mentally (ch)ill

23 year old sad bitch

[repotting]

the “holding out as married” rule is so fucked up

like… not only can I not marry the love of my life without losing my health insurance and the $800 or so a month I’m forced to survive on

but I can’t even CALL her “my wife” casually

like literally the US gov’t has people whose job it is to go and interview the family, friends, & neighbors of disabled people to just make sure that they never refer to anyone in their life as “my wife” or “my husband” etc

and if you DO, then SNAP! You’re defrauding the US gov’t of the pittance you can barely survive on and you are no longer entitled to your disability benefits

(some kinds of benefits might remain in diminished form but if you were disabled before age 22 you are fucked COMPLETELY and can’t get them back even if you divorce… the only loophole is if the other person was ALSO deemed disabled before 22, because that fucking makes sense)

and this is just… legal and no one but disabled activists ever talks about this shit

so yeah I’d love some of that gay marriage shit but I will never be able to get married, and to add insult to injury, I can’t even casually refer to my partner as “my wife” without risking the health insurance and income I need to survive as a disabled lesbian

[kelpforestdwellers]

this is what we mean when we say the USA does NOT have marriage equality yet

[twitterlols]

[academiabutmakeitdiverse]

[oviids]

i just remembered the fire nation post-conquest was canonically homophobic

[oviids]

which means—assuming he got rid of it along with other oppressive laws when he became fire lord—

Zuko literally said gay rights

[legsdemandias]

ADHD and autism is basically being considered rude for the dumbest reasons

[mooncalamari]

those reasons are usually 1. ADHD/autistic person didn’t literally read your mind for the Correct Social Cue(s) 2. ADHD/autistic person has a need or a boundary that doesn’t actually harm anyone, but it’s not a Correct Social Cue thing so you think they shouldn’t

[buildarocketboys]

3. ADHD/autistic person forgot/didn't realise/doesn't know/is just too damn tired to perform the Correct Tone

[bumblebeerror]

4. ADHD/autistic got excited that you were actually listening to them talk and now they’re Wrong because they got Too Loud and Need To Calm Down

[cybercrime-the-digital-criminal]

5. ADHD/Autistic person didn't get the instructions because it takes a moment for them to Process Things TM so they ask again just to make sure, and they end up getting yelled at instead of getting actual help because They Should Have Known Better and Payed Attention The First Time

[sabertoothwalrus]

I’ve realized my Ideal Outfit is this:

button-ups, high-waisted jeans, and Docs. You literally can’t go wrong.

it’s perfect. you can dress it up or down. it’s flattering on any body type. it’s the perfect amount of androgynous, and it even has Femme and Masc variants:

Right now I’m wearing a botanical print blouse I thrifted off etsy and it’s from the 90s so it has shoulder pads sewn in. fuckin sweet is what it is

[kokoo-art]

to anyone who says that their body type wouldn’t look flattering in this sense of style- i am plus sized and am a firm believer you can wear anything you waNt and yoU caN WeaR thIs and LoOk AmAZinG

PHOTO EVIDENCE !!! YOU CAN WEAR THIS !!!!!

[sabertoothwalrus]

YESSSSS I saw some tags saying they didn’t think they were “skinny enough” to pull off this look when I clearly said it’s flattering on any body type cause it’s a good ass look !!!

[ghost-roads]

The gay community in 2012 : our sexuality does not define us, we are more than just “gay”, we have a personality just like the rest of you, how dare you reduce us to a label, to a stereotype-

The gay community today : you know what that’s a lie, we are gays first and human beings second

[cloudrot]

This post does not apply to t*rfs, and does include trans lesbians

[butchfagminotaur]

[captainholt]

old happy lesbian couples reblog if u agree

[vampyregfs]

Do you know how many young girls identify with the word gay because this society treats “lesbian” as something bad and sexual and dirty and secret. Honestly fuck that , and dear twelve year old self : lesbian is not a bad word it’s a beautiful one

[peche-en-fleurs-deactivated2019]

[sapphicsandlavenders]

Hot take

[valer1an]

hozier hits different when you’re gay and yearning and the world feels apocalyptic huh

[cornrowe-deactivated20190502]

[powerfulwizard]

The reason Donkey Kong is so supportive of the LGBT community is because his mom is a lesbian

[sapphicvevo]

im GAY and FERAL and ROMANTIC. im a triple threat babey!