cheer up, sleepy jean

Von | 24 | cis | she/her. #rns

[kaijuno]

Sometimes ur tits just gotta be out

[scrubsandkilos-deactivated20190]

I want all of it. Your sleepy mumbling. Your drunken embarrassment. Your silly faces. Your anger. Your dance moves. Your anxiety. Your apologies. Your sadness. Your stern looks. Your claustrophobia. Your exasperated tone. Your frustrations. Your past. I want all of it. I want all of you.

[lovelysuggestions]

i really am happy for u though, despite how much it hurts me.

[yourbigsisnissi]

the older i get the more it’s clear that being smart doesn’t get you very far if you’re not disciplined. there are tons of people who are brilliant but not disciplined. they have amazing ideas but cannot finish a project. they are creative and innovative but cannot execute a plan. i see how important it is to set deadlines and boundaries for myself an to be disciplined.

[mjalti]

[driflloon]

[surra-de-bunda]

These std rates keep getting worse and worse. Folks really think this is a game.

[dragon-in-a-fez]

it’s always amazing to watch adults discover how much changes when they don’t treat their perspective as the default human experience.

example: it’s been well-documented for a long time that urban spaces are more dangerous for kids than they are for adults. but common wisdom has generally held that that’s just the way things are because kids are inherently vulnerable. and because policymakers keep operating under the assumption that there’s nothing that can be done about kids being less safe in cities because that’s just how kids are, the danger they face in public spaces like streets and parks has been used as an excuse for marginalizing and regulating them out of those spaces.

(by the same people who then complain about kids being inside playing video games, I’d imagine.)

thing is, there’s no real evidence to suggest that kids are inescapably less safe in urban spaces. the causality goes the other way: urban spaces are safer for adults because they are designed for adults, by adults, with an adult perspective and experience in mind.

the city of Oslo, Norway recently started a campaign to take a new perspective on urban planning. quite literally a new perspective: they started looking at the city from 95 centimeters off the ground - the height of the average three-year-old. one of the first things they found was that, from that height, there were a lot of hedges blocking the view of roads from sidewalks. in other words, adults could see traffic, but kids couldn’t.

pop quiz: what does not being able to see a car coming do to the safety of pedestrians? the city of Oslo was literally designed to make it more dangerous for kids to cross the street. and no one realized it until they took the laughably small but simultaneously really significant step of…lowering their eye level by a couple of feet.

so Oslo started trimming all its decorative roadside vegetation down. and what was the first result they saw? kids in Oslo are walking to school more, because it’s safer to do it now. and that, as it turns out, reduces traffic around schools, making it even safer to walk to school.

so yeah. this is the kind of important real-life impact all that silly social justice nonsense of recognizing adultism as a massive structural problem can have. stop ignoring 1/3 of the population when you’re deciding what the world should look like and the world gets better a little bit at a time.

[abyss-tidalpunk]

an interesting way to look at the world

~ mod abalone ~

[fiercefatfeminist]

[byeeeexo-deactivated20181004]

please

[darkknight2sworld-deactivated20]

Seriously they got the most meat and can fuck better

[nymph-on-mars]

Don’t treat them like just sex objects either holy shit

[uppityfemale]

[enginesfullbloom]

top: holding phone with both hands, typing with both thumbs bottom: holding phone with one hand, typing with index/middle finger of the other vers: holding phone with one hand, typing with that hand’s thumb

[youhaveaguineapigwhere]

[misccee]

[gneisscastiel]

This is important information.

[foxymoley]

Hmmm

[blackgrlsaremagic]

@krissykakess

[ms-65-deactivated20230727]

Distance yourself for a bit, you’ll realize a lot.

[taurusqueer-deactivated20200607]

[joematar]

I’m sorry people aren’t sharing the actual end of this which is even better:

[hurleyquinnzel]

[ahsteria]

how to achieve your goals

start

[adhighdefinition]

[sadgalelissa]

when you want to be heartless but you know that’s not how you are

[yourstrulygeneva-deactivated202]

THIS

[nighttimeastrology]

“You can’t hold a grudge forever.”

“…I know”: gemini, cancer, virgo, libra, sagittarius, pisces 

“Watch me”: aries, taurus, leo, scorpio, capricorn, aquarius

[thatsbelievable]

[dankmemeuniversity]