Freja's Warren @snowbunnyetal - Tumblr Blog

Some people: "Actually, the 'A' stands for-"

Me: "And that appellation applies to me also. Accordingly, you can arrest my allotment of the acronym from my algid, atrophied, Agendered, Aplatonic, Aromatic, Asexual, Autistic, ADHDer, Ally appendages!"

🧡💛🤍💚🤍🩵💙

redstonedust

funny thing about anxiety is sometimes it kind of breaks your sense of danger. like i am known for repeatedly putting myself in situations that make my friends go "bro you couldve died. werent you scared?" and the answer is 👍 yjeah. i did it scared. i do everything scared. i didnt know that was the actual important kind of scary because i usually have to ignore my fears to function in society. it will happen again. watch out.

snowbunnyetal

Same thing with chronic pain. I was just telling a new doctor the other day about the time I drove myself to the emergency room with two broken feet and felt bad when they brought me a wheelchair because "it's probably nothing" (I now own my own wheelchair but still feel a little guilty using it because of all of the times I've heard "it can't be 'that bad'.")

#anxiety #anxiety disorder #chronic pain #I have a collection of hospital grippy socks but not because I went on “grippy socks vacation” I'm just generally a trainwreck

mawofthemagnetar

The problem with being low support needs is that people mentally autocorrect that to “no support needs” and then proceed to give you absolutely nothing and then get surprised when you implode after six months.

phleb0tomist

reminder to all disabled people that you’re allowed to tell people “i can’t do that” about stuff you can ‘technically’ do but which harms you or requires a period of recovery or preparatory rest etc. you don’t have to explain the complex nuances of your condition to anybody who demands it. i’ve found it’s honestly better to give the least amount of info about your symptoms unless you trust a person a lot. you hold the power over your health information. you choose whether or not to share the details of your condition with people who might not understand.

all-things-bunny

oh to be a little bunny with a big frozen water bottle during this heatwave

taffywabbit

just doing buny business

#how it feels whenever I'm in charge of a group

bebsi-cola

you know what, "because i'm in pain" is a good enough reason as any. why do you want to take meds? in pain. why do you wanna cancel? in pain. why didn't you want to talk? in pain. yeah don't be a jerk to everyone you meet and expect them to welcome that. but why were you being a jerk? in pain. it's a reasonable explanation. being in pain should be enough of an explanation. it should be considered an immediate problem that we try to fix as soon as possible instead of expecting the vast majority of people alive to just get on with it.

mintopoleli

drinking coffee at 7 pm bc i just had an idea

#fantastic quote to see out of context on my dash #I hope all my other moots get ideas engaging enough to want coffee at 7pm

hotnfreshtakes

trans men and transmascs do need to hear they aren't hurting anyone for being masculine, but more than that they need to hear that they are loved for being masculine. your masculinity is wonderful and magical and you pull it off incredibly well. your masculinity is cool, it's desirable, it's attractive. there are people out there who will be drawn to you because of your masculinity, not just in spite of it. you deserve more than just to be tolerated in queer spaces. your masculinity deserves to be celebrated

conwrong

everyone say I LOVE MASCULINE TRANS MEN with me! (mandatory)

no but seriously in most of the queer spaces i’ve been in trans men’s masculinity is forcibly removed

in person (from my experience) trans men’s existence is ignored to a frankly ridiculous degree and our masculinity is ignored with us

online our masculinity is derided and branded at harmful and our bodies are sexualized fetishized and feminized

to my fellow trans men: don’t let anyone take away your masculinity. you’ve fought to exist as a man and live as you want not to be a man in name only or only a certain type of man or only a man under certain conditions. tell every loser rejects ignores or punishes your masculinity as a trans men exactly where they can shove it!

anyway i heart trans male masculinity

#I love you masculine trans men #I also love you other kinds of trans men #I just really love men okay #trans positivity

humblemooncat

Since we had such an outpouring of support for this endeavor, I've gone ahead and made a sideblog and discord as promised!

Come one, come all, to The Learning Grove!

A place where the new and the anxious can grow from sprouts to towering trees

Do you need a helping hand through normal and alliance raids due to anxiety, newness, and/or bad experiences? Come join us for bi-weekly raid nights. No judgement, low stress learning parties hosted by patient veterans who want to help you experience these fights and stories!

Sideblog: @thelearninggrove Discord

And as an aside, I do want to say that this is not meant as shade to any raiders out there. You all are a lovely bunch! But not everyone is comfortable just jumping into the ring, and I'm hoping to cater to those folks. And maybe when they fly the nest with a little more confidence, they'll land in your side of things, ready and willing to give it their all!

#Reblogging because we're still working on sorting the statics and we have room for more players to join #most people seem to prefer weekends but we have weekday parties including mine #we're also figuring out the logistics for hosting sign-up runs (please look forward to it)#FFXIV #Final Fantasy XIV #ffxiv raiding #FFXIV static recruitment #signal boost

artyphex

“There are no female aliens in our game because we don’t know how to make a female version of this alien” You know that alien you just designed? That male alien? Give it a female voice actor and have characters refer to it as she. That’s it. That’s literally all you have to do

Make her shorter if you must

Make her BIGGER if you aren’t a coward

moonwatcher13

Take your male alien bodytype, make her like 4 feet taller, give her an extra set of arms and sharper teeth, and as muscular as shit.

Boom.

skywalkerchick1138

lemonsharks

Give her natural camouflage and make the man like this

Make them exactly the same size and shape but different colors

Give him a huge flock of babies following him around to show off what a great lay he is

Surprise mPreganté

Exactly the same but one of them has a cool hat (you decide which)

Give her a sensible haircut for successful hunting while he has a big dumb mullet so big and dumb the food can see him coming and book it

Please just for the love of pie do not begin and end with boobs

trainsgenderfoxgirl2816

you can have fun with Sexual Diamorphism

ciphox

requests on twitter <3

hlwim

ugh how the fuck do you cover letter

elf-trash

Greetings, Exalted One. Allow me to introduce myself. I am Luke Skywalker, Jedi Knight and friend to Captain Solo.

I know that you are powerful, mighty Jabba, and that your anger with Solo must be equally powerful. I seek an audience with Your Greatness to bargain for Solo’s life.

With your wisdom, I’m sure that we can work out an arrangement which will be mutually beneficial and enable us to avoid any unpleasant confrontation.

As a token of my goodwill, I present to you a gift: these two droids. Both are hardworking and will serve you well.