Slick Van Dyke

Genderfuck, non binary and costume stuff ko-fi.com/azamishark

[theerraticace]

Please reblog if you think that “they/them/theirs” is a valid set of pronouns.

Trying to make a point to my father.

[dappertomboy]

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Love, Gabby & Natasha

[oldhollywood]

Katharine Hepburn as Amazon warrior princess Antiope & Colin Keith-Johnston as Theseus in stage production of The Warrior’s Husband (1932) (Corbis)

[crimelords]

ok. ok

[elodieunderglass]

all right I’ll allow it

[wizardposting666]

Okay so some fun and interesting tidbits of info that @queer-taako gave me a while back regarding Katherine Hepburn: she may have possibly been either nonbinary or transmasc. She had a male persona, and gay men (as in exclusively gay men, men who only had sex with and were attracted to other men) had sex with her. They viewed her as just as much a man as any of them. In fact, the only reason I’m still using “her” and not “him”/“them” is because it was never confirmed (and let’s be real, it could have been very dangerous for her back then). But that information is out there.

[charismat1c-megafauna]

This is a pretty good article going into detail about Hepburn’s identity as well as how the era sort of impacted her experience. She described herself later in life as “the missing link between genders” and even as a child, had a secret name for herself which she preferred to be called among friends (Jimmy) and the information she gave about her childhood like not getting why everyone seemed to treat her like a girl, not wanting anything to do with feminine things, having a secret name, at the very least resonates with gnc and butch women, trans men and nonbinary people.

We have no way of knowing what she really was, and we cant really ascribe an identity to her, but she had relationships with men and women and wanted pretty much nothing to do with womanhood in her private life. Being non straight and/or not cis in Hollywood, especially back then, was such a minefield to navigate, and there was virtually no language to express yourself if your identity was anything other than gay or straight cis person, and even the term ‘lesbian’ wasnt used as often as youd think.

[genderqueerpositivity]

(Image description: the genderqueer, queer, nonbinary, and trans pride flags with the words: being who I am is not a sin" centered in white text.)

[dare-i-say-asexual]

Just got done talking to another trans guy who was basically like “I don’t like being nice to people because it makes me dysphoric and feminine. Being rude makes me feel masculine” and honestly? I felt so fucking bad for him bc if it makes you feel good to purposely put others down in the name of masculinity then there is genuinely something wrong with you.

[dare-i-say-asexual]

I actually can’t even stop to count how many trans men take up rudeness, and more importantly, sacrifice their kindness for the namesake of passing. I have dysphoria too, don’t get me wrong, it fucking sucks. But if being tender is seen as inherently feminine, then that’s a problem on the person not anybody else.

Please, don’t ever give up who you are because cis men act a certain way. You don’t have to take these behaviours up to be respected by your community. You don’t have to give up your love and compassion just because society sees it a certain way.

[dare-i-say-asexual]

AND! More often than not trans men will take up behaviours such as misogyny, transmisogyny, racism, and sometimes (unfortunately) fall into chauvinist right-winger attitudes in hopes to copy cisgender men.

You don’t have to change yourself for the worse. Be kind, god damnit! Trans men have the ability to show compassion beyond the typical cis man, and that’s unique. Don’t let that go!

[garlic-gal]

Questioning ur gender as an afab person is hard bc ur like do I genuinely identify as Not A Woman or do I just not identify with the negative images of women that have been shoved at me since I was born? Like do I not like being referred to as a girl because that really isn’t who I am or is it because being connected to femininity comes along with some not great associations? And then there’s the question of am I really Not a Woman or am I just butch/futch? And then u get into questioning what gender even is to begin with. What is gender? What is masculinity? What is femininity? Is there anything inherent to either of them, or is it all socially constructed bullshit? Does gender actually exist?? If not, then what the fuck is my relationship with gender?

[fywomeninsuits]

Fyeah Lena Headey!

[riotous18]

[middleagedwomen-curves]

Julie Andrews in Victor,Victoria (1982) appreciation post

[pinklesbianade]

women in suits: 😍😍😍

women in suits of armor: 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍

[rustandruin]

[evilyaoii]

nonbinary people do not have to look androgynous for you to respect them

[hustlerose]

for real though why do people who don’t like nonbinary people think it’s ok to follow me

[trenderbakugou]

Y'all do realize the more you call trans kids “transtrenders” and that they’re “faking it” the more parents aren’t gonna support even Actually Real Dysphoric Trans People, right?

[trenderbakugou]

I told my uncle that I wanted my hair short and he sat me down and gave me a long lecture about how society is pressuring me to hate my womanhood and that he doesn’t care is I’m a lesbian but pretending to be a boy to be straight is bad. He said u was being a transtrender. You know how he learned that word? My 45~ year old conservative uncle? From urban dictionary. Made by a truscum. He said that he’s known lesbians who are masculine and butch and that that’s okay. He said that little girls are becoming trans because Evil Feminists are teaching them to hate themselves and that they have to be boys!! He told me that transgenderism is actually anti-gay because lesbians are told they’re wrong and pretend to be guys to be normal, how gay men pretend to be women because oh no! I’m gay! I’ll never be normal!

Truscum will push that cis people aren’t supporting us because of transtrenders. No, it’s because you guys even made that word up in the first place.

[transstuffandmore]

Please Reblog is Your Blog is Safe for Non-Binary People.

[that-butch-deactivated20200408]

Yesterday I hit one year on HRT, and I figured I’d share my progress. The two photos on the top are from when I started HRT back in 2017, and the rest are current.

It’s been a long journey, and I have so much ahead of me, but I am very happy with where I find myself today.

They/Them or She/Her

[that-butch-deactivated20200408]

today on lesbian visibility day i realized yesterday marked 18 months on hormones and i thought i’d update this post!

i’ve made it so far and i’m so proud every day to look in the mirror and see a happy lesbian smiling back at me. 

(just) they/them

[nonbinary-support]

Transgender woman launches world’s first range of specially designed luxury lingerie – for trans women

Londoner Carmen Liu, 27, has designed flattering underwear that 'tucks' the genitals in while featuring pretty bows and lace trimmings usually found on lingerie

You can pre-order them here [x]

[99-cent-arizona-tea]

Not actually the first. Here’s the link to Cora’s thread.