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SPAIN. Galicia. 1998 Peter Marlow

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Damn, this is so good

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OMGGG

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Howl’s bathtub

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I worked at camp flog gnaw last week and the black girl magic blew me away💁🏾✨

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Dear teen girls,

Stop abusing your boyfriends and yes what you are doing is abuse.

Stop:

Yelling at him in front of his friends 

Hitting or slapping him when he does or says something you don’t like

Telling him he doesn’t have a choice when it comes to decisions that involve both of you 

Telling him he can’t hang out with friends because you don’t like him

Telling him to not talk to other girls even if they are his friend

Forcing him to spend every moment with you 

Belittling him and pointing out all his flaws

Calling him stupid or making fun of him for making a mistake

Threatening to break up with him if he doesn’t do what you want

Being emotionally manipulative and crying until he does what you want

Accusing him of cheating every time he’s not with you

Blow up is phone if he doesn’t text you every five minutes 

Telling him you are the must thing that has ever happened to him and no one else will love

Physically attacking him when ever you are mad

Forcing him to have sex despite that fact that he said he didn’t want to

Invading his privacy by going through his phone

Getting mad at him for changing his password and demanding he tell you what it is

If a guy did any of these things to a girl it would be considered abuse but since its the other way around its considered normal. Throughout High school I saw many girl treating their boyfriends like shit. Sometime even physically abusing them in the hallways and no one trying to stop it because its a girl attacking a boy. 

Boys: If your girlfriend does anything on this list leave her. It is abuse and you deserve better.

Girls: if you find your self doing anything on this list to your boyfriend you need to knock it off because you are being abusive. 

[dynastylnoire]

!!!!!!!! My brother was abused by his babies mom and it started like this and escalated to child abuse and neglect.

You don’t deserve to be screamed at, ignored, or assaulted.

Not showing affection when she wants or not hugging her before class) or missing a phone call doesn’t warrant getting cussed out or hit.

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Lol, I lost 5 followers from reblogging this. That’s fine, y'all can go

[onlyblackgirl]

Whole lot of grown women do this too.

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Just wanna throw these in too

Being passive aggressive with him when he wants to spend time with friends or doing other things 

controlling when he’s able to go out with friends

Breaking up his friendships with other girls just because you’re insecure

Making him feel like his opinions in decisions that affect the both of you are irrelevant and don’t matter

SENDING HIS NUMBER TO STRANGERS TO TEST IF HE’S LOYAL OR NOT

testing him in anyway in general without his knowledge or permission (example: catfishing! it’s manipulative and weird don’t fucking do that)

taking money/credit cards without permission to spend on things without his knowledge ( had an ex friend do this constantly to her boyfriend and she’d always condone it because “he’ll get over it” )

guilting him for hanging out with friends/family over you  and making him choose between you and friends/family

telling him “you don’t love me if you *insert harmless activity he wants to do here* “

being rude or mean to him in front of others to assert dominance or power over him

downloading apps to spy on his phone activity (yes, this is a thing “”regular”” people do) or snooping on his social media to see who he’s talking to

hitting him, slapping him, punching him, shoving him. literally how do people not understand slapping your male partner is bad. people tend to find this funny in media and society and its weird. KEEP YOUR HANDS OFF YOUR PARTNER WITHOUT PERMISSION. 

I come from a family of very forward and manipulative women and i see it in media all the time. it’s fucked and people need to not be accepting of young girls acting like snot-nosed, abusive shit heads that think they can get away with manipulation and cruelty because they happen to be girls.

[breakingdepravity-deactivated20]

I have been on the receiving end of this from many of my ex girlfriends. I would never try and say I was perfect and did not occasionally deserve to be talked down to when I was doing something similar but going through this is something I still hold close to the chest from those close to me. None of my family know my ex tried to stab me with a kitchen knife during an argument because I wouldn’t stop studying to drive her to the bar with her friends. None of them know another ex used to try and catfish me on an almost daily basis. But the worst of all was my ex who let me for nearly a decade believe her daughter was mine. But then when I made plans to visit them and take control of my life and be an actual physical part of her life( we lived a long way apart and I was planning to give up everything and move to them) she told me oh yea my boy friend and I just needed the money. He is her dad not you.

So guy out there you don’t have to sit there and take this abuse. Stand up for yourselves and say this isn’t right. Women you should to. If you see a friend doing this to her partner please say something. Sometimes we are afraid to because of the stigma if we can’t “take it”.

I also wanted to end with that women you shouldn’t have to deal with this abuse either. What you go through on a societal level is horrible. Your daily level of abuse and trial is something I will never experience.

Stand up for each other. Stand against abuse of all kinds. Men stand up for women being abused even if you don’t think it is. It’s not up to you to decide what is and isn’t abuse. Women please do that same. It is also not up to you to decide when a woman is abusing a man. The same things that are abuse to you are abuse to us.

Love yourself and everyone. Everyone deserves basic human dignity and respect. EVERYONE

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