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If you accidentally hurt someone or cross their boundaries and they make you aware of this, literally all you have to do is apologize and stop. You don't have to beat yourself up internally for months. You don't have to hate yourself for fucking up. You don't have to feel like a horrible person. No one benefits from any of that - and at worst, such an extreme reaction will make the person in question less likely to speak up around you in the future, cause even if your negative reaction is directed at yourself and not at them, it's still unpleasant for everyone involved.

holyhomox

Not sure what to do with this information… but gay rights!

evilkitten3

damn dracula fucked him up worse than i realized

foodffs

FLUFFY BLUEBERRY PANCAKES

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Is this how you roll?

2errrrrkkk

T-Pain Mashes Up His Greatest Hits

juelzsantanabandana

I just had a spiritual experience listening to this holy shit T Pain is the GOAT 🐐

sexwitsockson

son.

earthstory

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Rhinoceros out for a stroll. Man that thing moves fast.

lagonegirl

Her child should have lived to see this. Heartbreaking.

willis-n-wonderland

This brought a tear to my eye!!!

chancecalloway

🔑🔑🔑

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refinery29

This is what a real, qualified OBGYN will tell you about what women feel when they get an abortion

Dr. Willie Parker, who is trained as a gynecologist and OBGYN, is a hero for the pro-choice movement because he’s honest about the undiscussed aspects of getting (or not getting) an abortion. Watch how he gives a consultation.

afunnyfeminist

That last statement about regret is so important, because so many people don’t understand what it is or what causes it. Anti-choicers exploit this by manipulating pregnant people and creating doubt, which only increases the likelihood of regret, no matter what decision the pregnant person makes. You know what is best for you, even if it takes some time to figure it out.

profeminist

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lechugaaaaadeldiablitoooo

What I don’t understand is when women plan on getting an abortion and then change their minds? How does that happen? My old friend did this both times she kept saying “I really can’t have it” but there’s no abortion clinics in her city so maybe she felt she had no choice. Regardless, she seems to love her kids but idk how that feeling of regret is not somewhere inside her still.

bostonpoetryslam

To do spoken word, you need bodies, you need people, you need that sense of gathering. And that is not only such a powerful political tool, but … to have that the chance to sit up there and tell your story. To sit in a room that is meant for you to be heard is such a powerful thing. And not only is the speaking important, but the listening is important. In poetry slams you get to hear from people from all walks of life, you get to hear from and talk to people you wouldn’t meet in your daily life. And it brings down some of those boundaries that we have, you know, as people who don’t necessarily interact with people who aren’t like us. A poetry slam becomes a watering hole from all of us.

Danez Smith, interviewed by Katherine Brooks for the Huffington Post (via bostonpoetryslam)

I don't have trust issues. I can’t trust YOU.

sincerely,

I see you. You think i don’t. But I see you.

#I see you #psssh

Don't go back for anyone. If they are ment to be in your life they will catch up.

@spanglisass

Omg got an urge to watch the Lion King! I love you Pumbaa!!

It ended how it should have end. It ended how it was always going to end. It ended.

@spanglishsass