Sounds In Space

Liana - 26, I like things, but whenever i have to list them i almost instantly forget. Culture appreciating, language learning, adventure seeking, INFJ, baby rootworker. Talk to me. Or dont; just live your motherfucking best life.

[aidashakur]

I crave intimacy... but I don’t want temporary people touching my mind, body, or soul.

[prinnay]

Soul searching in the forest, I found myself —-

[iwatchforher]

bonus:

[vaspider]

After I had a doctor ruin my health, cost me years of my life, and nearly kill me by missing the diagnosis of a tumor which was compressing my spinal cord, I learned this script:

“I’m not here to talk about my weight; I’m here to talk about [problem]. I have a history of doctors focusing on my weight and ignoring problems like ‘a tumor in my spine,’ so I’m sure you’ll understand why I would prefer we did not ignore my stated complaint to focus on my weight instead.”

“I would like to focus on the complaint that brought me in today, which is [complaint], not my weight.”

“What tests or course of treatment would you recommend to a thin person presenting with my symptoms? Why are we not doing that? I would prefer to proceed with those tests and that course of treatment.”

“Please write in my chart that I asked you for these tests and course of treatment that you would give a thin patient with my symptoms, and you declined.”

“I’d like to request a copy of my visit notes from today,” [if the above don’t work and you don’t have MyChart, “what’s the correct email for my written request?”

It may be difficult to insist on a patient advocate to be in the room with you, but in many states you are legally entitled to one. I bring one of my partners bc I have medical-triggered PTSD. They know how to advocate for me or support me if a doctor tries to steamroll me..

If you are in a hospital situation and cannot get an official advocate in the room with you, ask for a chaplain. Chaplains are used to being in a room to comfort and help patients and in many circumstances, just having a witness in the room will change a doctor’s tune REALLY fast.

Medical fatphobia is a big problem, and it really heavily affects but is not restricted to people that doctors perceive to be women (whether or not those people are women). Don’t let yourself be bullied!

[sapphic-oswald]

“strawberry picking date 🍓💖” @pianta_ on twitter

[shouty-y]

Here’s my full piece for the “Classics but Make it Gay” zine which Kickstarter has officially launched now! 😳✨

[ceridwens-cauldron]

[oshuns-ambience]

[sosuperawesome]

Embroidered Witch Hats

Kiras Magick Needle on Etsy

[yourfriend-dan-deactivated20200]

What’s the *male* equivalent of a sundress

[tsunamiwavesurfing]

freeballin in basketball shorts

[inthegrandscheme-deactivated202]

a sundress

[prinnay]

Corgi, Kitten, Dragon, Griffin <3

[ivy1419-deactivated20230202]

I will receive 3 pieces of great news THIS WEEK. I claim it, manifest it & believe it

[classichorrorblog]

Elvira: Mistress of the Dark Directed by James Signorelli (1988)

[dearlybloved]

Where Are You Christmas? 🎄❤️

[cyberglittter]

https://www.instagram.com/p/B2aHwe5FqGY

[myfashionburden]

ulyana sergeenko spring/summer 2020 couture

[harriyanna-deactivated20221223]

let’s go more into detail about what misogynoir is so it will be a bit easier for you guys to notice it. on my youtube channel i talk about this subject a lot. if you guys are interested in learning more, please check it out.

[cognato]

me: *is born*

me: I would very much like to be excluded from this narrative, one that I have never asked to be a part of,

[bleat31337-deactivated20221104]

Joseph Campbell’s The Hero’s Journey “Refusal of the Call”