Here are 10 steps of moving on based on the stories of other people and my experiences:
Acceptance. This must be the first one. Accepting the fact that “it’s over” starts after the denial stage.
Forgive the one who hurt you. It is necessary to forgive him/her in time because if you won’t, and if anger will dominate your heart, you will never be happy again.
Forgive yourself. You have also to forgive yourself because you did not want it to happen, and you have to accept that life has many reasons why it happened.
Learn to unlearn. This is the hardest part, and it takes the longest time for you to do this. You need to detach yourself from all the things that would remind of the person you love.
Move on. Now, you’re ready to move on with your life. Just think that maybe everything has a purpose. Sometimes we were never meant to someone, or maybe we were not supposed to be with him/her.
Acceptance (2nd Phase). Accept that everything happened was just a memory that won’t change, and never ever set (even single) expectations.
Love yourself. This is the best part. Be busy, smile and be inspired. Most importantly, bring back your pride.
The End. You’ll know if it is totally over when you see him/her with or without his/her new one, you will not get hurt. Remember, it was just only a memory. If you succeed, then you can say you’ve totally moved on.
New Beginnings. You are ready to be friends again with him/her, BUT remember, it’s your CHOICE to preserve the friendship (both parties). Meet new friends or go for dates, and explore with new people and environment.
New Love. If everything is alright, and you are not feeling a single pain anymore, you are ready to love and take risks again. Life is too short for all the drama. Never frown, for you will never know who’s in love with your smile.
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