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I have to stop giving so much of a shit about what the people around me are doing. Their bad choices are not mine. I need to stop being so angry and giving off such negative vibes and just focus on me, my happiness and my own choices.

From this day on, I am #1.

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The less I needed, the better I felt.

Charles Bukowski (via makeandgather)

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Is it just me or is the “body positive” movement not working? Like at all?

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Other people have said this before/better, but the problem was presenting all women as beautiful as opposed to eliminating the need for women to be beautiful

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It’s not working because the focus is STILL on trying to view yourself as attractive no matter how you look, instead of (as stated above) eliminating the need to feel “attractive.“

The body positive movement SHOULD be focused on bodily autonomy and taking care of your health. The best way to be “positive” toward your body is to treat it well, not by repeating some “I am beautiful” mantra over and over. You don’t have to be pretty. You don’t have to see yourself as pretty. Others don’t have to see you as pretty. PRETTY IS NOT IMPORTANT. Pretty is not your worth. You exist for you, not for anyone else’s gaze.