Good evening class tonight we're going to get right into it. We're going to be discussing the topic of ROLES and no not the ones you get at Texas Roadhouse.
More specially we're going to be speaking about Submissive roles, what they are, what these roles entail as it pertains to the type of structure, rituals, & play that will bring out the best in each type of Submissive, and most importantly the unethical and downright unsettling practice of some "Doms" forcing, coercing, and demanding that subs take on roles that are unnatural for them.
I would hope we are all familiar with the submissive archetypes but if some among us are not, let's take a look at roles a submissive can take on and what they entail in no particular order.
Bedroom only submissives: better known as bottoms these types of Submissive are as the name implies solely relegated to submitting in the bedroom of as a way to decompress after a long day's work or running errands and doing chores.
The Service Submissive: Dedication Through Acts- This submissive finds fulfilment in performing tasks and providing services for their dominant partner. They take pleasure in acts of service, which can range from practical chores and errands to sexual services tailored to their dominant's desires.
Services Submissives can be broken down to the following subcategories
Domestic Service: Focus on household tasks like cleaning, cooking, or managing daily life, akin to a traditional 1950s role but within a power-exchange dynamic.
Sexual Service Subs: Focuses on adding a sexual component to a broader range of services, which can include professional, personal services that are designed to help their dominant succeed.
Bootblacks: Specialize in cleaning and maintaining leather gear.
The Bratty Submissive: Playful Resistance and Fun- this type of Submissive finds fulfillment in playful defiance or malicious compliance. They tend to be very playful, they like to provoke their Dom, either emotionally or sexually, and theyâre simultaneously trying to get into trouble and talk their way out of it.
The Rope Bunny: Bondage-Focused Submission-this type of Submissive derives pleasure and comfort being bound
The Little/Middle: Age Play and Caregiver Dynamics: derives pleasure from a safe, cared-for, and often child-like dynamic, relying on the dominant for nurturing
The Slave: Total Power Exchange Dynamics-A slave is a submissive who derives pleasure from giving their entire body and decision-making over to their Dominant. They no longer feel as though they own their body, and they agree to let their owner make decisions for them.
Many would view the slave type submissive as one of the most extreme examples of a submissive. This can be the case in many dynamics, but it will depend on how the idea of ownership and slavery is approached by those involved.
Slaves can be broken down into the following sub categories.
Sex Slaves-When somebody agrees to be a sex slave, they give up their ability to decline sex (within an agreed-upon dynamic that uses a safe word) and agree to serve their Dominant sexually whenever it is requested of them within the boundaries they have set. This can be anything from giving blow jobs in the theater to fucking in an alleyway to having a quickie in the kitchen during Thanksgiving dinner with the entire family just one open door away (I am guilty of that last one). Essentially, it is the "I get to fuck you anywhere, any time I want, and you cannot refuse" (again, within the pre-set boundaries).
Domestic Slaves-A domestic slave is one who may appear to be more of a 1950s style housewife. Their duties may include making dinner, keeping the house clean, taking care of chores like mowing the lawn, or cleaning the litter boxes. A domestic slave is one who gives up their life outside the home to perform duties within it.
Full slaves-A full slave would be an individual who gives up every aspect of their decision-making and gives it to their Dominant. This can look different depending on the agreements that they've come to within their dynamic, but often includes aspects of the Domestic slave and the sex slave.
The Pet: Animal Roleplay Submission-Pets derive pleasure from encouragement from their Doms, they like to play, and frequently they partake in various trainings that may look similar to what a dog may go through. Clicker training, as with a dog, is not uncommon between partners who practice pet play.
Pets can be broken down to these sub categories (my own personal subcategories)
Domestic Pets: these include puppies, kittens, bunnies, ferrets derives pleasure from being pampered, trained, and being allowed to take on a non verbal animal persona.
Ferals/Primals: wolves, foxes, lions (other big cats),deer,gazelle, ponies, stray cats or dogs. These pets enjoy being hunted or hunting, they get pleasure from getting broken
The Masochist Submissive: Pain as Pleasure-Masochists are those who derive pleasure & get sexual gratification from feeling pain.
Now that we have refreshed our memory of the submissive archetypes. It is vital that you figure out what type of Dom you wish to be. Once you identified the way you Dom then you can properly seek out what type of sub or subs would best fit your style and your personal dynamics.
It is equally important if not more so that as a Dom you do not look at every submissive as a catch all. It will always be detrimental to your submissives morale, to their physical, and mental health if you simply try to plug in your sub to do tasks or types of play that do not align with the archetype that they exhibit.
While Subs and Doms do have some overlap in many cases you can not expect a sexual services submissive to also do your lawn care or clean out your pool.
Take heed all my fellow Dom/mes learn how to properly use your submissives in order to have a happier healthier dynamic.
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