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[meanwhilepoetry]

“Do not allow him to consume you. If he does not call, go to sleep. If he does not message, put your phone away and have a fantastic day anyway. If he acts distant when you are with him and refuses to tell you what is wrong, don’t wait for him, go home and do something you love. If he tries to insinuate you do not need your friends now that you have him, spend more time with your friends. If he tries to teach you a lesson through the silent treatment, ignore him completely. If he plays with your feelings constantly, walk away from him. If he acts like your body is his entitlement when you are not ready, walk away from him. If he says terrible, unforgivable things and threatens to leave you after every argument, walk away from him. If he forbids you from doing anything you love, walk away from him. If he claims ownership of your accomplishments, walk away from him. If he demeans you or disrespects your being a girl and refuses to stop when you tell him it hurts, walk away from him. I cannot stress this enough, you live for yourself first. He is a secondary character in the story of your life. Do not allow him to turn you into a secondary character in your own book.”

— Nikita Gill, Advice for Teenage Girls Finding Their Way Through Love.

[flowerais-deactivated20211031]

you’re not falling behind. you are still young and have a whole life ahead of you. you have enough time to explore things u love and experience your life and make your goals come true and find reasons to live. take things one day at a time and don’t let the fear of falling behind stop you because life isn’t a race.

[pigmenting]

i love the part of growth that allows you to look back on a previous period of your life and recognize that parts of it were unhealthy. something that felt so normal wasn’t in hindsight. you’re not supposed to feel that tired all the time. you’re not supposed to be treated like that.

[yoonswife]

i love myself but i dont love me back

[ripptidez-deactivated20170530]

i have never ever related to anything so fucking hard

[brokenmachine]

“Maybe I wasn’t made for anyone.”

— 6 word story by K.L (via savixr)

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

“Just because things could have been different doesn’t mean they would have be better. Remember that.”

— Unknown

[tankaramo]

me: *gets scared that i’m wasting my life* me: i’m gonna deal with this feeling by taking a long nap in the middle of the day

[anditslove]

Alexandra Elle, Neon Soul

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

“Often we fall in love with a person we think we love only to discover that, for them, we are just someone to pass time with. And all the while, the person who truly loves us either remains a stranger or a casual friend. So here’s a piece of advice: don’t settle for the person who’s only passing time. Take your time, and be sure. Your life is too precious to waste on the wrong person.”

— Unknown

[discovering-sam]

I hate hate HATE that I require so much reassurance like things could be going perfectly fine but there’s always a part of me that believes that all of it is a lie

[bigbardafree]

deciding i was pretty was the best thing that i ever did

one day i was just like

fuck this im pretty

and i was

[tordenvejr]

the person you need is yourself

[cwote]

All of this is temporary. All of this is temporary. All of this is temporary. All of this is temporary. All of this is temporary. All of this is temporary. All of this is temporary. All of this is temporary. All of this is temporary. All of this is temporary. All of this is temporary. All of this is temporary. All of this is temporary. All of this is temporary. All of this is temporary.

[samdesantis]

Someone very important to me once said “sometimes, in order to get where you’re going you have to take two step backwards before you leap forward” and at this point in my life I find myself repeating and repeating this to myself because gosh darnit  I don’t want to work at the diner but I do want to make money and I do want to get out of nj. So watch out, I’m taking some steps backwards and hangin out here for a few months. No traveling, no bullshit. 

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

“Being alone may scare you, but staying in a bad relationship will damage you.”

— private-counselling.co.uk

[elizabyss333]

I guess I’m sad because I did not ever think that you or our love would one day be nothing more than a lesson I took far too long to learn. 

and still I keep on putting it off, the learning. I won’t commit it to memory because my body is begging me not to be finished loving you.

 It hurts that you are disappearing as a human lover and being reduced to just some  cautionary tale. A fairytale turned fable. 

I wanted a partner not a fire alarm installation. 

[skullxcrusher-deactivated201501]

nostalgia is a liar. nothing was ever as good as you remember it to be. there’s a reason you don’t talk to that person anymore, there’s a reason you’re not part of each other’s lives. don’t trust nostalgia. grieve. reflect. move on.