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[reallifesugar]

Everything I want, I always get. My future is filled with success and my greatness is set in stone.

[brinnanza]

google search: how to take a break from the linear flow of time

[soviet]

[undr]

Marc Riboud. Washington, 1967

[overthink]

Fabrizia Milia

[especially]

[dankmemeuniversity]

[viinnttaaggee]

[dankmemeuniversity]

[lazy-flower]

[luxe-pauvre]

“Flow is an optimal state in which you feel totally engaged in an activity - whether long-distance swimming or songwriting, sumo wrestling or sex. In a state of flow, you’re neither bored nor anxious, and you don’t question your own adequacy. Hours pass without your noticing. The key to flow is to pursue an activity for its own sake, not for the rewards it brings. Although flow does not depend on being an introvert or an extrovert, many of the flow experiences that Csikszentmihalyi writes about are solitary pursuits that have nothing to do with reward-seeking: reading, tending an orchard, solo ocean cruising. Flow often occurs, he writes, in conditions in which people “become independent of the social environment to the degree that they no longer response exclusively in terms of its rewards and punishments. To achieve such autonomy, a person has to learn to provide rewards to herself.” In a sense, Csikszentmihalyi transcends Aristotle; he is telling us that there are some activities that are not about approach or avoidance, but about something deeper: the fulfilment that comes from absorption in an activity outside yourself. “Psychological theories usually assume that we are motivated either by the needs to eliminate an unpleasant condition like hunger or fear,” Csikszentmihalyi writes, “or by the expectation of some future reward such as money, status, or prestige.” But in flow, “a person could work around the clock for days on end, for no better reason than to keep on working.””

— Susan Cain, Quiet

[homietwt]

alien

[dankmemeuniversity]

[poemswords]

[poemswords]

Book Recommendation: No One Ever Asked by Katie Ganshert

[kyloren]

The hall looked spectacular. Festoons of holly and mistletoe hung all around the walls, and no less than twelve towering Christmas trees stood around the room, some sparkling with tiny icicles, some glittering with hundreds of candles.

[proevil]

[poemswords]

[poemswords]

Book Recommendation: No One Ever Asked by Katie Ganshert