For a Gwen Stacy story š her transmasc sibling struggling with dysphoria and Gwen comforting and being protective of him?
Got Your Back - Gwen Stacy | Headcanon
Summary: How does Gwen deal with her transmasc sibling who's dealing with dysphoria?
Warnings: Swearing, Slight Crudeness, Reader Goes by He/Him Pronouns.
A/N: These are more general headcanon's with the request also added in. Thanks for the request, Anon. Sorry that it's a lot shorter than my other stuff (I ran out of ideas). But, if needed, you can always request a part two!
Word Count: 800+
Everyone has their own personal bouts of dysphoria.
But it doesnāt make it any less important when it comes to Gwen helping you deal with it. She feels like, as your sister, itās her duty to make sure youāre feeling comfortable in your own skin each and every day, and so when thereās those occasions ā whether theyāre often or not ā she takes them very seriously. Almost too seriously, sometimes. Though, thatās just who she is, she canāt really help it.Ā
Itās endearing, more than anything.Ā
For Gwen, itās like second nature. Knowing when youāre feeling particularly dysphoric, and when youāre needing affirmations that correlate to your identity and who you truly are. She manages to be pretty subtle about it, too. Like when you get dressed for school or any other outing. Youāre wearing the clothes that you find comfortable, that fit you, and she immediately notices you and calls you handsome with a teasing shove to your shoulder, just to embarrass you a little while simultaneously complimenting you.Ā
Itās her duty as a sister to tease you, just let it happen.
Sheāll do other things to help you feel more like yourself, too. Like making sure to refer to you with your pronouns or your name more often than not, just to remind you and assure you that you are exactly what you identify as. Because the last thing she wants is for you to feel dysphoric or insecure about your gender. Sheāll even go as far as to swing around town and buy you a gift that affirms you, too. Maybe a new hoodie or t-shirt, or something that youāve personally had your eyes on for a while.
Once, she bought a t-shirt for herself that said: āI love my transmasculine brotherā.Ā
She unironically wears it.
Says she likes the material, so thatās why.
You think sheās a dork for that.
Gwen would definitely beat someoneās ass, too, if they misgendered you or made you feel like you were lesser than them. Has one-hundred percent punched someone in the jaw after they blatantly went out of their way to use the wrong pronouns for you. That was literally after she corrected them as well, and they still didnāt listen. Sure, she was sent to the principal's office immediately after, but did she regret it? Hell no. Did your dad really care after he heard her reasoning? Hell no.Ā
He actually rooted her on, but likeā¦ discreetly.Ā
He is a cop, he has to uphold some form of professionalism.Ā
Gwen will sometimes go to the pharmacy and pick up your testosterone, if thatās something you choose to take. Always comes in through your window and hands you the supplies like some sort of magician thatās wondering if they plucked out the right card you had chosen. Youāll always internally wonder why she didnāt just decide to come into your room normally, but after so many times of her doing it, you just accept it and let it go. On top of that, if youāre someone whoās afraid of needles, or just absolutely loathes the idea or act of injecting yourself, sheāll do it for you ā she doesnāt mind.Ā
She doesnāt even blame you, honestly.Ā
If you have top surgery, too ā or just recently underwent the procedure, sheāll monitor you like a hawk. Making sure your drains arenāt leaking or anything, making sure your stitches havenāt come loose, or even just helping you put on a loose shirt ā like a flannel, once youāre allowed to by your doctor. Sheās pretty damn attentive towards you, especially since your dad is always at work, so heās unable to personally help you himself. Youād almost prefer her to assist you anyway, though. Contrary to popular belief, your father is pretty squeamish, so the possibility of getting anything done would be low.Ā
She would get on your case about applying scar cream to your chest after you get rid of those stupid drains and are able to ā finally ā live out your day-to-day life without the restrictions your doctor forced you to abide by. Whether youāre fine with the marks healing or not, she doesnāt care. Put on the applicant or sheāll web you up and do it herself. Sheās done it before, donāt test her.Ā
All in all, though, Gwen has got to be one of your biggest supporters. Itās hard to get her to not support you on something that makes you feel more comfortable in your own skin, as well as makes you genuinely happy. Of course, sheād definitely say youāre wrong and dumb if you think that pineapple belongs on pizza, but thatās entirely trivial in comparison to you being transmasc. Youāre her brother, someone sheād do anything to protect.Ā
So to say she loves you a bunch, is an understatement.Ā
Sheād flip New York upside down if it meant making you happy.Ā
"i saw you in a dream
then it came to an end
i wonder if you'll come visit me again
you're taking your time to reappear
i'm starting to believe that when i call your name"
check out the wonderful ghostflower animatic made by @tikklil here:
I actually honest to God can't imagine how one can hate her this goober this scrunkly creature (affectionate) she's so eepster like look at her face here
UEGEOARBEN WI I JUST GGHH???? That face why she think she so cool when she's just a goober SHE SO GOOBER I MEAN LOOK AT HER RIGHTEOUS GRIN THAT IS THE FACE OF A GOOBER WHO ACCIDENTALLY DIALS GAMESTOP TO ORDER A PIZZA AND TAKES WAY TO LONG TO NOTICE THAT SHES ON THE PHONE WITH A GAMESTOP EMPLOYEE
I don't understand people who say that Gwen and Miles don't have to end up together just because they're a girl and a boy and how a girl and a boy can be just friends but at the same time those people claim that Gwen and Hobie most likely slept together when she stayed over just because they're...you know...a girl and boy, and that a girl and a boy can't be just friends...
I think Miles Morales and Darius Bowman would be great friends. Both strongly believe in fighting for what is right, both are super nerds and both of them are in love with their cool friend with dyed hair.
I genuinely don't understand how anyone can hate Gwen when she's a 16 year old exposed to the concept of the multiverse and her dad is whack and- and oh mY SHE'S A LONG WAY FROM SUBURBAN TOWNā
CAME TO THE CITY FOR THE LOVE GOT HER HURTIN NOWšš
I really love how Gwen's universe is all full of colors that change depending on her emotions and all that because, in some way, that's how being a girl feels like for me.
Idk about yāall but in across the spideverse, Gwen saying to her dad āyouāre a good copā never meant āyouāre one of the āgood copsāā to me it meant āyouāre good at your job of being a police officer, and that makes you worse of a father to meā because their entire conflict in the beginning of the movie was that he prioritized being a police officer taking down spider-woman over being her dad? Bc the last time they saw each other he pointed a gun at her and then after she revealed her identity he still went to arrest her and would have done so if Miguel hadnāt but him in a cage? I saw people not liking that line bc hearing āgood copā is kinda sketchy most of the time but like she didnāt say it like it was a compliment I think? She was like āyou tried to arrest me. Youāre a good cop šā and then he said that he quit so like Iām 90% sure she wasnāt saying it the way anti-acab ppl say āgood copā
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