Ho Hum

Passively opinionated. Please disagree with me and move on.

[summerstarsandsea]

GUYS GUYS GUYS

I JUST REALIZED WHAT TODAY IS

[summerstarsandsea]

This has gotten 180+ notes in an hour and the number of people who have tagged it with #noice makes me emotional

[microphonefiend]

bae: come over

me: i can’t, i’m in 16th century japan

bae: i’m home alone

me:

[sidology]

“haha what would u do if i was in that coffin with u? ;)” - white boy paying respects at a girl’s funeral, probably

[soo-basic-alii-deactivated20171]

This is Babies. He has a mustache, and a M on his forehead. He enjoys cheetos from my plate, and watching the faucet drip.

[dare-i-say-asexual]

its super mario

[e-seal-deactivated20210319]

[the-affectionate-boy]

Sooo I found this, gave me a hearty chuckle, 

[wagnetic]

*startled wheeze*

[80s-biker-deactivated20180614]

@infamouslydorky

*sobs*

[consivanqueen]

A Land Without Guns: How Japan Has Virtually Eliminated Shooting Deaths

[instagram]

The Hamster from Japan Who Can’t Get Enough of Snack Time

Follow @sou_ham to make sure you never miss one of Kuzuki’s — or Uzuki’s! (the other hamster in the family) — adventures.

Hello, world! It’s time for another dose of #WeeklyFluff. Meet Kuzuki (@sou_ham), a happy hamster from Japan who has been described as a “small vacuum cleaner.”

[sailor-brunette-moved]

Kill the mentality that a female character is “weak” if she is in love with a man. Love is not weakness.

Also kill the mentality that a female character is “weak” if she is kind and sweet. Kindness is not weakness either.

[nookling]

[chibird]

I really think the world could use some light and positivity today. I have no words for all the tragedies occurring around the globe, so please have this positive bunny instead. 💛

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[ostolero]

when people like and reblog your posts

[kristenraemiller]

For the month of October ‘til Halloween, my dad changes up the scene of these 2 skeletons on his front porch each day for the neighbors to check out. Very creative!

[novak-cas]

Peaceful times before the skeleton war

[simplyixia-blog]

me and my husband in our 170s

[405blazeitt]

i hate the trope of kids giving their favorite stuffed animal to a younger child as a sign of compassion and coming of age, as if this is something that should be expected of kids as they grow up

im 22 and i dont care who you are you’ll have to pry my ikea shark out of my cold dead hands

[dotdollplushies]

I can’t remember the name of the study, but there was a theory, supported by pretty good evidence, that if you have your comforter, be it blanket, plush, pacifier, whatever, taken away when you’re not ready to give it up, even if you’re a dinky little kid, it can have really long lasting effects. People who kept their comforters into adulthood were less likely to smoke, drink or do drugs, tended to have better family relations and home lives etc, while those that saw their comforter removed or destroyed were more likely to be drawn to more serious “comforts” elsewhere. The more extreme the removal, the more extreme the result. Typically.

We learn at our own pace to make and break connections and emotional ties, and the situation is forced upon us, we seek comfort. But whoa wait, you can’t possibly have comfort anymore, you’re five. You’re a big kid now.

So when parents are forcing you to “grow up” by tearing the only comfort in the world from you, they could actually be messing you up big time.

[star-anise]

In psychology they’re called “transitional objects” and they help the neurobiological process of helping children learn to internalize the experience of being loved and cared for, which is an essential part of learning to regulate your emotions.  They are REALLY important.

[imnotevilimjustwrittenthatway]

I wonder what it means psychologically that I’ve started getting a few more for myself?

[star-anise]

Well, there’s a process we call “re-parenting yourself” where you give yourself the love you missed out on in childhood, and thereby start to heal the pain you’ve carried since then.  And using childhood comfort objects can be part of that.

[teaboot]

You can wrestle Papa Bear from my mummified skeleton hands, you bastard sons of bitches

[niambi]

Im honestly not understanding where the disconnect is…like why do men undervalue platonic relationships with women? if a woman is not into you sexually or romantically but wants to be your friend why is that seen as some sort of cheap consolation prize….also theirs the gross thing that men do where they take you (as a woman) saying “no, i just wanna be friends” as some sort of challenge, or obstacle to be overcome…like they’ll be your friend with the motive of convincing you that your feelings were wrong and that you do actually have romantic feelings for them.

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

I know people who feel like they’ve wasted their lives because of poor choices. They’ve spent years in a relationship that was toxic, years with an addiction, years at a job that wasn’t fulfilling. But you have to realize nothing you have been through is ever wasted. Your past experiences - good and bad - have deposited something on the inside of you. Those challenges have sharpened you to help make you who you are today.

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[comingupforblair]

“How are people supposed to write comedy if it’s not offensive?”

[sandflake]

I dearly wish that people would view their bodies as they view flowers…

Veins everywhere?

gorgeous~

Skin patches? Birthmarks?

hella rad~

Scars? Stretch marks?

beautiful~

Freckles? Moles? Acne scars?

heckie yeah~

Large? Curvy?

lovely~

Small? Thin?

charming~

Missing a few pieces?

handsome as ever~

Feel like you just look weird?

you’re fantastic looking~

[mymindcontinuestobecomeabstract]

THIS is the best post ever. 

[herokind-archive]

THIS.