to the girl with boy problems..
everyone. e v e r y o n e. has baggage. absolutely no one - i repeat,Ā
N O Ā O N EĀ
is perfect. everyone has a couple skeletons in the closest.
but bby girl, that makes you worth no less of an effort and a fight.
trust me, that stupid boy who isnāt paying you any attention right now, just the way you are, does NOT deserve you five lbs lighter, heavier - ANYTHING. you are fine, fierce, and fabulous just the way you are and if he canāt take that then itās HIS loss. not yours, hun. thereās a MAN out there that GOD has made just for you who is fully prepared to handle and APPRECIATE all your fabulousness. he is waiting on you. praying for you. heās crazy about you and he might not even know you.Ā
isnāt that just grand? isnāt God good?Ā
ALL THE TIME.
waayyyyy before you and i were even a thought, The Lord knew that at 3:27pm on January 21st youād feel that pimple coming up under you left nostril. he knew that youād be five minutes into A&P II class when your mom called to tell you that Heād taken your Mimi home to Heaven with Him during the night. He knew every single thing thatās happened to you before you were even a thought and He knows every single thing thatās gonna happen to you from here on out.
H E Ā K N O W S
so darling girl, donāt worry. you are made by a God who has no fears. a God who knows no limits. a God who infinitely loves you. a God who has been loving you just like you are. a God who died to know you.Ā
not a God who judges you. not a God who looks down on you. not a God that will leave you or give up on you.Ā
i donāt know about your God, but my God is ALWAYS faithful. He is ALWAYS steady. He will ALWAYS prevail.Ā
so, to that boy. that boy who thinks your word revolves around him. tell him boi bye, we aināt got time. that boy who doesnāt think youāll ever stop waiting on him. oops, looks like time is up. to that boy who doesnāt appreciate that five extra pounds of FABULOUS you are. get on somewhere else.Ā
The Lord knows, sweetheart. He knows what Heās doing. if that boy doesnāt want to act right, thatās not the one that God molded for you. consider it a blessing instead of a breaking.Ā
itās not the end of the world, although i know it feels like it could be.
head up, gorgeous. you were made for far better things than to cry over some bull headed boy who doesnāt realize your worth.Ā
thereās a man out there for you. i promise. Godās made him for you, Heās just waiting for just the right moment to sit yāall face to face. i pray your life with him is a fairy tale.
trust in The Lord, sweet girl. He has you. Heās got His hand out, waiting for you to reach out to Him. reach out, bby girl. itās the best decision youāll ever make, i assure you of that.
so until prince charming comes riding in on his white horse..
focus on preparing your heart for him.
if you arenāt prepared with and in The Lord, itās not time yet. you need to be just right with Jesus Christ before you can be the woman you need to be for your price charming.Ā
he deserves just a much as you do.
while youāre readying yourself, pray heās doing the same.Ā
pray for him. pray for his safety. pray that he has good days. pray that he follows his dreams, his heart. pray for his family.Ā
PRAY FOR HIS SALVATION.Ā
pray that heās hungry for The Lord.Ā
just pray, sweet heart.Ā
your time will come, and when it does - itāll be so worth it.
trust in HIS timing.Ā
HE knows.Ā
Heās known all along.Ā
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