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Not a feminist. I only care about childfree/4B women. Argue with yourself. I don't give a fuck what you think.

[floatingbook]

Old maids, cat ladies, spinsters, … It’s often scornful, the worst thing that could happen to a woman, but who is driving that image? Who is selling this to you as a negative thing? Because up to the last say fifty years, if you were a woman adamant not to have children, you only path was celibacy. There’s so few women’s voices put forward, but despite what the men would have you think, most of those old maids weren’t unable to get themselves a man; they merely chose not to have children, to live a life chained to domestic labour for an ungrateful man.

[sovforeign]

If you view the woman as a deity then why are you criticising men? They are a creation of your very same deity.

[floatingbook]

Biological clock for having/wanting children, what a lie. That pressure your feel is a societal clock. If you aren’t being a good proper vessel for the next generation, you’re failing at being a woman, says society (men’s oppression). It’s your duty to produce more males, says the man who wants a boy to teach and share his contempt of women with, so the reign of males can continues.

[sovforeign]

It is borderline impossible to stay within childfree spaces online without mothers hijacking the comment section making it all about their experiences. They're mental.

[squirepiranha]

I wish the OPs of these posts would just start deleting comments from mothers. Or tell them to not comment under her shit because it’s not for mothers.

At least, that’s what I would do. That seems to me like the most logical thing to do.

[sovforeign]

I noticed a lot of childfree women tend to walk on eggshells as to not get backlash from mothers. I think it's female socialized passivity at play in this instance.

[sovforeign]

Women will complain about abortion bans and being treated like breeding mules but these same women (who are most likely moms) will shut down conversations that childfree women attempt to have about our experiences.

I stay within childfree spaces. I follow mostly childfree women on social media. I don't go online looking for spaces where mothers are talking about their experiences because I don't care.

However, whenever I go into the comment section of a childfree woman's post I see a lot of mothers commenting. Some of them criticizing, some giving backhanded compliments or their motherly approval nobody asked for, but what I find most interesting is how they will talk amongst themselves within the comments on posts or pages that are geared towards childfree women.

They know who's reading these posts, they know it's predominantly childfree looking for support or a place to share our experience being childfree. But still, I see comments along the lines of: "yeah yeah being childfree is great BUT LADIES CAN WE PLEASE DISCUSS THE BEAUTY OF MOTHERHOOD? ☺️"

Women police other women back into the roles that they simultaneously bitch about.

Whining about motherhood and how hard it is to a man but if a woman says she's childfree and wants fuck all to do with kids then she'll weaponize her societal status of mom to size up that woman and try to make her seem lesser.

It's passive aggressive and attention seeking behavior.

[sovforeign]

It is borderline impossible to stay within childfree spaces online without mothers hijacking the comment section making it all about their experiences. They're mental.

[habbohoteldotdk]

don't mean this as victim blaming, only pointing out this same cycle repeating since the beginning - Gisèle Pélicot herself admitted in an interview she knew her husband had been previously caught taking upskirt photos & "forgave him". don't know if she knew he was also a suspect in a murder-rape case, but i find difficult to imagine she didn't. women keep defending and forgiving sexual predators until they themselves are the victims. i am 100% sure this is how it's going to pan out for some of the rapist's wives as well, in a few years time: they will start beating THEM, or assaulting THEM this time, or whatever the shit, and that will be the only moment where (a few of them) will wake up. but only for a few seconds though! sincerely doubt any of them will learn any sort of lesson with this. women are too stupid to do so.

True. I have nothing else to add

[sovforeign]

Dark femininity is the opposite side of the same male-pleasing coin.

Whether you're under a man or on top of him

sacred prostitute or tradwife

lilith or eve

you're still a damn slave.

[hushpuppy5-blog]

"Human beings see oppression vividly when they're the victims. Otherwise they victimize blindly and without a thought."

Isaac Bashevis Singer

[hagfication-deactivated20250920]

cannot stop thinking about all the young girls out there having to live with the most vile men on earth because of their mothers. we CAN blame them for it and we should blame them for it

[secedenconquer]

⬆️ Pay attention to what women say to uncover their true intentions. This woman is trying to negotiate with the XY audience. In the latest 6b4t/separatism/childfree trend, a lot of women's justifications for jumping on this bandwagon boils down to wanting to use these movements as leverage to get XYs to suck less. Being with XYs was their first choice, and abstinence is just Plan B because XYs didn't live up to their expectations. Their participation is conditional, and the moment XYs offer them some crumbs they will go crawling back.

Why don’t they view living XY-free and childless as desirable in and of itself regardless of external conditions? Why does this lifestyle have to come with supplementary perks as incentives? Why is it never “I’m gonna live this way simply because I want to”?

[secedenconquer]

Here is living proof that they are only celibate because they have no choice but to settle for a separatist lifestyle, since their ideal—to be loved by mails, is a pipe dream.

[sovforeign]

I've noticed this as well. The conversation never moves beyond complaining about previous relationships with men and trauma bonding. No action, no change, just pandering to males hoping biology will change.

Women who are angry and bitter at men but still want them sadly have taken over 4B and it is no longer about real separatism.

[femmefascist]

really need women to understand that men are not intimidated by you freeing the nipple and embracing femininity regardless of their political and religious beliefs. they don't care about your dating strategies. they don't care if you wait three months or three hours to fuck them. they don't actually care about the divine/light/dark feminine energy bullshit you're obsessed with. they don't care if you want to be a bimbo, housewife, or independent 'boss babe'. they want you to be desperate and dependent on them. and they want to nut. you're competing against each other just to receive a low value male who thinks he's the prize and treats you like his mother and a fleshlight

stay single and celibate. stop letting the y chromosome species into your life and your pussy

[vampirefeminazi]

"be his worst nightmare” how about stop obsessing over a man who doesn’t think about you at all

the “femme fatale” is a masculine fantasy. you’re kidding yourself if you think men are intimidated by it. Get a hobby

[unsentimentaltranslator]

Refusing to fuck his unwashed ass is his worst nightmare anyway.

[hadesoftheladies]

being unwilling to accept degradation on any level as a woman makes people so mad at you lmao. no i will not exist and walk around like i am here to be performative art and not a human being fuck you

[feministwhobites]

women are socialised to sacrifice our dignity for the comfort and pleasure of others, therefore asserting our humanity by refusing to do so is seen as an affront

[meangan-thee-lesbian]

I love how all the human population graphs I've ever seen just magically level out in 50-100 years from now, so all the pro-natalists can keep bleating about how overpopulation is a lie and actually they gotta keep breeding in preparation for the predicted 'drop in population'. This graph even shows the effect the entire black death had, which is apparently fairly fucking negligible compared to whatever tf these pro-natalists must think is gonna happen lmao

[haggishlyhagging]

My wish for every woman and girl is that she learns to live solely for herself. That she believes in her inherent right to simply exist without altering herself to fit anyone’s demands. Not parents, not children, not bosses, not spouses. Not pets, not the community, not the country, not the planet.

What would women and girls be like if we weren’t constantly threatened with social disapproval at best and annihilation at worst so that we agree to modify our most natural self to enable others to have an easier life?

What would the world look like if we were allowed to become our true selves? Do you ever think about it?

It is the tragedy of my life that I will never know. It is the tragedy of my life that I will die with this understanding: nearly every female on this planet is a self-hating, self-policing, unnatural composition of everyone else’s ideas about What She Should Be and not her complete, authentic, brilliant, natural, exhilarating, whole self.

[sovforeign]

"Finally, let us consider the customary association, in most cultures, Between the Mother Goddess and the noxious or despicable animals: snakes, dragons, Scorpions, spiders, crocodiles, octopuses, hippos, cows, sows, bears, wolves, lions, wild beasts, fierce beasts or hairy predators, claws, viscous and poisonous of all obedience? There is no dispute, it seems that femininity-maternity inspires very little sympathy to the symbolic function of the collective unconscious. Here the heart muscle of the problem is unraveled: why religions try to convince us that the misfortune has entered the world because of a woman's fault, otherwise because it is Woman we make our entrance into the misfortunes of the world?"