentional breathing- Calms your body. Lowers anxiety. Improves focus.

36. Dressing up for no reason- Boosts confidence. Shifts your mood. Strengthens your identity.

It’s the little things 💞

[shaysplanet]

proving what you say goes even if you don’t fully believe it (with evidence)

if y’all still don’t believe what you say goes, i literally ordered my costume late, was told with physical TRACKING proof and evidence that my costume wouldn’t come until FIVE days after halloween.

saw that and decided “fuck you, it WILL be here on halloween” and am now seeing my costume on my fuckin’ bed while the tracking still says “delivering between nov 2nd and the 5th”

bruh… if that’s not proof enough that you just have to fucking persist. every single time you get that urge to “check” retell yourself the same story.

i’m using this as an example for why i know the law is true because my ass “wavered”! and STILL, NO FUCKING DELAY!!!

i got so disappointed when i initially saw the tracking come through as five days later!! even began bargaining a bit like, “well even if it does come at that point, i can still dress up and make vids” but NAHH!! i said “that’s not what i want though!!” and ignored everything else because i know my emotions do NOT manifest unless my assumption aligns with it.

so i want you to know your emotions are valid and you can address them without making them your assumption. understand that i was hella pissed looking at that email! but you know what i didn’t do? allow the 3D to dictate my circumstances.

i looked at that damn email AND LAUGHED!!! i told it to get tf on because i already KNEW what i wanted. you can use this for shifting. you can do this for anything you want. but just DO it. and do it now! you have no excuse!!!

[nyxcreate]

You must be willing to drop your old conceptions.

Close your eyes.

Or keep them open.

You may not be happy to hear this, but the past never happened. It literally did not.

There is no outer world.

You saw no money on bank acc? Your sp told you they hate your guts? You fucked up? You THINK it’s impossible to shift? None of that is real.

[urgurlgem-deactivated20240604]

Things to manifest\experience relationship edition[for girls obv]:

🩷Your man being billionaire 💲

🩷Your man being Mafia , owning casinos , hotels ,etc✋

🩷Your man having dark romance novel + big daddy vibes 🥵

🩷Your man buying you flowers everyday Your man loves planning dates[shopping ,dinning,spas,long car\bike rides , movie nights etc]and suprises for you always 🛍️

🩷Having cute height and age difference[tall guy+shortie girl]

🩷Your man buying you everything in the world you say 🖤

🩷Your man taking you on vacations frequently

🩷Your man's love language is texting you cute messages,giving you so many kisses ,hugging you ,making you feel safe,slow dance with you in kitchen while making food . eye contacts???yes😵‍💫

🩷Your man having old money + gangster vibes 💣

🩷Your man gives you the princess\goddess treatment always 👑

🩷Your man being masculine+ having Main character energy

🩷Having slow + quiet life yet intresting

🩷Your man being super loyal n only having eyes for you [she's mine typa love ]

🩷You thriving in your divine feminine energy [light \dark]

🩷His family loves you more than him lol 💅🏻

🩷Your relationship being inspo to others

MASTERLIST

Love 💎

[officialaudreykitching-deactiva]

‪Everything is going to work out beautifully, you will see. Even better than you imagined it. ‬

[oceane4loveu]

VICTORIA SECRET ANGEL ULTIMATE GLOW UP🩰

LONGER LASHES🎀

-USE CASTER/COCONUT OIL TO YOUR LASHES BEFORE BED

-MASSAGE YOUR EYELIDS TO STIMULATE GROWTH

-AVOID EYELASH CURLERS INSTEAD USE YOUR FINGERS

-USE COLD GREEN TEA TO YOUR EYELASHES WITH A COTTON BALL

-AVOID MAKEUP WIPES INSTEAD USE A BALM/OIL, MELTING SPRAY, OR MICELLAR WATER

WHITE TEETH☁️

-USE CREST WHITENING STRIPS

-TAKE A SPOONFUL OF COCONUT OIL FOR 10- 20 MINUTES

-USE A WHITENING MOUTHWASH

-START USING A WHITENING PEN

-BRUSH YOUR TEETH WITH BAKING SODA AND HYDROGEN PEROXIDE 3X A WEEK

-USE A CREST WHITENING TOOTHPASTE

SMOOTHER SKIN 🫧

-NEVER DRY SHAVE!!!

-USE A DRY BRUSH PR AN EXFOLIATE ROCK TO REMOVE DEAD SKIN

-PUT PLASTIC WRAP OVER VASELINE ON YOUR SKIN AND LEAVE IT ON FOR AN HOUR

-START USING BODY OIL AND BODY BUTTER AFTER A SHOWER

-USE A MENS RAZOR FOR A CLOSER SHAVE

-MAINTAIN A HEALTHY AND CONSISTENT DIET

-START USING SUGAR SCRUBS IN THE SHOWER

HEALTHY HAIR 🧺

-RESEARCH YOUR HAIR TYPE TO FIND THE BEST PRODUCTS FOR YOU

-START USING A SILK PILLOWCASE

-AVOID APPLYING HEAT TO YOUR HAIR

-STOP GOING TO SLEEP WITH WET HAIR

-WASH YOUR HAIR LESS OFTEN

-START USING A HAIR MASK IX A WEEK

-PROTECT YOUR HAIR WHILE SWIMMING

-START TAKING COLD SHOWERS

CLEAR SKIN 🧴

-WASH YOUR PILLOWCASE AND SHEETS EVERY SINGLE WEEK

-CLEAN YOUR MAKEUP BRUSHES ONCE A WEEK

-DRINK 2 LITERS OF WATER EVERYDAY

-INCORPORATE SPF IN YOUR DAILY SKINCARE

-EXFOLIATE 2-3X A WEEK

-AVOID GREASY FOOD IN YOUR DIET

-START ICING YOUR FACE EVERYDAY

-DO NOT FALL ASLEEP IN YOUR MAKEUP

-WASH YOUR FACE BEFORE/AFTER YOU WORK OUT

-RESEARCH YOUR SKIN TYPE

[msallurea]

I don't know who needs to hear this but when we say "act as if" we do not mean in the 3d of course of that's something you enjoy doing by all means do it. But to act as if is to do exactly what you would do if your desire was already fulfilled within IMAGINATION ONLY!! Since the 3d is only a mirror, everything that you'd want to do if your desire was fulfilled you do it all in imagination and you identify as the person who is experiencing all of that within imagination aka imagine it as true.

Also..when we say imagine we do NOT mean visualize. Imagining is LITERALLY by definition to imply an idea in one's mind with or without consideration or reflection aka to form a mental concept, image or idea aka TO SUPPOSE OR ASSUME!! you can easily do this without the need to visualize anything. You're imagining all the time. All YOU have to do is identify with whatever it is you desire to imagine aka "change your clothes" which is code for changing your state of consciousness.

But how do you change your clothes aka a state? Well first you "choose your outfit". What is it that you want to wear, in other words what do you want to identify as. For the sake of examples let's say your manifesting your dream life. Ok so now that I know what clothes (state) I want to wear (identify as), now it's time for me to put my clothes on. How to do that? Well I imagine what would it be like if it were true? What would I do? What would I say? How would I feel? This is where techniques come in to make it fun. You can say affirmations, visualize, script, inner convo, etc. And the moment you are done with doing this and you feel satisfied that is when you know it is done. But wait! What about the 3d? "I don't see anything". Yea that may be true you can't see anything but you know what else you can't see?? Dust..yet you know it's there. You can't see atoms yet you know it's there. You can see other people in front of you right now but you know there are people in the world. You can't see a cake in front of you yet you can imagine a cake and taste all it's flavors and smell its sweetness and everything. You see, you don't have to see anything outside of you to knowyhat you already have your desires. So..just like when we say "know that you already have your desires" and "it is already done" we are not talking about in the 3d that would be delusional. We mean know you have you desires in imagination because and don't worry about the 3d it is only neutral and it can't do anything unless YOU assume it does. Even then, you're still proving that YOU are not only a creator but that imagination is the real reality and the 3d is a mirror because who's to say your desire couldn't reflect the 4d within that same second and yet you flipped it and said "it's not working" and assumed the 3d wasn't reflecting your desire. Why are you worried about what a mirror is showing you if you can already see that you have what you want in imagination?

This is where persisting comes in. You don't persist to get something. You persist because you know you have what you want regardless of what is being shown outside of you. You continously choose to identify as something even when there is no evidence of it.

[heavenangelly]

Say yes

Do you want that guy/girl? They’re yours. Do you want to lose 50kgs in one day? You’ve already lost it. Do u want to be the most drop dead gorgeous person out there? You’re already them. Do you want to get transferred 30 million dollars right now? The moneys already there.

Manifesting is meant to be light hearted. Yes, sometimes some situations may seem stressful, but when you realise it can be solved instantly from imagination, the problem is gone. When manifesting, you’re not meant to struggle. You’re not meant to cry or whatever. It’s meant to be F U N.

When manifesting something, I notice I naturally say no to things that may seem impossible or something I really want to happen. And then the doubt will come in and I’d stop manifesting it. But as the god/creator of my reality, it literally can be yes. If I want it, why can’t I have it? I’m the only person saying no.

Everything is from you. So nothing cant be a yes unless you say it’s a no. YOU CREATE.

Never bar self. Never say no to yourself. If you want it, claim it as yours and don’t gaf what anyone else says or what the mirror is showing you. This is literally YOUR WORLD. Stop limiting yourself and instead be limitless. You’re literally the creator, the god of your reality. Learn to say yes to yourself. Learn to make yourself happy regardless of how “impossible” or “unrealistic” these things are. Because, who cares? If it makes you happy or it’s something you really want, SAY YES.

Don’t say no.

Say YES.

[yourmoonie]

DONT LIMIT YOURSELF

Your manifestation can get externalized in infinite ways (based on your beliefs)

Do u want white teeth?

- you might wake up with it

- you might get the money to book an appointment with your dentist

- You might get an offer out of thin air

- etc

So stop beating yourself up over the process and movement

Your life and circumstances are unique to you.

If someone "manifests" $5000 within 5 minutes, IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH ME or with any of my desires because I know that I will have mine and even better.

And YES you getting the money and booking an appointment with your dentist to whiten your teeth is a success story too.

Live your life! Live your best life!

And the same thing goes with appearance changes.

Ask yourself, "What would it be like to have my desired body? How would I feel if I had my desired white teeth?" Stop TRYING and start BEING

Maybe you want a new nose

- someone might offer you a free rhinoplasty or your body might make specific changes & many more

Just because you got an appointment and had a procedure done doesn't erase the fact that it was also a huge success story.

Be proud of yourself and celebrate your achievements.

[starryglitterdreams]

you can't want something you already have.

think about it. if you already had everything you ever wanted, would you still be thinking about "how" or "when" you're gonna get it? or worse, "am i going to get it?" it doesn't make sense at all.

that's also why so many loa bloggers have been repeatedly saying that if you are in the state of the wish fulfilled, you would literally NOT be concerned about the 3d or anything else. you focus entirely ONLY on your imagination and fulfil yourself there. regardless of what you see in the 3d, you won't be fazed at all because you KNOW that imagination is the only reality, so the 3d has to INEVITABLY morph and reshuffle to reflect your imagination.

if you already have your desires, you WOULDN'T be:

asking if you're gonna get it

asking where is it

asking when and how you're gonna get it

constantly dwelling upon the LACK of your desires

accepting the 3d as final

[glitzreyasblog]

𝐆𝐋𝐈𝐓𝐙𝐑𝐄𝐘𝐀’𝐒 𝐂𝐇𝐄𝐀𝐓 𝐒𝐇𝐄𝐄𝐓 𝐅𝐎𝐑 𝐓𝐇𝐄 3𝐃

NEED TO STUDY FOR THE EXAM THAT IS PERFECTING YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH THE 3D? THIS CUTE LITTLE CHEAT SHEET HAS GOT YOU COVERED! ───♡───

KEY PHRASES & CONCEPTS

• to change the world you must change self

• the 3D cant change if there's nothing new to reflect

• why seek something from the 3D when you can give it to yourself instantly?

• the 3D cant create on its own, nor can it deny you of your desires

• it’s never about changing the outside world, fulfillment is all about changing how you feel. if you’re imagining for the sole purpose of getting something in the 3D then you’re wasting your effort

FORMULA

change in self + persistence in your new identity/assumption = change in the 3D

THE RELATIONSHIP

you and the 3D are NOT separate. the 3D is a reflection of you. when people say you can’t change it, they’re referring to the fact that you as the outer man can change absolutely nothing. that is because the only way to change anything is through the inner man. change is created in the outer world when change is created in the inner world. so don’t try to directly change the 3D, it’s pointless, you know it is. don’t every try to change the 3D without bothering to change self. if you were to look into a mirror and hate the clothes you have on, you would simply change your outfit. you wouldn’t try to get the mirror to change your clothes. the mirror can’t change anything for you, it can only show you what you are. that goes for the 3D as well. the 3D is the mirror, it can only ever reflect you (and only you). so the 3D isn’t what you should be trying to change. the 3D is aligned with you, it’s never something different from you.

RESOURCES

amazing posts on tumblr that’ll help encourage and motivate you! read these when you feel a little lost :)

it’s okay to acknowledge…

there’s no excuse!

you want proof?

learn indifference

where I go in imagination…

always return to fulfillment

neville’s army story

the 4D is the only real reality

REMINDERS

keep yourself in check!!

from piercedblunt’s blog

from cinefairy’s blog

from sexydreamgirl’s anon

from sexydreamgirl’s blog

GOOD LUCK! YOU GOT THIS! :) ───♡───────

[loadreams]

𝙻𝚒𝚖𝚒𝚝𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚋𝚎𝚕𝚒𝚎𝚏𝚜 𝚘𝚗 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝚌𝚘𝚖𝚖𝚞𝚗𝚒𝚝𝚢

Aɴᴅ ʜᴏᴡ ᴛʜᴇʏ ᴄᴀɴ ᴍᴀᴋᴇ ʏᴏᴜʀ ʟᴏᴀ ᴊᴏᴜʀɴᴇʏ ʜᴀʀᴅ

ⓉⒽⒺ ⒷⒺⓈⓉ Ⓜ︎ⒺⓉⒽⓄⒹ

On tiktok you can constantly see videos telling you that you NEED to try an specific method in order to manifest. That’s bs, these “coaches” keep telling you that so they can create more videos and get more money selling the “best method” (everyday they come up with a different one)

Also, the “affirm and persist” wave and the obsession with states can be just as toxic!!! Like on tiktok, when you give power to outer things, you’re not embracing your true power, which is you!

You guys give way too much power to the void state… when you finally understand that it’s inside you (YOU create it)and tapping into it is basically just being your pure self (pure conscious) you’ll be GAGGED

No, you don’t need to do a specific method to get your desires, the power is within YOU!! If you wanna try a method do what feels more comfortable for you, YOU MAKE THE RULES, not the coaches you follow. There’s no superior method, they’re all just placebo

ⓄⓇⒶⒸⓁⒺⓈ

Ok, tough love:

1. If you believe in loa and the power within you why do you want to check your “fate” or “predestined future”????

2. If you’re doing “everything right” like you claim you do, then WHY are you checking if it’s gonna happen or not? Weren’t you living in the end??? Isn’t it already done??

Remember, loa is not a 50% chance thing! It is 100% guaranteed, so STOP looking for 3D validation

ⓁⒺⓉⓉⒾⓃⒼ ⒼⓄ

Very typical law of attraction belief…

On loa, there’s no divine timing and waiting for the universe to give your desires… the problem here is, again, giving power to an outer thing

The only letting go you have to do is to detach from the 3D and being so impatient and desperate

ⒶⒻⒻⒾⓇⓂ︎ⒾⓃⒼ Ⓜ︎ⒺⒶⓃⓈ ⓁⒶⒸⓀ

You’re not affirming to get your desires. You’re affirming to remind yourself that you already have your desires!!! It just does the work of a method. Affirming is a method, what’s wrong with that?

Repeating: it is a method. Don’t rely on it!! The power is within YOU, you’re just using it as placebo to help to persist in your assumptions

ⓄⓃⒺ ⒶⒻⒻ ⒶⓉ Ⓐ ⓉⒾⓂ︎Ⓔ

Ok wtf

I know a coach who says that your mind is going to get saturated IF you repeat one affirmation only for your subconscious to process… and if you’re doing more at a time then it’s gonna be harder to saturate your subconscious

This is stupid because:

1. You make the rules to your manifestation journey

2. Assumptions manifest, not affirmations

3. By affirming, what counts is the intention you’re setting!!

4. Your subconscious is not dumb, if you’re affirming different affs but the intention is the same, it WILL get saturated

One or a million types of affirmations have the same effect on your subconscious!!! Choose what feels better to YOU

This also applies to negative tense affirmations (I don’t, it’s not, etc.). People started assuming that your subconscious doesn’t understand the denial words… again, the INTENTION is what counts, stop assuming these “rules”

Do what feels comfortable to you, there are no rules to it, don’t overcomplicate it

Ⓜ︎ⒺⒶⓃⓉ ⓉⓄ ⒷⒺ

Hm… also very typical law of attraction belief

There are no “meant to be” manifestations. There’s not something that’s not supposed to happen in your life… you’re in charge! There’s no such thing as destiny

You decide your future and how things are going to happen for you. There’s absolutely nothing that you can’t afford

ⓉⒽⓄⓊⒼⒽⓉⓈ/ Ⓜ︎ⒺⒹⒾⒶ Ⓜ︎ⒶⓃⒾⒻⒺⓈⓉ

Stop trying to control your thoughts, they don’t manifest! Don’t feel guilty about them!

States manifest, not thoughts (they only reflect your state, don’t give them power)

Also, you don’t need to avoid consuming negative things! Yes, you can listen to sad songs, watch horror movies, etc!

As long as you don’t relate to them and don’t give them power… it’s all in your head, so stop giving power to outer things

ⓉⒽⒺ ⓇⒾⒼⒽⓉ ⓉⒽⒾⓃⒼ

Yes you’re doing everything right!! You’re GOD, how can you fail?

Stop waiting for when you’re “perfect” and “100% sure”. The moment is NOW! Nothing magical is about to happen and you can’t keep waiting for a miracle to happen! You are the miracle

Just assume and persist!! Do it in your own way and stop looking for others’ validation. You just need your validation and focus on what feels right to you ♡´･ᴗ･`♡

You can do it! Stop looking for 3D validation and doubting yourself!

[babygothprincess]

Manifesting Isn’t: 🚫

1. Affirm to get something

2. Look for it outside of you

3. See it’s not there and then the cycle continues 🔄

Manifesting IS: 👇🏻

Affirming to change who you are on the inside and to change who you’re being, mentally becoming the version of you who has it, and not worrying about what you see because who you are is what manifests

If I affirm I have thick thighs and then check and say “no I don’t” “they’re still not here” “it didn’t work” I’m not mentally the version of me who has thick thighs, I’m mentally the version of me who’s saying I have thick thighs but then checking to see if it’s true and using the 3D as validation instead of myself 🚫 🩷 🚫

The version of me who has thick thighs would think I have thick thighs and if I saw my thighs I’d think “they’re thick” and move on with my day, I wouldn’t see them and go “they’re still not thick” or “it didn’t work” do you see what I mean? 🩷

You are ‘manifesting’ the mindset, not the results, you are changing who you are on the inside, your only job is to change the inside of your mind, your only job is to change who you’re being, you can say money affirmations to change who you are on the inside and to become the version of you who thinks how you want about money 🩷 But if you’re saying affirmations and then checking to see if they worked and then starting the cycle over you’re not changing who you are on the inside and that’s your only job, your only job is to think like you would if you had it (which you do) because if you have something mentally you do have it 🩵 🩵 🩵 Your mind is what’s real and what pushes out when you stick to something and mentally become it 🦋 🦋 🦋 That’s why there are celebrities who go from nothing to being rich and famous, in their minds they mentally became rich and famous, they started mentally BEING what they wanted to be and it came true, because it has to, it’s the law 📖

If you say your waist is 19 inches and you have the body of a cartoon you have to stick to that mentally and mentally BE that version of you 🧠 Because if you had a 19 inch waist you’d just know you have it and you wouldn’t need to check the mirror because you’re used to having it and you wouldn’t do anything but just BE

Manifesting is just changing who you are on the inside, mentally becoming the version of you who has it, manifesting is just changing your self concept to what you want it to be, it’s changing who you are on the INSIDE and that’s your only job, the 3D doesn’t matter and shouldn’t be a part of the equation, it follows who you’re being, so focus on who you’re being, not on what you’re seeing 🩵 🩵 🩵 That’s your only job, mentally changing who you’re being and who you are on the inside, and leaving the 3D alone because it’s irrelevant 💜⭐️

If you look in the mirror and see your old body don’t let it bug you or think it’s not working, it literally doesn’t matter, all that matters is who you’re being, so keep mentally being that version of you who has a 19 inch waist or whatever else you want, because it’s who you are on the inside that manifests, that’s why when I was younger I always told myself I had such beautiful curvy legs 👠 And I didn’t know about manifesting but I would still tell myself “I have beautiful curvy legs” because that’s what I liked and I had such beautiful curvy legs I looked like a pin up doll 😍 Because that’s who I was mentally being 🩵 🩵 🩵 I recommend watching this video about manifesting appearance changes and using her advice for anything you want, it’s the same advice I’m giving here 💜 💜 💜

Mentally being the version of you who has it is all you have to do, and you have to stay there, because if you had a car you wouldn’t say it’s not here or where is it, you’d just have a car and that’s IT! It’s that easy 🩵

[csuitebitches]

Why Practicing Your Dream Self Privately is so Important

We all have versions of ourselves we want to be. Let’s call her “She.” 

She may be smart, beautiful, oh-so-sophisticated, knows exactly what She’s doing when walks into a room full of unknown people, accomplished…everything you’re aching to be. 

You’re struggling to achieve Her because you’re not used to being Her. You keep that version 2.0 of yourself in your thoughts but you don’t practice it irl. 

Not practicing it means that when you suddenly have to turn on your charm or have to remember etiquette in the presence of company, you can’t seem to recall those practices. Perhaps you might even feel uncomfortable, shy or awkward trying to remember all those talking points you had noted down, the “elegant gestures” that one tiktoker talks about constantly… suddenly you’re wondering how on Earth you can leave this godawful event without seeming rude. 

The problem is lack of practice. You’re so used to sitting on your couch at home with your legs spread wider than a man on a metro seat that it feels uncomfortable to now sit in a mannered way at the office dinner with the important employees. Your stomach is so used to gobbling down food without patience that you look longingly at the bread basket longer than the person seated in front of you. 

So therefore, if at home you’re not used to being even half of your best self, how are you going to feel fully confident when you’re supposed to bring “Her” out?

Obviously being fully dolled up at home makes little sense. But if you don’t practice the manners, the behaviour, the etiquette of Her - how will you comfortably transition into Her?

Do you expect to just wake up someday and become Her? Do you not think that it will take time, energy, practice to get what you want?

No amount of senseless manifesting or daydreaming is going to make your dreams come true. 

Certain habits, gestures, expressions will only come naturally to you when you make them natural to yourself by way of practice. 

You’ve read enough, saved and liked enough posts, you’ve learned all the mumbo jumbo theory to getting your life together but it’s all useless if you don’t put your learnings to practice irl.  

[nailisaa]

YOUR OBVIOUS REMINDER THAT THE 3D RN DOESN’T FUCKING MATTER!! IT ONLY SHOWS YOUR PAST ASSUMPTIONS AND WILL CATCH UP BABE!!! KEEP LIVING IN THE END IN YOUR IMAGINATION!!! THE 4D IS THE TRUE REALITY, NOT WHATEVER BULLSHIT CIRCUMSTANCES YOU’RE SEEING. KEEP GOING, I DON'T GIVE A FUCKKK IF YOU'RE AN AFFIRM & PERSIST OR A STATES GIRLY BOTH WILL WORK IF YOU BELIEVE IT DOES, DON'T QUESTION IT!! AND DON'T OVERCOMPLICATE THE PROCESS... YOU DON'T HAVE TO "WORK HARD" FOR IT OR WHATEVER REQUIREMENT TIKTOK SAYS YOU NEED! THIS IS YOUR MF REALITY, WHATEVER YOU SAY GOES. AND STOP WORRYING SM, THE LOA WORKS, YOU CAN NOT AND WILL NEVER FAIL!!!

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I wanted to share some things I've manifested. There's more I've done. So there will be part 2 in my future posts.

Manifesting men into my life.

Finding random love letters on my car. Just from walking by men or being in a store.

My affirmations

All men are instantly attracted to me.

That guy right there likes me and wants to date me.

That guy wants my number, he's going to give me his number.

That guy thinks I'm so beautiful.

All men want to date me

I'm so beautiful and the prettiest.

Manifest my desired phone. (Samsung Ultra 22)

I ended up trading my old phone in for my desired phone. And out of nowhere, there was a sale going on that day. I ended up paying nothing for it. And my phone company upgraded my phone plan at no charge.

My affirmations

Yep, it's mine.

I can afford it.

I love my new phone.

I have my new phone

It's the prettiest phone I've ever owned.

Another thing I did is I kept looking at the website and pretended I was shopping for it. And I put it in my cart and pretended I purchased it.

Desired Body

I lost 15 lbs in less than a week. With no change in diet or my exercise routine.

I did drink more water as a placebo effect. (Diet loss tool) I believed it worked because I already have this as my dominant thought. My thought of drinking tons of water will help me show quicker results.

I kept looking into my mirror by saying these

Affirmations

Omg I am so freaking skinny.

I am losing so much weight.

I can't believe how amazing I look.

I look so happy and healthy.

My SP

I've been feeling super closer and building a stronger and closer relationship with my Sp.

Affirmations

My sp loves being my best friend.

I love being my sp best friend.

My sp loves sharing everything with me.

I love sharing everything with my sp.

My sp loves talking to me everyday.

I love talking to my sp everyday.

My sp thinks about me all the time.

I think about my sp all the time.

My sp is comfortable around me

My sp says I am the only woman he wants to be with for the rest of his life.

My desired job

They hired me with no experience or a degree in this field. I'm a patient at this place and they said they were looking for someone to fill in and if I was interested. I said YES! PLEASE!

Affirmations

I don't remember affirming. But I just knew that I would be working there and feeling how amazing it would be to work here. I guess I was living in the end. As if I was already working there. 🥰

Manifested today a free coffee from Starbucks. I Affirmed today hm I wonder if I can manifest a free coffee. The lady said to me as I was purchasing a bag of coffee and I was also going to pay for a coffee to stay here so I can blog this post. She said you know I can just use your coffee out of this bag so you won't need to pay for the vente 👏😁 There are no big or small manifestations. There's no time limit. Everything you want is yours. 💋

Life is easy, life is simple. As soon as I say something I want, I instantly can have it.

[taylorrussell4eva]

The World Is Your Oyster

When manifesting I tend to forget that the world is my oyster. No, THE WORLD IS MY OYSTER. Doubts can play a role in your manifestations. But do they have to? Not at all.

When I say you're in control of everything, I mean you're in control of every. single. thing. Know your power. You're not limited to manifest only certain things and you're not bound to something you don't want to be. If you want a car, "I have a car". Do not obsess. Live your life like its over. If you already have it why are you looking for it?

One enemy for me is the 3D. ("real life") For the longest it used to make me doubt. I couldn't even affirm in peace anymore because of the fact that if I didn't see it magically appear then "manifestation wasn't real". Ignore the 3D. The more you get used to it the less stressful everything will become. Go into the state of someone that doesn't give a fuck about the 3D because they know that they have everything they could ever want. You may not see it right now but your subconscious doesn't know that. It just eats what you feed it. If you're feeding your subconscious with "I'm so ugly", then that's exactly what the case will be. It cannot tell good or bad. It just eats what its fed.

That's why you need to work on self concept. Start with:

I am a master manifestor

I can control anything and everything

What can't I do?

"I want it, I got it"

I never worry about the 3D

It may sound unnatural at first, but trust me it's worth it. You'll get used to it. And don't forget the most important steps,

Affirm and persist.

Don't pay attention to the 3D

xoxo, val <3