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20y/o tgirl from portland – i go by allie online since that's my fursona and i don't wanna share my real name lmao
owned kitty :3
this is primarily a kink blog so a. minors DNI you will be blocked (this includes ageless blogs) and b. be prepared to see some Down Bad Shit
feel free to ask/dm, i'm pretty open as long as you don't break any hard limits; nsfw stuff below cut
stummy hurt :(
^ me rn actually
stummy hurt :(
petplay but i'm too much of a responsibility so you surrender me to the catgirl shelter
pffft picking up tgirls is sooo easy. all you have to do is treat her like an actual individual with thoughts and desires and boundaries that you respect and accommodate, while also being aware of her struggles as a transfem in society and doing whatever you can to mitigate the bigotry she faces. i mean whoops sorry my fingers slipped i meant to type some shit about collars
this is not a post about kinky transfem sex.
reblog to bap prev with your paw
Did you hear a new love language just dropped? yeah its crazy. Its called just fuckin biting them.
I'm gonna finger u
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behold: culture
I recommend you read this if you’re unsure about your own rape fantasies or can’t understand why others are into cnc.
Educate yourself, know its ok to want what you want and feel what you feel.
Never judge yourself for the way you feel or the kinks you crave, whatever they may be!
My one (mild) complaint about the original post is that it mentions these sorts of fantasies being common among both men and women, but only cites data about women. So I did a little googling, and although this wasn’t published when OP first made this post (and thus can’t be blamed for not including it), I did find this great article, from a social psychologist who reports on a survey he did of 4000 Americans aged 18-87 (not just college aged women). He found that (exact quotes from the article):
“61% of self-identified women had fantasized about this [being forced to have sex] before, while 24% said they fantasized about it often.”
“54% of self-identified men had fantasized about this before, while 11.5% said they fantasized about it often.”
“68% of non-binary participants had fantasized about this before, while 31% said they fantasized about it often.”
Interestingly, the same guy also asked people about the inverse, i.e. did they fantasize about forcing sex on someone else, which he talks about in a blog post. He found (again using exact quotes):
“20% of self-identified women had fantasized about this [forcing sex on someone else] before, while 4% said they fantasized about it often”
“38% of self-identified men had fantasized about this before, while 7% said they fantasized about it often”
“38% of non-binary participants had fantasized about this before, while 9% said they fantasized about it often”
I recommend reading both articles, they go into a lot more detail than I’ve reported here. This guy also wrote a book on this topic, though I haven’t read it.
TLDR: you’re not a freak or abnormal, there is no such thing as thoughtcrime.
I think just as important, if not almost more so, especially because I haven’t seen that aspect discussed, is the figures for people who fantasize about forcing others into sex. Because that is stigmatized in a whole different way. And it can be reassuring for people wondering if those fantasies make them a bad person/predator to see that they are not the only ones. In the same vein where it’s not a phantasy but intrusive thoughts (just like jumping off a bridge or stabbing somebody with a knife sexually abusing a child is not an incommin intrusive thought, which makes sense, given how instantly reactive that topic is). Of course it’s a bit different, given that people sexually assaulting others in real life is a thing that actually happens very frequently in contrast to people “getting themselves raped”, with is not a thing (consensual non-conset is entirely different!) BUT my suspicion would be that the overlap between perpetrators of rape and those with raping fantasies is smaller than one might assume, because rape is most often a way to exercise POWER and not related to the sexual fantasies of the rapist.
Hi everyone, this is dirtybulkmaxxer, sorry for suddenly disappearing.
I Wanna thank everyone who either donated or boosted/plugged my fundraiser. I truly appreciate it and after combining the funds of it alongside a Christmas paycheck, I was able to order enough vials to last me a while! (photo evidence of one vial out of 6; due to the seller and my own privacy, I can't provide photos of the stealth packaging he used). It wasn't the cheapest, but it's whatever if it means getting my head on straight
Also this is my official departure. Due to racially motivated and transphobic harassment, I'm not coming back. But I do appreciate everyone who stuck out for me and anyone who interacted nicely!! And, once again, thanks for donating. You weren't scammed, I assure you.
Take care
Runs up behind you and kicks you in the balls really fucking hard
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fun fact: running dwarf fortress on linux with an AMD graphics card causes kernel memory leaks so bad they lead to a GPU crash
other fun fact: GPU crashes in the kernel can fuck up the filesystem so bad you need to use a live usb to repair things
i am having a great night
