SissySpot

So life's changed. I'm living full time as a girl and things are just different. I probably won't be back. so yeah no more post. it's been fun. and it's been a large chapter of my life. goodbye and I love you all

[sissyspot]

Hii all. Long time no post lol. Idk if anyone will see this but I'm back making captions on my new blog abby caps at sharesom.com or download the app ^_^ I hope u all see this and cum check me out. Maybe stick around and get that sissy fire going again.

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[catchymemes]

Tumblr on December 17th...

[sissyspot]

Goodbye all. I'll miss you. And Tumblr. It's been a crazy 5 years but worth it. And fun as hell. I hope what's left here. On my page and Tumblr. Helps someone like it helped me. From random suggestions that ended up meaning allot, to your post them selves. It has all changed my life for the better. For that I'm grateful. I love you all. Thank you, and goodbye.

-Abigaile Cross Solesky.

[gymbunnycandie]

Small Bits of Confidence

Small victories go a long way toward building your confidence.  IF anything, it’s the small victories that allow you to have a little fun while maintaining some sanity.

Going out somewhere dressed in girls’ clothing is not something that I do frequently without any care in the world.  I’ve been out androgynously with my wife in secure locations or when out of town.  This usually means all girl clothing, but you might have to look hard to really tell.  These are moment of small confidence…and they’re fun too, for both me and my wife.

It’s a rare occasion when I step out in such girliness by myself in public spaces.  I know, I can be kind of a coward like that.  But hey, we live in a small town and small towns talk about odd sights.

On Saturday night, after a long day working in the yard, my wife, Jenny, decided she wanted a glass or two of wine while watching a movie at home together.  So I went out late to the local big chain pharmacy (i know, not the best wine available, but they’re not all bad).  Anyway, I decided to be just a tad adventurous.  I already had on panties and bra and didn’t want to discard those options.  I slid on a pair of my women’s jeans and one of my wife’s tank tops.  I layered it with a scoop neck women’s shirt of my own and then slid on a pair of my keds without socks.  Just for the fun measure, I also slid on some of my wife’s leather bracelets.

Of course, I had to pass my wife’s inspection.  As I’ve noted before, she is more cautious than I am and I always honor her insight.  She gave me somewhat of a sideways glance and that funny little smile that drives me nuts.  But she approved partially, saying that I looked a little too girly.  Considering the time at night though, she sent me out without asking that i make any change to my appearance.

I was a little nervous, but not too bad.  The drugstore was just down the street and there were only a few shoppers in the place.  No one paid a lick of attention.  Or if they did, nothing mattered them. The clerk at the counter was a non-issue.  He was just doing his job.

I returned home and we enjoyed the movie and wine together after the kids went to bed.  Of course, I eventually changed into something a little more comfortable (if you know what i mean).

You don’t have to go all out to find your confidence, even if that’s what you really want.  Sometimes, you just need a little fun and adventure, no matter how minute it might be.  So, have fun and take your victories when you can.  If you’re like me, then you may not have the best opportunities to dress and go out.  Just find your moments and enjoy them, especially if you have someone to share in your experiences.

Much love to you all,

Candie

[sissyspot]

The death of Craig's list in Minnesota.

So I'm posting this in response to the sudden removal of all personal adds on cl on mn.

According to the website we lost this fight in 2010 and it's been a long time coming. As a long time user of cl hook ups I'm conflicted. More then not I have posted and revived nothing but literal prostitutes, miscellaneous adds, flakes and creeps. But as a sane person who knows what I want and how to weed through the fakes to find many like minded safe and sane friends who are looking for what we all are. A like minded friend or partner. Im torn between points. Idk all the details on why cl personals were removed. But I do know it's not right in the long run. Many people are going to miss out on a life long friend or partner. Some of my best friends and trusted humans were met on cl. On the other hand this pushes sex trafficking to a more under ground space where its easier to pin and track. which is good. So I'm very conflicted on this. I know we in a somewhat misunderstood role are suffering by losing a connection to other accepting people, but those in a greatly dark place benefit from this by not meeting accepting people of Something terrible.

In the long run I'm ranting and I don't think this little post will mean anything but I encourage u, smart dom to bottom bimbo to get more involved in politics and rights. It's what allows us to have the fun we have. And today we lost a fairy godmother. A website that made dreams reality.

Night night all.

[sissyspot]

So will you be posting more pics as Abbey takes over

I plan on posting more pictures of myself along with more caption pictures. Tumblr like video games tho, is a when I feel like it hobby so IDK when I will be posting. It's all fun for me 😊

[slutty-v1cious]

Sissy Question

They sent me this question by chat but I think it would be good to publish it because it is something that happens to many sissies when they are just beginning:

Hi, I’m a 21yo guy. I’ve started watching your blog since this year and I love it. I’ve started with playing with dildos and been wanting to meet a random guy. But every time I don’t take that last step, if Im setting up a meeting I always pull back and don’t answer anymore. Once I’ve met with a guy but I just kept on walking and said I didn’t want to anymore but I still want to. Any thoughts on how to get over it?

Well, I think that every sissy who started out as a heterosexual man has this problem when he starts his new life. First, it is only the curiosity to feel like females. To satisfy this curiosity, we dressed as girls and began to play with our boy pussy. But that is no longer enough, we begin to get bored and we need something more. From there we look for males that make us feel like real females in forums or chats for sissies. We like to talk to them and it makes us horny to think how they will fuck us … but there is a small barrier that prevents us from making our fantasies come true. Don’t worry sissies, many go through this situation and manage to become excellent whores. None of us was raised as a sissy, we were raised as straight guys even though that does not make us happy. We need to reprogram our brains to end any fear of a sissy life. That requires a lot of dedication and sissy training. (There are many blogs specialized in sissy training, I recommend that you look for them.) Becoming a perfect sissy is not a simple task that can be achieved in a short time. It takes time to reprogram our brains. But at the end of the road we have such a great pleasure that we could not experience as beta boys. I recommend the following to reinforce your sissification process:

1- Keep chatting with males whenever you can, that will make your desire grow and become uncontrollable.

2- They need to dedicate more hours of the day to their sissy facet, if possible 24h. This will help them assume their role as sissies more comfortably.

3- Mix your sissy facet with your “boy” side. I know it’s complicated for many of us who can devote all our time to our sissy facet. We have to go to school, to work, etc. But you can mix both facets. How? Making discreet sissy activides. The most recommended is to be in communication with males at all times, with messages, calls, etc. Also think at all times and everywhere that you are a fag. You should never forget it. This will help you to accept your role.

4- Stop thinking rationally. Remember that the sissies only seek pleasure and we are guided by him. Thinking rationally generates anguish. Being carried away by pleasure generates fun.

5- If you already got an appointment avoid masturbarte or cum in the previous days. Better spend your time to see a lot of sissy material and arrange very feminine in the previous days. Model in front of the mirror and imagine how your male will turn you into true females when I penetrate your ass and leave you dripping with cum. That will make the excitement bigger than your fears.

Finally, if you want to be a sissy you must become one. You will never find full sexual satisfaction until you fulfill your wish. You must stop repressing yourself, if you continue doing it you will only be a frustrated beta boy, without pleasure or happiness in his life. The only thing that awaits you in your sissy life is a lot of pleasure, fun and liters and liters of male cum.

[sissyspot]

This is all really good information, especially the last one. What finally made me go thru with my first hook up was knowing the world we live in really doesn't care about you or your sexlife. The people around u might say something in the moment but life goes on and people have way more important things to worry about, and you worrying every day about your sexlife is holding you back from your own success. So just do it and get on with ur new happy life.

[sissyspot]

Do you have a sexy feminine side

Yes daddy I do, her name is Abbey and each day she takes over a little more.

[sissyspot]

How long have you been a sissy?

I've been a Sissy for almost three years. I was a cross dresser and I loved anal and I wanted to be a girl soo bad. It was actually Hentai manga that led me to gender bender porn, and through that I found my first Sissy comic, it was a furry one about a boy losing a bet and forced to wear his sisters cloths and fucked. After that I was hooked, I found tumblr and captions, at that time itsy bitsy Sissy and church of cock ruled the captions so I decided to try my own. And here I am 😊

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Just sitting here board. Ask me anything. Maybe we’ll spark a friendship.

i have a little more free time right now so I'm answering a back log of msgs ontop of my new ones. So prepare to see more of me

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So today I wore only cloths for girls. It felt so good and right and it made me so happy and bubbly all day. I know there not the mist obvious girl cloths but it was still fun for me. I can't wait until this is my new normal

[raelynnsucks]

There is no right way to be a sissy, be gay. Choose love, be yourself. Dont become a stereotype. You became a crossdresser to be different, to find yourself. Stop being told who or what you should be, and be whatever you dream. You dont need hypno or sissy caps to know you like being feminine.

(via raelynnsucks)

[sissyspot]

Have you fucked a total stranger from a Craigslist? I am planning to do this scene and want some advice.

I have and I’d love to help. Step 1-Be very specific in your add. Tell them exactly what u want and make sure the person who responded actually read it Step 2- If your not hosting and ur planning to go to there house or hotel make sure your phones fully charged and on u at all times. Slip in in the elastic band of your leggings or panties. Or like a real girl put it in ur cleavage. Step 3-meet somewhere mutual first. Even if it’s 2 am meet at a Gas Station first then both of you go in together for condoms, drinks or something. You wanna have a chance to feel the guy out. Make sure he’s not twitchy or acting weird. This is the time to judge a book by its cover. It’s your life. No need to take risks. If u have a bad feeling, leave. Step 4- tell someone, anyone you know and trust where u are. You don’t need to be specific. Make something up. Anything. Just include where you’ll be. And the names of the people you’ll be with. If someone is worried ur dead or worse you are or your being tortured horribly. It’s important to be able to tell the police your last whereabouts. This will make the difference between life and death in a emergency! Step 5- sex safety. Mine is the red light, green light, yellow light system. Red-stop! I don’t like that, it makes me very uncomfortable. Yellow - your pushing my boundaries and I don’t know if I like it. Slow down.Green light- everythings good have your way with me daddy. Whatever it is. Establish it before u start. Also Try to avoid tight gags. Communication is key and you should both be able to pop that gag out any time to talk. Step-6 enema. The first time I was with a daddy he pulled the big black Dildo out of my ass and more then a fart came out with it. Luckily he was understanding and into it but proper hygiene is very important to not spread disease. If u wanna keep taking hot shots in and on u you have to stay clean. Inside and out. Step-7 be ready before you/he gets there. Unless it’s part of the hook up.You don’t realise how long it can take to go from icky boy to pretty princess until your trying to rush because daddies horney So that’s about it. All I could think of off the top of my head. Just be patient and Have fun. finding a real daddy to hook up with can be tricky. Allot of them will bail on you. But the hunt is half the fun. When u finally find him it’s all worth it. and if u can, wear his cum for as long as possible.Stay safe stay sexy. Sissy Abby-Sissyspot

[sissyspot]

suck dick for money, and send me that money, so i can come and fuck you and own you. Please?

Just give me your address and ill be there in a heart beat 😉

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Will you be my sexy little sissy slave?

Yea, but you got to cum get me first 😊

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Love your page. Keep up the good work

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What panties r u wearing?

Today Im wearing the sky blue panties with frilly pink lining 😊Cuteness overload