FTD: What Makes You Beautiful
This catchy song by One Direction is stuck in my head. And because of that, I think this is a great time to post something about what makes a girl so beautiful.
One way to do that is to look at the stories of some of the women of the Bible: There's Rahab who knew that salvation was only through the God of Israel. There's Deborah who never doubted that God would save the day. There was Ruth who was the exemplar of loyalty. Esther was the woman who was willing to die for the cause she was put in her position for. There was Mary the Mother of Jesus who willingly submitted to the will of the Lord without any question. Mary Magdalene gave up everything that she practically had to show that Jesus was worth of our everything.
You can also consider what Paul said in 1 Timothy 2:9-10: "likewise also that women should adorn themselves in respectable apparel, with modesty and self-control, not with braided hair and gold or pearls or costly attire,"
But right now, I'll be sharing what I THINK makes a girl beautiful. But first, words of caution:
For the men, I'm not limiting what God can do in your life through this list. The Lord may have for you a woman better than what I've posted here. I'm just sharing what I think so far are minimum standards to define beauty in the eyes of a Christian under God's grace.
For the women, I pray that while this list is not exhaustive, you would grow into the women that God wants you to be and not just what I've posted you here to be. I am imperfect and I may overlook a lot of things that I should actually consider.
The goal is always to become Christ-like, to become like Him in thought, words and deed. If Jesus is not our ultimate standard, I believe we are always settling for something less. ;)
HERE'S THE LIST:
She should be a Christian. Not a church-goer, but a Christian. A Christian follows hard after Christ. A girl hungry for more of Jesus. The Lord should forever be first in her priority list. She ignores you outright when it comes to choosing between Christ and you. She puts down everything for Jesus. If she loves Jesus more than anything else, that's nothing short of beautiful.
She has a humble heart. Humility with everything that God has given her makes her stand a level higher than most women in this day and age. A humble person always stands out.
She has definite, Bible-based standards and sticks to them whatever happens. You know she will guard her heart well when she has drawn the line and never steps out of it. She knows when to go and when to stop.
She makes you want to know Jesus more. She's the type of girl that makes you a bit ashamed you are not as intimate with Jesus as she is.
She always knows what she has to do next.
She prays and reads the Bible regularly.
She smiles. In real life and not just in text messaging.
She understands how important both TIME and TIMING are.
She speaks out her mind and she knows what she's talking about.
She knows how to defend herself.
She knows how to fix herself. For me, this is more of being able to always look presentable than being able to put on make-up. Please hear me: I don't hate make-up.
P.S. I believe everything aesthetically will follow when what's inside is beautiful.
That's all for now. Now, for you dear SOULΔier, what makes a girl beautiful?







