On having a savior complex
What follows is based on this video.
There are truths we do not want to see. Not because they are too complex, but because they are too honest. The very few "real" feminists (Celibate, WGTOW, Blackpilled, etc.) hope that women will wake up, that women have to realize their position in the world. But while you are doing that, you are suffering. But this pain isn't the fault of their malice; it is caused by your own refusal to accept their refusal to see. That is the trap. You think you are helping women as a whole by wanting to help them when in reality, you are simply hoping for their awakening to validate your own. You suffer because you still believe that your freedom is dependent on theirs, that women are all interconnected...
As long as you need women to see what you see, you are still attached to their validation. You see clearly and you do not understand why the majority of women prefer quiet submission. But the real question is this : why does it cause you so much pain ? Why do you even care in the first place ? You care because you are experiencing a form of reversed attachment : you are waiting for women to validate your awareness. You want them to finally acknowledge the obviousness of what you see. But what you need to understand is that their awakening is not in your hands. The more you insist, the more they resist because you become a threat to their illusory and flawed perception of the world. The more you try to save them, the more you become the aggressor in their eyes.
You are not there to save the world, you are there to save yourself. Don't try to make women understand, try to stand tall, without spectators. The problem lies in your own intolerance of being misunderstood. The real question is not : why don't they see ? The real question is : why do you keep trying ? Those who see clearly become suspect. Those who do not want to see never attack head-on; they accuse your morality, your assumptions, your ethics, your ego... They tell you that you are controlling, that you are arrogant... It is why women accuse you of being prude, of being a lesbian, of wanting to destroy their heterosexual relationship, of trying to divide women and blah blah blah...
It is no longer the content of your words that is criticized, but your own legitimacy in speaking them. And those who lack the courage to think independently will elevate their weakness to nobility. And for their stance to remain noble, they must sanctify their inertia, victimization, their powerlessness, and condemn anything that resembles discernment or rational thinking. Because it forces them to face themselves, and they can't stand it. So they MUST always resort to "But we have been brainwashed for thousands of years" or "But sex is natural and you cannot deny women sexual gratification, it is not realistic ! I deserve sexual fulfillment !" or "OP is probably an undercover lesbian who wants to turn women gay!" or "You probably are frustrated because no man wants you !" They ask us to remain silent so as not to shatter their collective illusion. Their wounded ego has become the only truth.
That is the reason why even "blackpill feminism" is stupid IMO. Not the ones embodying it obviously, but the philosophy itself. You already know the truth, why would you get pissed at somebody not agreeing with you ? Why are you still frustrated when women do not want to change their worldview ? Why are you engaging in petty drama online ? Trying to convince anybody is stupid, especially when History proves us that women like being the underdogs. They love being in an inferior position, as long as a man is by their side.
The best example I have in mind is Madeleine Pelletier.
She was one of the first women to openly advocate radical ideas on equality and the emancipation of women through work and education. At the end of her life, her writings and career revealed a certain disenchantment and bitter insight into the condition of women and the relative failure of her struggles. She ultimately harshly criticized women, whom she deemed too submissive, too passive, and not sufficiently committed to their own liberation.
She lamented their lack of solidarity and their tendency to conform to traditional roles (still true now more than ever). Most women desperately want to become a man's property. Being placed under a conservatorship having a man doing all the thinking and hard work for them is the average woman's ultimate goal.
Madeleine felt abandoned by her former political and feminist allies (Duh 🙄) which reinforced her bitterness. But despite everything, she never renounced her ideas.
The truth is that the ONLY way to claim your freedom is to renounce validation by those who have chosen conformity and victimization. Your lucidity is not proven by convincing others; it is asserted by embodying it, without the need for approval and by having the courage to face rejection and incomprehension. Stop trying to save or convince anybody. Choose freedom and detachment. Choose Peace.