as it says in the top bio, this is a kink blog, so 18+ only. Age (or range) in bio before messaging pls!
kinks i enjoy:
feedism! i'm both a feedee and a feeder, and mutual gaining is hot 🔥 i dont have any specific goal weight in mind, although i could see gaining to the 400 range some day. i enjoy bigger fantasies too, both for myself and others 😉
i enjoy exploring some other kinks, too, including hypno, some bimbo, and D/s (i tend to prefer a dominant role).
more details about everything under the cut!
how I like to interact:
asks and DMs are open for chit-chat! But I can be slow to reply. Nothing flirty in DMs pls.
a note about age:
i'm not comfortable chatting spicy with anyone younger than... 25? i haven't had to think about it much before, but 25 sounds reasonable rn. non-spicy/sexy communication is ok tho (e.g., warning about reblogging a scammer, sharing important info/resources, etc.)
As promised above, here's some elaboration kinks:
i have so many feedism turn-ons. stuffing is wonderful, whether its grazing, a huge decadent meal, straight from the funnel, whatever. stretch marks are enchanting. burping is delightful. i can't possibly list them all.
i have a major sweet tooth, and I can really get carried away in delicious food 🤤 i *say* i'm not trying to gain right now... but i can't seem to stop stuffing myself with fattening foods, so i'm gaining anyway. and i'm sure you'll be able to guess what one of my favorites is :P
hypno is a big one, although i have trouble finding content that works for me (as in, right combo of content, tist, intended audience, etc.), but it's something i hope to explore more as time goes on.
i enjoy some bimbo stuff too, but usually with a feedism bent. dumbification is a fun and natural fit with bimbo and hypno kinks, although my preference for myself is maybe more along the lines of temporary relief of intelligence. nothing inherently permanent, but rather, a cloudy bliss so inviting that i might just stay.
i have some qualms about some of the language typically used in these kinks, like "mantra" (and maybe even "dumb"?).
i'm interested in D/s dynamics too (esp. when complementing feedism), although i still have much to learn in this area.
So I’m seeing some of good posts in the feedism community lately that highlight the intersection of fatness and disability (e.g. care needs, accommodations), and I’d like to chime in!
One of the best things we can do for fat and/or disabled folks is to continue to take appropriate SARS-Cov-2 (aka COVID-19) precautions! Bonus points, it helps literally everybody.
Here’s 5 basics:
Mask! (Can’t find one that works for you? I’m happy to help 😊)
Minimize time in public (e.g., don’t dine in restaurants)
Get vaccine boosters whenever they’re available to you
Like part of what’s so hot about seeing a feedee stay at home and stuff themselves so full that they can’t leave the couch is that they’re at *home*! Very thoughtful.
So I’m seeing some of good posts in the feedism community lately that highlight the intersection of fatness and disability (e.g. care needs, accommodations), and I’d like to chime in!
One of the best things we can do for fat and/or disabled folks is to continue to take appropriate SARS-Cov-2 (aka COVID-19) precautions! Bonus points, it helps literally everybody.
Here’s 5 basics:
Mask! (Can’t find one that works for you? I’m happy to help 😊)
Minimize time in public (e.g., don’t dine in restaurants)
Get vaccine boosters whenever they’re available to you
a majority of you know nothing about how porn is made and distributed and the people in power are counting on you not knowing. i’m so tired.
one of the major things they count on you not knowing is that tube sites do not produce even a decimal of the content you consume. tube sites are just video platforms. they are access to content that isn’t put behind a paywall in the first place. mainstream studios that can often do put shortened versions of their films on tube sites for advertisement. these only make up a fraction of the content that people actively consume as well - much more of it is independently created than folks realize.
with pornhub’s model program, a MASSIVE amount of the content there is uploaded consensually by independent performers themselves. we get ad revenue and, as previously stated, it makes for decent advertisement. i believe the other big tube sites have programs that are similar. and yes, we are age verified when we apply to become part of the model program. every single thing we upload has to go through approval before it goes public.
i’m saying this because every single time a porn-related post goes around someone brings up tube sites before anything else, and they often bring up dated or entirely false information. PH and all of the big tube sites used to have MASSIVE issues (that we warned people about back then - nobody listened) with non-consensually uploaded content but they’ve long since had to change their stance on this and become fairly strict. i’m not saying there’s zero content of that nature. it’s just not all that different than any platform that has video content. all of them face issues of copyright and non-consensual media. (and i’d say they enforce their rules arguably better than platforms like say, facebook.)
and that’s not even to mention how it isn’t even a small facet of the industry despite the general public grouping it altogether. you cannot accept any kind of profit on onlyfans, manyvids, apclips, etc unless you go through a process that includes identity verification. you cannot upload any content involving another person besides who you already have paperwork for. that paperwork includes age verification. and while i’m absolutely there are people that find ways around this… that’s literally everywhere lol. in no other industry does that small outlier define the whole practice.
like… ALL of the propaganda, all the proposed legislation against sex work and specifically porn paints the exact opposite picture of what i’m telling you and so many of you are eating it up. they want you to have a visceral reaction so you don’t think critically and now - watching it hurt people outside the porn industry - we’re seeing what that does in the long term.
we have warned you. we will continue to warn you. the choice to stay ignorant is the choice to condemn yourself to a discriminatory society that’ll be overall worse off in the long run. it will run you over the moment it sees you as perverse, too.
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something I feel like not enough people are addressing with this TOS change against feedists is how this targets people who make content as livelihood? yes, it’s puritanical response against kink & equating what we do to an ED, and it’s likely being enforced like this to prevent people from a platform which was, at one point, a good way to create visibility to audiences & potential customers.
I truly can’t be the only one who’s noticed that since the TOS change, it’s primarily content creators getting deactivated. our advocacy for kink has to explicitly include advocacy for SWers.
This was a really fun project! As you can see, I did have to do a bit of a patch job on the arms and backside due to some poor planning when I drew up the initial template. Still, I’m happy with how she came out, and ended up making her way more detailed than my original idea. What can I say, I got lost in those folds <3
I think maybe we as a community should come up with a backup plan to maybe migrate to another site that would be less strict? Maybe neocities or something similar? Our little community is full of so many wonderfully kind and talented people, and I really don't want to watch it die, especially for such a ridiculous reason.
I hope it doesn’t come to that, but I’m on board with whatever the community gravitates to. It’s really hard to get organized enough to make a plan, but I’ll keep my eyes and ears open for trends. like I mentioned before, I’m not leaving tumblr, but you can find me on substack because that’s one of the few platforms that suits my style of blogging with long form articles and essays.
I actually created a f33dist community networking directory a while back, which might end up being useful here. It’s sort of like a yellow pages. I originally created it as a resource for community organizing, but it might be a good way for everyone to keep track of each other if they want to start migrating to other sites.
Hi, all! A few months ago, I created this resource with the intent to help feedists make connections and find help on their community projec
I know very little about it, and only ever dabbled in mastodon, but maybe it’s worth checking out the fediverse?
I have no idea if this is viable for content creators. But maybe a fediverse server hosted in another country would be able to do less puritanical content moderation than the approach adopted by corporate-run sites in the US? And dodge the punitive/retributive moderation that I hear happens on feabie?
Truly don’t know if this is a possible or good idea. Just spitballing. For me, part of the appeal of a platform like tumblr over feedism-centric sites (eg, ff) is that I can use it for more than one interest, while the dedicated sites tend to feel (to me) stagnant.
discovered (through a random kink twt, of all places) that that big titties big tummy + smaller hips and thighs can be called a strawberry in terms of body types and i though that was sooooo cute 🍓
