The Mirror Technique
I do love my quantifiers and before Iām going to say much more, letās talk about safety. The only ādangersā inherent in this technique are those related to triggering or upsetting your submissive. So use this technique with someone you know. DO use this technique on men who enjoy humiliation or degradation.
Setup: Youāll need a large (preferably full length) mirror. It needs to be easily visible from wherever you fuck bed, couch, floor, ottoman, kitchen counter (I wonāt judge), etc.
Technique: Your objective will be to mentally get your submissive as far into subspace as possible (see the post about layering if you need some help getting there). You want him really caught up in that head space, preferably impaled on your dick (or deep in your hole if you are a dominant bottom). Surprise is the key to making this work, surprise, the truth in your words and getting them agreeing when their psyche is laid bare and vulnerable are what make this so effective. Once you have him there and you think the moment is right, grab his hair roughly, and jerk his head in the direction of the mirror. Say something like āLook yourself in the eye faggot, look at what youāve become, what Iāve made you into. Now say youāre mine, body and soul, say youāre mine and look yourself in the eye when you say it so the both of us know you MEAN IT!ā
Challenges: The only real challenge comes from finding the right moment when your sub is very deep in subspace, and yet still aware enough to engage you. If you find the right moment where he has a submissive dialogue in his own head and you suddenly synchronize what heās telling himself with the mirror technique, thatās the ultimate goal and when this experience will be mind blowing. It does take some practice to get right, but it generally it wonāt really work too effectively against
Outcomes: The reason Iām even writing about this, was that Iāve had two separate men ejaculate immediately when I did this to them. Subspace, my dick, and the moment overwhelmed them and they came all over the bed. I have also had submissives that were suddenly thrown by the unexpected experience. They stutter and their brain just canāt process properly for a moment or two. Thatās not a bad reaction and they should fall in line in a moment or two. Iāve had other fall in line and completely embrace the experience and spontaneously start engaging in dirty talk (super hot). Although Iāve never had it happen, it could also result in an obvious rejection of the experience. It could also result in someone getting very quiet and unresponsive. Should either happen, stop immediately and engage the submissive to see whatās going on. If you donāt, it could damage your continued ability to play with that boy.
