Briscuit 🍃

Just an ordinary gal

[vani-e]

JOLYNE JOLYNE JOLYNE

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[movedto-prncss-peach]

Is it worth it to still be on tumblr?

no but where else we gonna go

[krizu]

[lucydacusgirl]

Nothing will make you evil like trying to find a specific tumblr post

[stealthboy]

tumblr’s search engine gaslighting me by telling me a post that i made a few weeks ago and can remember word for word doesn’t exist

[best-of-memes]

[puffychi]

🏥🎀❤️

[prairiesfire]

Now I’m just being silly.

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[neckkiss]

clouds clouds

[ackersoul]

Shingeki no Kyojin S4P2 ED

[animalvegetablemineral]

Melanistic Adelie penguin

[maplebungus-deactivated20221118]

put a shirt on that beast.

[hualians]

[kvroko]

[fluffysheeps]

The mews!

[guilty-as-battery-charged-deact]

Unpopular opinion but an adult still living at home with their birth family doesn’t owe you an explanation for why they’re living there. 

It could be an illness/disability they have that’s not fully visible. Maybe they want to be around to care for their aging parents. Maybe the rents in their area are so disgustingly, astronomically high that it really doesn’t make sense for them to move out. Maybe they just don’t trust strangers enough to move into shared accommodation. No matter what it is, it’s not your business. 

[neofooturism]

or maybe they’re not american

[pokedext]

Yeah apparently it’s very American to have a nuclear family dynamic. Not all relatives should live together for personality reasons, but honestly having lasting family relationships outside of the holidays is very normal in other countries. I think it’s probably more finically realistic for families to stick together. Don’t know why this country condemns it.

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[aqueerkettleofish]

#i know people have started criticizing the#‘men are afraid of getting laughed at women are afraid of getting killed’#but this is real?

Oh, yes.

A few years ago I went to pick up a woman I met on OKCupid for a date, and a friend of hers was there. They kind of over-explained “Oh, she just showed up to say hi” and there was a vague nervousness in the air that even my autistic ass was picking up on. Her friend was playing conspicuously with her phone. I went “Ah, the safety. Need to get a picture?”

Dead silence for about a second and a half, then the friend took a picture, looked at my date, and said “Have fun” and walked out the door.

(I would ordinarily have been clueless, but I’d just been asked to be the safety the previous night.)

My advice to male-presenting folks: recognize that this not your problem. By which I mean, this sort of security check isn’t a problem for you. It doesn’t hurt you. You aren’t being insulted or disrespected. And if you treat it like what it is– a reasonable adaptation to an unreasonable situation– and just roll with it, your dates will be more comfortable, and you will have a better time as a result.

The same applies to phone calls mid-date. Let them answer the damn phone without drama.

They aren’t accusing you of being a dangerous person. The very fact that they are willing to go on a goddamn date with you means that they have extended a certain level of trust. But the fact remains that there isn’t really a way to distinguish between “a man who isn’t dangerous” and “a man who knows how to behave like he’s not dangerous.”