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Lately I’ve seen a bunch of places trying to sell this piece of mine without my permission. Thanks to all of you who have notified me and have commented on their pages that this is my work. You can get this design at nikolking.threadless.com on a variety of items💀🌸🌸🔪
Albert Lynch (1851–1912), Joan of Arc, engraving from Figaro Illustre magazine, 1903
Nobody is immune to the neck kiss
Yeah? And? Coward.
I always imagined
A happy ending
.
New green leaves,
Running water
The opposite
Of winter cold . And
Road kill - Icy and Forgotten
On the side of the road.
Understand that there is a huge difference between someone finding you physically attractive and someone who actually respects and values you as a whole person and sees you in their future
I have a love
Affair
With what things would have been
If you and I
Had met 10 years ago.
Your hands, my heart.
It would have been magic and we
Would
Have been. Perfect.
Ba-by
two syllables. You called me,
with your cock inside me.
That made me shake and cum
To feel so held.
Like something washed up on a shoreline
That you never expected to find
But there in your hand
Like the pink inside a seashell.
Ahhhh this fucking hurts
It sucks so bad
It’s pulling a thorn out
that I shoved into my own foot.
I’m limping and slightly bloody.
Why can’t I flip myself over, smack my back
until I stop choking on my stupidity?
It will feel like being buried. One handful of earth at a time.
Take a deep breath,
spit out the dirt
grab a handful of intestines and squeeze them back into your gaping belly
Remember this moment passes - faster than you think
and begin to stitch your torn skin together with the fishing line of future plans and a needle of anger.
That part will hurt.
Once you’re done
You’ll be whole and stronger than you were.
What I want to say.
(If words didn’t echo)
When asked how I am,
I’m Becoming.
It suits me, as my true skin slips over my head and slides down my back.
Nothing is ever their fault. Ever. Even if you get one to acknowledge a problem, they will always twist it to be your fault.
I don't understand
Where I fall on this spectrum
There a (small) part that understands and vibrates in doxology m-a-i-n-l-y-p-r-a-g-m-a-t-ic.
But my soul
Flies higher and most unatural
Nothing to see. Move along.
“Cutting people out of my life doesn’t mean I hate them, it simply means I respect me.”
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Just because your abuser is not consciously aware that they are being abusive, does not mean that they aren’t. You don’t need to prove it to them for your feelings to be valid.
This is wild because I constantly see shit like “your abuser knows what he’s doing” and then see this and it pisses me off. Can people decide already?
It depends on the person. Some people are intentionally malicious, others are so self-absorbed that they either don’t realise or don’t care (or somewhere between the two) how much their behaviour is hurting others. Both are wrong. We have a moral duty to actively practice self-awareness and compassion.
Most abusers redefine “abuse” as “something worse than whatever I’m doing.” They justify their actions, often by vilifying or infantilizing their victims, and if they are aware a particular behaviour is abusive, they tend to believe they are the exception because of whatever special circumstances.
An abuser almost never sees themself as a “real” abuser, even if their abusive behaviours are consciously calculated rather than a thoughtless habit of manipulation. (Abusive behaviors tend to be a mix of the two, just like any other behavior pattern tends to be partly calculation and partly habit.) Even when they’re aware they’re treating you badly, they downplay it and convince themselves it’s not that bad.
It’s almost impossible to convince your abuser that what they’ve done/are doing is seriously, legitimately wrong. They’ve decided their actions are justified or excusable, or they’d behave differently. If they do ever acknowledge the full extent of what they’ve done to you, it will likely be because someone totally outside the situation has shown them - and that’s almost as rare as an abuser suddenly actually believing and respecting their victim’s experiences.
Don’t depend on the world-warpingly selfish perspective of your abuser for closure. The best closure is a building a life where you are free, safe, and autonomous.
