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The key to a successful relationship is hitting the mutual anxiety sweet spot where you're both just a little bit scared that the other one will decide that they deserve better and leave. Just anxious enough that you gotta make sure that they know you love them and try to give them the best life that you can have together, but not anxious enough to start sabotaging shit because having good things is terrifying.

Aiming for "there's a bee inside your car while you're driving it" level of anxious, not "there's a bee inside your shirt whike you're wearing it" anxious.

snaitf

listen, I know what your intent here is, and I fully agree with you, but. Specifically for ME, that metaphor is HILARIOUSLY one-sided. I'm deathly afraid of bees and wasps and would probably crash my car if this happened. My fiances keep bees and have driven entire hours with a FULL HIVE in the back of the car. I have vetoed bee journeys if I'm in the car with them lmao.

homunculus-argument

Would you feel calmer and safer with a bee inside your shirt?

echoesofsong

I had a bee crawl down the back of my shirt once! It was very fuzzy and soft. I do get your point about the bees in the car vs your shirt but people will react differently. At least with the shirt i know where the bee is, whereas in the car it would fly around more and therefore make me panic more

Especially if I’m driving the car, i would not be able to keep my eyes on the road at all and would probably crash

homunculus-argument

it's poll time! would you rather:

have a bee in the car while you're driving

have a bee inside your shirt while you're wearing it

Voting ended onJul 18

#inside my shirt?? why is anyone saying driving?#same for wasps #i dont mind bees theyre quite nice so i would actually like one in my shirt #that feels like such a fun problem #but driving is dangerous id be worried about getting distracted by trying to find the bee #id prolly just pull over and let it out the car actually but then id be worried about the morals of taking the bee so far away from its hiv

summertaters

You Didn't See Anything!

#genuinely fucking hysterical #exactly how these characters should be treated the craziest expressions i have ever seen #favourite #this is cracking me uppp #at my big age of 20 I started watching mha after being on the outskirts of the fandom for like 4 years now #and this might be the most perfect version of this ship ive ever seen #theyre such fucking losers #art

chalamaniacc-deactivated2026072

battering on your windows LET ME IN

GO. AWAY.

sneak-a-cat

LITTLE PIG LITTLE PIG. LET. ME. IN.

scapegods

guard dog

starqueensterlexa

If you have ever known anyone with a kink for being hit, or beat up, or raped and you're okay with them, you also gotta be okay with the people who's kink it is to do the hitting, the beating, or the raping. At the end of the day, we're adults playing pretend, and that's it.

starqueensterlexa

With every single sub i have the first thing we ever do is establish the safe word (stoplight system), and the non-verbal safe word in case they can't talk for any reason. If I can't tell where the sub is at, I will ask them point blank what is their color, and if they can't give a response, we stop. The goal is to make the other person feel good, including pain, and the most important part us knowing your subs limits and LISTENING to them. I will *never* hurt a sub in a way that they have not explicitly expresssed interest in.