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âthe grave is run by the student church and the video they made to advertise it is the scariest thing i've ever seen https://t.co/VALDtecGYj
Student:Â âI want to die.â School:Â âOkay, we canât do that, but we have the next best thing-â
Need me a self-care grave
Person: Tf are you doing?
Me: Laying on my emotional support grave
student: iâm depressed
college:
good parents dont hit their children. good parents dont touch their children inappropriately. good parents dont scream at their children. good parents dont manipulate their children. good parents dont imprison their children at home. good parents dont threaten their children. good parents dont starve their children. good parents dont harass their children.
good parents do not abuse their children.
in case you donât know weather to reblog this:
This makes me realize several uncomfortable things about my childhood.
Wait the screaming thing isnât a normal thing?
Apparently not
Omg my poor babies, as a CHAD major let me lay it out for you.
Occasional âim human and im frustratedâ yelling happens. Those are usually followed by apologies and genuine effort not to do that again.
But if your parent/guardian is always SCREAMING at you, especially as a way to control or make you feel inferior (insults, threats, things they know make you subdue and guilty) THIS IS EMOTIONAL ABUSE. if they are purposely contorting your emotions as a method to control that is abuse.
If someone hits, kicks, slaps, or beats you (not just a gentle nonsexual spank on the butt) THIS IS PHYSICAL ABUSE, ESPECIALLY IF IT LEAVES A BRUISE, CUT ABRAISION, ETC.
If adults are making you dance in a manner to be sexual, do sexual things, or watch sexual things inappropriate for your age THIS IS SEXUAL ABUSE. it is not always touching your/someone elseâs private areas (which is ALSO abuse.)
If your parent or guardian is depriving you of things that are essential for life (food, water, shelter, weather appropriate clothes, hygiene, medical) and it is not just a âwe are literally too broke to get these things but im really trying â THIS IS NEGLECT AND IS ABUSE.
Talk to a teacher or trusted adult. Anyone in a human service setting (educators, administration, health, etc) especially those in a child/ adolescent arena are MANDATED REPORTERS: they MUST tell CPS there is a problem. If you are in immediate danger be explicit: they will call 911 to keep you safe.
This is SO fucking important please be safe my peeps.
wait so it isnât normal for my mum to not take me to my doctorâs appointments as a punishment? huh.
Please be safe fam
Rebloging this again for all the new followers Iâve gained!
Also the thing with my mom she tells me not to tell anyone about home life.
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"We can't fight this year's round of global warming-induced wildfires because the prison slave laborers we would normally sacrifice to fight the fires have instead succumbed to the plague". Is 2020 even real?
Say slave labor with your whole chest please.
Trauma didn't make me nice, I consciously made me nice because I don't want anyone else to suffer like I did. Trauma didn't make me strong, I made me strong. Don't you dare ever tell me my trauma made me anything but scared, broken, and confused. Don't give credit to the abusers for me being a good person. They didn't make me good, I made myself good.
Procrastination
People have written a lot of touchy-feely pieces on this subject but I thought Iâd get right to the heart of the matter
[The artist, putting a simple cake next to a much fancier one: âAw man, that guyâs cake is way better than mine.â The Audience, gleefully holding up a knife and fork âHOLY SHIT! TWO CAKES!â]
additions from the og artist (credit)
child handling for the childless nurse
My current job has me working with children, which is kind of a weird shock after years in environments where a âyoungâ patient is 40 years old.  Hereâs my impressions so far:
Birth - 1 year: Essentially a small cute animal. Â Handle accordingly; gently and affectionately, but relying heavily on the caregivers and with no real expectation of cooperation.
Age 1 - 2: Hates you. Â Hates you so much. Â You can smile, you can coo, you can attempt to soothe; they hate you anyway, because youâre a stranger and youâre scary and youâre touching them. Â Thereâs no winning this so just get it over with as quickly and non-traumatically as possible.
Age 3 - 5: Nervous around medical things, but possible to soothe.  Easily upset, but also easily distracted from the thing that upset them.  Smartphone cartoons and âwho wants a sticker?!!?!?â are key management techniques.
Age 6 - 10: Really cool, actually.  I did not realize kids were this cool.  Around this age they tend to be fairly outgoing, and super curious and eager to learn.  Absolutely do not babytalk; instead, flatter them with how grown-up they are, teach them some Fun Gross Medical Facts, and introduce potentially frightening experiences with âhey, you want to see something really cool?â
Age 11 - 14: Extremely variable.  Can be very childish or very mature, or rapidly switch from one mode to the other.  At this point you can almost treat them as an adult, just⌠a really sensitive and unpredictable adult.  Do not, under any circumstances, offer stickers.  (But they might grab one out of the bin anyway.)
Age 15 - 18: Basically an adult with severely limited life experience. Â Treat as an adult who needs a little extra education with their care. Â Keep parents out of the room as much as possible, unless the kid wants them there. Â At this point you can go ahead and offer stickers again, because theyâll probably think itâs funny. Â And theyâll want one. Â Deep down, everyone wants a sticker.
This is also a pretty excellent guide to writing kids of various ages
Good guide. It is one of my biggest pet peeves when 6-10 year olds are all written like 3-4 year olds. Positively cringey. If in doubt err on the side of the kid being more mature than you expect.
if in doubt err of the side of the kid being more mature than you expect
Iâm 29 and I want a sticker.
Deep down, everyone wants a sticker. EVERYONE.
Rich people truly live in a different dimension
Yes! They do! Iâve been trying to get that point to stick and people just donât follow. The president thinks insurance costs $12 a year.
My old bossâs sister didnât think we should be paid enough to afford smart phones because (her words) âYou peasants work for us, peasants donât deserve enough money for those things.â
I was once invited to a dinner event. Turns out there was a raffle. I mentioned that if I had known Iâd have stopped at the bank for some cash. Nothing was said, but the âYou donât carry a minimum $200 everywhere?â was felt in the body language of everyone within 50 feet. Old boss would get KFC every day. He was hospitalized and had to have bits of intestine removed. First day back he was eating KFC because âWell the doctor fixed everything, so why not?â
If old boss didnât take home a million dollars in a month the company was âHaving a bad time of things.â Thatâs not sales, or total gain, thatâs his paycheck. He owned the building so the company he owned that operated inside the building paid him $33,000 a month, and that didnât count towards his paycheck. Monthly, his company would pay him rent greater than what he was paying me yearly, and it was so little to him that he didnât count it as income.
To a rich person, something punishable by a fine is just a thing you have to pay for permission to do. You want to go to the movies? Sure thatâs $8 a person. You want to park in the fire zone? Sure, thatâs $750 for parking. No big deal.
Rich people live in such a different place than everyone else.
we paid for public services, we want those public services to be accessable to us we also paid for a shitload of bombs and corporate bonuses, but the people recieving that âfree stuffâ seem to be fine with it only when it goes to them, not to the needy
This is specifically for those of you who have the fucking decency to say âmore whites are being killed by cops than Black people though.â
Also donât come at this with your bullshit âBlack on Black crimeâ rhetoric or that this isnât about race.
Because if youâre white and say this isnât about race, youâre just proving to all of us that you canât see past your white privilege.
todays beanie is: patches the guinea pig!
âMoney canât buy happiness!â
Me:
I canât believe the classic âMOM HOLY FUCKâ comic was actually made by the PnF crew this entire time
this post just changed my whole life
Same mood
This was drawn by C. H. Greenblatt. Aka a former storyboard artist for Spongebob and the creator of Chowder
The four Horseman.
That little girl is going places
I know more about economics than AOC and my knowledge on economics is on a high school level. Its actually embarassing how little she knows about this shit. But hey, expecting a socialist to know about economics is like expecting a fish to know what a desert is.
Much of the ocean is a desert
You know what? Letâs use the allowance example again to make it even clearer.
Letâs pretend we have an allowance tax bracket with a 70% tax on money received after a certain point. To keep things simple, weâll make the limit $90.
If a kid does chores and earns $10 in allowance, they get $10. Theyâre not going to be affected by the 70% tax.
If a kid does chores and earns $50, they get $50. They also arenât in the 70% tax bracket, even though they make five times as much money as the kid making $10.
If a kid does chores and earns $100 in allowance, then theyâre in the allowance tax bracket with the 70% tax.
$100 minus $90 is $10. This is the part thatâs going to be taxed 70%.
70% of $10 is $7.
So the kid getting $100 in allowance will have $93 after the 70% tax takes its share.
Now, Iâd never impose such a thing on actual kids. All of this is a thought exercise.
But if it were real, the kid making $10 and the kid making $50 would probably be kind of mad if the kid getting $93 was bitching about being short $7.
Also, can we talk about how taxes are used to pay for things for the benefit of society - roads, schools, libraries etc. so to further the above example, the parents arenât just pocketing that money themselves just to be mean and selfish, they might use it to pay for a Netflix subscription that the whole family can watch.
