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you can call me achilles or whatever other name you think of. this is a sideblog, not my main. 26. t4t bi greyaroace loverboy, monogamous. binary trans MAN. he/him. lonely & looking for friends and more!!!
before you scroll: this is also a vent blog. i have cptsd and most likely autism as well. ⚠️if you dont understand how this affects my interpersonal skills and emotional regulation, go learn more about these disorders before befriending me. i am not childish. be willing to accommodate or get lost⚠️
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inexperienced loser sadist loverboy whos a wannabe brat tamer, service top, owner, daddy, and possible stone top. your mean coworker who has secretly trained you to do his job for him. but also a super cool mysterious guy who wants to chase you in the woods then chain you in his basement for totally normal reasons. anhedonia and anorgasmia haver, but that doesnt mean i cant have fun!
#1 consent fan, bdsm is cool, nonsexual kink is awesome, ethics and philosophy are intertwined with kink, pride is found through kink. i love flirting with friendly anons and having toxic parasocial relationships where you fantasize about worshipping me, but anything beyond that i consider a commitment. constantly investigating if soulmates are real or not by looking for my person. love to be loved. need to be needed
❗DNI❗: cishet, "proship"/"propara"/"radqueer," "dykebreaking" or anything similar, proudly identify as a paraphile, INCEST AND "FAUX"CEST, the term "molestation," beastiality (zoo/"k9"), sexual age regression/ageplay, racism/raceplay, anti-transfeminism, gender essentialist, pro-ethnostates, ignoring the CONSENSUAL in consensual non-consent/hardcore rapeplay lovers, ed/sh blogs, lots of gore, necrophilia/snuff/sexual cannibalism, misogyny, chasers, feederism(this is NOT the same as finding fat people sexy please read a book), scat, emeto, detrans/misgendering, IF YOU FOLLOW AND INTERACT WITH PEOPLE WHO POST THIS SHIT I DONT WANT YOU HERE EITHER! GROW A SPINE
limits: everything above, cis people (i dont like you), watersports, furry, inflation, bimbofication, Master/slave (unrealistic for me), sexual guro, the words "rape" and "rapist" (seriously. i will participate in cnc scenes but i WILL NOT "rape" you), pregnancy/ovi, most foodplay, macro/micro, objectum, hucow, feet, vore, heavy intox, ass eating, extreme/permanent physical harm such as nullification, getting tickled, group sex (exhibitionism is fine)/open relationships/polyamory, and more. you can interact if you like this stuff as long as you arent gonna openly project your fantasies onto me, you just wont find this stuff on my blog. i wont sub for you, bottom for you, or call your goofy ass "sir"
if something isnt listed as a limit im probably into/post about it or open to it
i am not here to just post fantasies. bdsm is a lifestyle i am pursuing 💕
i dont usually tag anything, but i recently started to tag knives and sharp objects. that is probably the most "extreme" thing youll find here, alongside cnc scenes specifically talk of fake kidnapping roleplay. proceed with caution and dont be afraid to ask me for more thorough content warnings
