Yves

I lied about the re-theme. He/Hymn btw

[sourisking]

Hehe first post AND my pinned!!

uhm… my name(s) are Yves or Aether, and I use all masculine pronouns but especially he/aer/ky/hymn :3 He is a xenogender user as well! I’m transmascneu, Bi-Gay (no(?) attraction to women), and I kin

I’m disabled but you don’t get to know how!, I am diagnosed tho…

I’m super cool I promise :3

Erm… this is low key a discourse blog, I am anti-proship, anti-rad queer, pro-para ANTI-contact (<- VERY important anti…), anti transid, anti trace/transrace, anti radfem, and Uhm… idk what else ask for my opinions please!

please guys read my tags, I’m ok with ppl with opposing opinions liking shit but don’t follow me I beg… I look at every followers blog I do NOT want to see some of that shit!! PLEASE!

if I get any hate that’s be so funny ngl

feel free to dm me

I don’t know who to follow Uhm

[mackonfire]

For every like Elon Musk gets a kick to the balls, for every reblog Trump gets fucking punched

[ririwithrice]

and ever trans person gets a flower and a tootsie roll

[mackonfire]

For every like Elon Musk gets a kick to the balls, for every reblog Trump gets fucking punched

[ririwithrice]

and ever trans person gets a flower and a tootsie roll

[sourisking]

hey when you send in gross anon asks (staring directly at the anon from February 25th of 2025 5:05AM EST) what’s your goal? Proving my point?? Im just going to laugh at you man LMAOOOOO

[hearts4ayame]

THIS ☝🏽☝🏽☝🏽

[sourisking]

how to avoid becoming/getting back into any harmful community

go offline (seriously. Online is not necessary)

block tags and block people. (Your online safety does not have to cater to others I promise)

Follow unrelated tags to drown it out (like art tags, Uhm… gardening?)

Get hobbies (seriously, distract yourself if possible!)

anyone else feel free to add on (or don’t idc)

Also: things like discourse can be addictive and detrimental to one’s health, remember to put yourself first!

uhm… this is probably not gonna get much traction but this is also kind of a me thing so yea :3

[batrogers]

If I may add to this:

Filling the gap the community you left behind used to is important! You cannot leave a harmful behaviour if you don't replace what it was doing for you, because it was filling some role.

Do you need people to hang out with? Find a new social community, online or off (Meetup.com is good for in-person stuff.)

Do you need something to spend creative energy on? Find a new hobby or fandom you want to create for. (Again, meetup.com is good; the fanfic exchange community can also be good! If it was a specific fandom you need to avoid, simply do not offer or ask for it.)

Do you need something to simply do with yourself, period? Find a new stim of similar type. (Was it music videos? Art? video essays about a certain subject? Visual stim?)

If you're having to leave a hyperfixation, it IS possible, I promise. It will take time, and be incredibly frustration at first, but if you start seeking out new media or stuff to be interested in you can redirect.

It will not be easy. It will not be comfortable. You might be better suited switching "regions" of the fandom (from the under-18 to over-18 spaces, from the whump to the wild space AU, etc. etc.) but simply cutting off the old media and inundating yourself with a dozen new options from whatever your library has, whatever games you can find, anything...

You can do it. You should do it. You deserve spaces and community that makes you happy. A little discomfort is worth it to find happier spaces, for you and others.

Take care of yourself, first.

[sourisking]

how to avoid becoming/getting back into any harmful community

go offline (seriously. Online is not necessary)

block tags and block people. (Your online safety does not have to cater to others I promise)

Follow unrelated tags to drown it out (like art tags, Uhm… gardening?)

Get hobbies (seriously, distract yourself if possible!)

anyone else feel free to add on (or don’t idc)

Also: things like discourse can be addictive and detrimental to one’s health, remember to put yourself first!

uhm… this is probably not gonna get much traction but this is also kind of a me thing so yea :3

[titimylove]

if you can, get involved with volunteering or donating, or just generally doing something nice or helpful for people in your community. it feels good to help people, and the gratification is a dopamine machine.

get out of the house. go for a walk or go window shopping. go take a class or do an activity outside the house, like idk, painting ceramics, rug tufting, yoga in the park.

make something. could be a thing you know how to do that you haven't done much of, or a whole new thing. make linzer cookies. learn to knit. work on that oc you neglected.

talk to people not involved in the drama about things that are not the drama.

interact with soft animals. <3

[sourisking]

how to avoid becoming/getting back into any harmful community

go offline (seriously. Online is not necessary)

block tags and block people. (Your online safety does not have to cater to others I promise)

Follow unrelated tags to drown it out (like art tags, Uhm… gardening?)

Get hobbies (seriously, distract yourself if possible!)

anyone else feel free to add on (or don’t idc)

Also: things like discourse can be addictive and detrimental to one’s health, remember to put yourself first!

uhm… this is probably not gonna get much traction but this is also kind of a me thing so yea :3

[kereeachan]

Two more that might help:

have multiple communities--making one your end all is a bad idea

if you every write a super long screed in anger, do this: read the entire thing, out loud, to yourself. Then delete it. Take five deep breaths. And rewrite the response. It will ALWAYS be better and saner and hopefully shorter. You might even realize you don't NEED to write it after all.

[sourisking]

Leaving A Community

[Leaving A Community]

Hello, my qualifications on this subject are that I’ve left five communities this way (one of which was extremely toxic). I get it if you don’t wanna go through with something such as nuking your online presence btw

-you can either ween off your posts or stop all together at once, regardless at some point you gotta stop posting

-What I did was log out of all my accounts to look less suspicious, but you can also delete everything. Regardless get away from the accounts connected to the community you want to leave.

-ok this part is a tad extreme, but I changed the names I use most. So I went from [redacted] -> Saint/Yves/whatever… also changed my main neopronouns (still use the old ones) and also everything else I made completely public…

-take a short (or long) break before re-joining if you choose to do so. Makes it a little less suspicious and also gives you time to think if you want to /should re-join. (<- discourse based community leaving)

-Don’t talk about your old blogs/accounts. (Optional)

TLDR: Nuke your shit and go into witness protection (/j)

(like always, feel free to add on to this post with any other tips and tricks lol)

[drag-me-kicking-and-screaming]

Adding on my experience with this, because op said we could lmao

One thing that's helped me leave these communities a lot easier is remembering that you are like. Allowed to lie. You are allowed to lie to these people if it means you can faster leave a community you don't want to be in, especially if it's toxic.

One way I personally implemented this was by telling everyone there that my mental health was doing bad, and that I'm taking a break from social media as a whole for a bit. Then I slowly started letting myself become more and more inactive there. First I unfollowed the tags on tumblr. I put all of the discord servers I was in for that community into a folder and put it near the bottom of my server list (where I put all the servers I'm inactive in) After a good while, i started quietly shadow blocking and unfollowing friends and moots from there. It was slow, it took multiple months to complete the process, especially because it was hard to leave behind all of those memories, but it worked.

If someone from there ever tried to reach out, for any reason, I'd tell them that my mental health was still down, or that I was busy, and that I couldn't talk now. I'd also try to purposefully wait a few days to respond to sell the 'hiatus' thing.

I went back and started deleting old posts, tweets, messages, etc, to prepare for when I fully left, so new people who I was trying to make friends with or connections with wouldn't see my old posts and think I was still a part of it. Then, I did it. I left.

I left all the servers without any message about it. I blocked everyone from that community that I knew. I changed my bio to explicitly say I was against that community. And I never looked back.

You can lie to them. If you can get out of a toxic situation by lying, then lie. YOU CAN LIE TO THEM.

[sourisking]

Heya I got a genuine question!

Can you be pro para while also being ani radqueer, anti transid and hate the big 3? I just started up a blog that is a safe space for people wanting to share their stuff without raqueers about.

And honestly? I'm a little nervous fr.

you can be pro-para and anti-rq yes

im not sure what you mean by 'hating the big three'. if you mean to be uncomfortable with discoussion abt it then also yes, its ok to be uncomfortable.

anti-contact pro-para is a fairly common stance in anti-rq spaces from what ive seen

[sourisking]

anon im not replying to your ask because that was strange as fuck to send in but you somehow took my SINGULAR post talking about why I don't want pro shippers interacting with me in any capacity and made it mean I both hate minorities and have a blog dedicated to hating minorities.

This blog was used as a discourse blog specifically for radqueers, who btw support things like transnazis and trans groomers and so on and so forth you get my fucking point.

I specifically put these tags because I DONT care about what people ship, so long as they keep it to themselves (which can mean not posting it or even just sharing it within their circle and not putting it in general tags of fandoms.) I don't want to see ships related to toxic relationships (such as grooming...) because of what happened to me, and seeing that shit portrayed positively or even negatively might send me spiraling again.

Also I don't know if you noticed but I haven't posted or used this blog in MONTHS. July 15th 2024 is my last post, and that was private. my last PUBLIC post was in fucking February. I only even saw your ask because I accidentally logged into the wrong account.

And you would've only seen that post had you either been looking for pro shipper hate or had looked up "pro shipper" in the search bar (which can risk you seeing posts like mine, so most people just look at the fucking tags.). And if someone sent this to you it also applies. I did not tag that in any way where it would come across the feed of a pro shipper, because I didn't want to get someone bitching in my inbox like you did.

I tagged almost all of my posts with "anti-(blank)" in hopes that the people I'm against would maybe, I don't know, have that tag blocked. like you suggest I do. which I also do, I also have the priorship tags blocked.

all in all go fuck yourself.

[sourisking]

Jesus fucking Christ can people go one day without exposing private info abt someone they simply do not like

It’s not that hard

[sourisking]

three times now

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Jesus fucking Christ can people go one day without exposing private info abt someone they simply do not like

It’s not that hard

[anarchy-flagz]

Transn*zi Symbols Awareness Post.

(All asterisks/* are replacing the letter A. I do not support any form of antisemitism, this post is for education purposes only.) (Content warning for discussions of n*zism, neo n*zism, transn*zis, transneon*zis, and antisemitism.)

A big reason I left the radqueer community is because of the blatant antisemitism that goes on in the community, through those who support or use the term "transn*zi" and labels relating to it. As someone who is a flag archivist, emoji combo archivist, and most importantly jewish, I feel I need to take it upon myself to show you the symbols that are used by the transn*zi community so you all can keep yourselves safe. This post is going to be hard on me to make but someone needs to do it.

Awareness post starts here:

"transn*zi pride flags + symbol"

"transneon*zi pride flags"

"transn*ziaesthethic pride flag"

"pro-transn*zi/transn*zi ally pride flag"

"transn*zigender pride flags + symbol"

"transneon*zigender pride flags"

"n*zi attraction pride flag + variants" "purple is sexual, green is romantic, and yellow is platonic"

"neon*zi attraction pride flag + variants" "purple is sexual, green is romantic, and yellow is platonic"

Emoji combos to look out for:

"transn*zi": 💜ϟϟ "transn*zi": 💜🍞 "transn*zi": 🚩⛸ "transitioned transn*zi": ⚡️❤️ "transn*zigender": 💜🍞🏳️‍🌈 "n*zi attractions": ⚡️❤️🎀 "transneon*zi": 💙ϟϟ "transneon*zi": 💙🍞 "transneon*zi": 🚩🌫 "transitioned transneon*zi": ⚡️💗 "transneon*zigender": 💙🍞🏳️‍🌈 "neo n*zi attractions": ⚡️💗🎀

Everyone is free to reblog/repost to spread awareness on the topic. Honestly I shouldn't even have to explain how this type is stuff is messed up.

[sourisking]

” I don’t know how to make plain text 🥺” get someone to do it for you? Your shit is genuinely unreadable without plaintext.

[sourisking]

If you are using fonts, bold and/or italics, a typing quick, etc… then you should have plain text

[sourisking]

” I don’t know how to make plain text 🥺” get someone to do it for you? Your shit is genuinely unreadable without plaintext.

[iamthetruestrepairman]

They call me 007. 0 rizz 0 bitches 7 mental health diagnosises