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[fandomsoda]

Making a post like this since I wasn’t able to find one but-

introjects are allowed to be upset when something bad happens to their source, actually!

introjects are also allowed to be upset if you’re rude about their source. I think they’re allowed to be upset at you for being a dick about the very thing that inspired their existence. (within reason)

introjects do not have to source-separate! A certain degree of separation is necessary to function, but asking an introject to just force source separation when they do not want it is not only rude, but also incredibly harmful! It can be really damaging.

source separation is a personal choice! Not a requirement. Hell, some introjects have the emotions and complexities surrounding their source baked into them as a part of how they function and who they are. It’s not possible for every introject to source-separate.

Introjects are allowed to feel strongly about the things that have influenced their existence, whether it be simple loose inspiration or being the exact body and life they lived in. End of discussion.

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[kimthemangoguy]

i think we should be more considerate about how we talk about introjects

i see a lot of silly posts like "unfortunately we split a fictive" or "enjoying a show trying not to introject a character" and like. it seems kinda rude to assign shamefulness to introjection compared to your brain just splitting someone without a source

i know there's a lot of reasons people feel this way, just saying to keep in mind that this can hurt headmates within your system and outside of it, and can contribute to them feeling unsafe to talk/front or adds to their stress if they feel like they shouldnt exist, both counterproductive to them just, idk healing or enjoying life in general

[sodapillz]

How TikTok users treat every Cluster B disorder:

NPD: Scapegoat

ASPD: Scapegoat

BPD: Scared baby lamb

HPD: wut?

[that-cluster-b-bitch]

actually there's nothing wrong with being mentally ill. you can be narcissistic, you can be psychopathic, you can be delusional, you can be insane, you can be bipolar, you can be whatever the hell it is you are. you don't need to make your mental illness pretty to be worth being here. the fact that you've made it this far is amazing and you deserve happiness and I'm sorry that the world we're in is too ableist to recognize that.

[simpforsix]

people will be like "oh aspd/npd makes people evil! it's so scary!" and then you see someone with those disorders and they're literally just a guy

[youlookkindadead]

bitches with bpd be like : are you mad at me??? (worrisome)

bitches with npd be like : are you mad at *me*?? (accusatory)

bitches with aspd be like : Are you mad at me? (curious)

bitches with hpd be like : omg are you mad at meeeee (teasing)

if youre reading this please help me avoid starvation by boosting my mutual aid post

[equalperson]

[autopsyfreak]

trying to explain that cluster b disorders don’t make anyone inherently ‘evil’ to people on the internet.

[ivy-is-dreaming]

I’m probably going to get hate for this, but i’m tired of seeing people with ASPD romanticizing "free cruelty".

Let’s be real: having ASPD doesn’t force you to be cruel for no reason.

​If you have ASPD and you’re a complete asshole, then you’re just an asshole.

The disorder might explain why you don't feel guilt or why you’re impulsive, but it doesn't hold a gun to your head and make you go out of your way to ruin someone’s day.

Conscience and conduct are two different things. Plenty of people with this diagnosis manage to exist without being toxic, if you can't, that’s a personality flaw, not a symptom.

I’m just tired of seeing people use their lack of empathy as a justification for being a bottom-tier human being.

I know it’s hard sometime. I deal with the same impulses, the same problems. But having those urges isn’t the same as acting on them. Not feeling empathy doesn’t remove the ability to recognize harm and choose not to cause it especially when its just free and without reasons.

Cognitive empathy exists for a reason, you can understand that an action is shitty without needing to feel the other person's pain.

If you choose to be a jerk because you think your diagnosis justifies it, you’re just proving everyone’s worst stereotypes right.

Lack of empathy isn’t a free pass. If you understand something is harmful and do it anyway, that’s a choice. You can have zero feelings and still have enough logic to not be a nightmare to everyone around you.

One is a neurodivergence, the other is a choice.

[that-cluster-b-bitch]

people will really be like "erm, actually, if you don't feel empathy then you're a horrible, evil, manipulative person 🥺 👉👈" and then be the literal worst person you have ever had the misfortune of encountering.

[the-bonfires-ember]

fellow narcissists, sociopaths, and psychopaths,

we're going to hear those words being thrown around a lot over the next few years. more than we already do, which is not an insubstantial amount. i want you to remember that you are not monsters, or fascists, or scum.

as more and more people throw around diagnoses they do not care to understand and words that they do not see as harmful, i want you all to remember that you are not alone and that the entire world is not against you.

there are people out there who care and understand and are not afraid. you are not alone, and you are not unloved.

dont let them make you fearful of yourself, you deserve so much better than that.

stay safe

[equalperson]

it's always sad when I see people with psychological disabilities (most often PDs) say things like "i don't feel attraction but i'm trying to" or "i can't love, how do i fix this?"

genuinely, if you don't feel attraction (of any sort! not just sexual), consider that you're A-spec!! being traumatized does not mean you cannot be A-spec, just like it doesn't mean you can't be gay or trans!

the idea that you need to "fix" your attraction to be "mentally healthy" is an anti-LGBT myth, although one that's unfortunately still common in regards to A-spec folks.

and even if you are actually allosexual/-romantic/-platonic and you'll (re)develop attraction as you recover, there is literally no good in forcing yourself to feel it; forcing intimacy is unhealthy, encourages self-loathing when you inevitably don't enjoy it, and leaves you incredibly vulnerable to abuse.

if you're going to feel attraction one day, it'll happen without pressure. if you're not going to experience attraction, no amount of pressure will make it happen. A-spec or not, you've gotta let yourself be in this regard.

[proxima-centauri-ii]

psych2go ruined my perception of neurodivergency tbh. i used to watch them a lot when i was younger before i realized “lol these bitches are actually spreading misinformation” and so i thought npd and aspd were the “evil disorders”, “the “dark triad” was a thing, your handwriting “revealed things about your personality”, that “dark empaths” existed… jesus christ. fuck pop psychology!!

[carnage-cathedral]

btw guys managing your symptoms also means apologizing for things you didn't mean to do. sometimes you do things because of your disorders that you genuinely didn't mean to do, but if it hurt someone you still have to take accountability and make up for the hurt you caused

[sodapillz]

If you’re really a “mental health advocate”, you’ll have to acknowledge people who lack empathy, people who can’t physically care about other people, people who are narcissistic and/or self serving, people who have homicidal thoughts, people who are extreme attention seekers, people who have unstable and erratic emotions, etc etc…

Mental health advocacy doesn’t stop at disorders you “just don’t like”.

[disabirbity]

Reminder that political figures, abusers, bigots and general bad people aren't "delusional", "brain-dead", "narcissistic" or "psychotic" for the horrible things they do.

They're assholes. Or arrogant. Or power hungry. Or abusive. Or bigoted. Or heavily biased. Or criminals. Or violent. Or aggressive. Or out of touch. Or genocidal. Or any other descriptive word for what they're doing that doesn't make an already stigmatised symptom any more demonised.