I'll get there someday

I-I don't know. I love my gay babies, cats, and many fandoms. I don't think more needs said. Oh and emotes o-o lots of terrible ones, just like the puns!

[faggottt]

Social experiment: if you know what this is don’t say anything just reblog

[abandoned-blog2-deactivated2026]

and are the lazy people who are able to cheat the system and live off benefits comfortably in the room with us right now?

[anxietyproblem]

Every time.

[thottybrucewayne]

Ain't it crazy that alot of people on this site are more comfortable being around people who talk non stop about being into incest than survivors who are vocal about wanting those people to fuckin kill themselves?

[thottybrucewayne]

No cause, yall HATE survivors who aren't either A. constantly retraumatizing themselves over and over because they've convinced themselves that partaking in that shit is somehow a healthy coping mechanism. B. Quiet and keep to themselves because every attempt to explain how this hurts EVERYONE is met with silence and/or harassment Survivors are never allowed to be vocally angry or disgusted by this shit because god forbid somebody tells you off about your nasty ass fuckin "hobby" and hurts your feelings by reminding you that the shit you partake in does real harm.

[twunkish-cleric]

Learning languages is SO FUN right up until you need to learn conjugation and then suddenly it turns sour real fucking fast

[twunkish-cleric]

[serial-unaliver-deactivated2024]

really i'm obsessed with money because when I was little always heard, "i'm so sorry but we have to go back to him or we will be homeless"

10 years old in the cold winter at his door again knowing he doesn't care if I die but I have to go in there

it's the reality for many mothers and their children and just one of many ways capitalism creates an abusive environment

[serial-unaliver-deactivated2024]

which is why it's concerning to see this "stay at home girlfriend" shit get popular on social media...

more people should know about financial abuse

[magz]

ID. Reply by bubbletea-enjoyer, that say, "I recently wrote an essay about this for uni, around 69% of women worry that they would not be able to afford housing if their relationship broke down. People really don't talk about this enough" End ID.

[patricia-taxxon]

apologize to him

[opha]

jerry was in my elder scrolls online guild, and he's one of the sweetest guys I've ever known. i feel sick every time i come across his image online because it's almost always the exact same baseless derision and shitty implications about him because he's fat and wearing a fedora for a photoshoot. the photoshoot this image is from was leaked from his private facebook. the harassment that he's faced from his memeification is worse than anyone knows.

[bi-medusa]

If anyone wants to donate to his GoFundMe towards his recovery after being put in a coma and losing most of his mobility due to COVID

(Shared on his Facebook) https://www.gofundme.com/f/9t3h7-stem-cell-regeneration?utm_campaign=p_cp+share-sheet&utm_medium=instagram_feed&utm_source=social

Revovery from Covid comp for Jerry Messing, organized by Patti P. Stiles

Hi, my name is Patti Stiles and I'm fund raising for my son, Jerry Messing… Patti P. Stiles needs your support for Revovery from Covid comp

[softwaring]

[butchdykekondraki-moved]

i think when some of you say "neurodivergent" you just mean adhd and autism

[butchdykekondraki-moved]

schizophrenia makes you neurodivergent. ocd makes you neurodivergent. ptsd (and c-ptsd) makes you neurodivergent. bpd makes you neurodivergent. npd makes you neurodivergent. anxiety makes you neurodivergent. depression makes you neurodivergent. even the "scary" mental illnesses make you neurodivergent. i'm going to start killing

[oshaviolator]

No one warns you about how addictive it is to do fuck all.

[nativenews]

[vandijkwrites]

Please do things to strengthen your attention span. It stresses me out so much when people just accept their small attention spans and cater to them without any acknowledgment that they are making it worse by doing that.

There is a reason attention spans are worse now and it didn’t just happen by chance. Media and the internet designed it that way and we went with it because it was easier.

Some of us with ADHD and brain fog need to meet ourselves where we’re at and exercise our attention span by watching a two minute video instead of a one minute video. Some of us need to sit down and read a novel with our phones turned off.

Wherever you’re at, just realize that not doing things that feel hard will keep making your attention span worse.

[inbredfawn]

If you are unable to afford donating, this link allows you to click a button every 24 hours in order help donate to Palestine.

American mutuals, I seriously urge you to tell Congress and Biden to stand with Palestine, and do not stop sending this message. You can also donate here.

This is not a war; what Israel is doing to Palestine is genocide. Do not sit idly by and do not stay quiet. Now more than ever is the most important time to not look away.

[dankmemeuniversity]

[defydamage]

I have never seen such an accurate depiction of what it looks like without glasses.

[nezzuko]

For writers with good eyesight, this is a good reference for what it’s like trying to see without our glasses

[shaneofaragon]

WHO WORE IT BEST

Gonzo (A Muppet Christmas Carol)

Timothée Chalamet (Wonka)

Voting ended onDec 31, 2023

[wewindondowntheroad]

That post about 30 year old coming of age stories?

I’ve been thinking about it all morning. What would the plot points be for that? What makes a 30 year old coming of age story?

Old folks sound off in the comments

[lawfulgoodness]

A few ideas:

Burying a parent that never encouraged independence

Acknowledging a trauma you've spent your life ignoring

Finally opening yourself up to a truly mutual, non-transactional relationship (platonic or romantic)

Leaving a community (religious or otherwise) that has kept you from growing

[intrepidheroine]

Obtaining a diagnosis for a health condition (mental or physical) and finally getting treatment and recontextualizing your life.

Student loan forgiveness kicking in, suddenly you can afford to live. That one small change snowballs into something big.

Starting over after the end of The Big Relationship you thought would define your life. Engaging in a new hobby/social group that adds context to how small life felt in that relationship.

You find yourself with a pet you have to care for, which teaches you to care for yourself.

You take a class somewhere that unlocks skills you didn't know you had.

[thepunkpanther]

HOW THE GRINCH STOLE CHRISTMAS (2000) dir. Ron Howard