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regal-bones

Holy ground

regal-bones

guys I went back to recreate this and. It’s gone.

Pour one out for butt dyke house

my-gender-is

My gender is mostly about loathing the toils of late stage capitalism

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so I made some pride froggies and ... 🥺😔🐸

systlin

Getting down on my knees and thanking the humans who invented dishwashers and washing machines.

ihonestlydontknowwhattocallthis

InsNe that dishwashers are more efficient and easier than just washing them manually but they also use less water. It’s a win win situation

systlin

They ALSO sterilize dishes, due to operating at a far higher temperature than human hands could ever tolerate. It's a win every way.

systlin

Made this post about 15 minutes after the repair guy who fixed the pump on my dishwasher packed up his tools and left, as the dishwasher was whirring along doing my dishes from that morning.

He said the exact same thing, which I did not know before that, so spreading this knowledge.

lustcannibalism

no one understands me when I talk about how much I miss my favorite tv show but no I cannot just rewatch it because I can’t look at the characters without my heart exploding out of my chest okay

spring-ephemeral

it doesn't matter which country we're talking about here, if someone from any country in the world says "oh where i am from there is simply no racism", you not only shouldn't believe them, but you should actually never take them seriously about anything ever again.

pangur-and-grim

a sharpened banana could change the world

pangur-and-grim

we’ll do this as many times as it takes

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[Image ID: Tumblr tag from docjackal reading: We can't keep doing this Greer. /End ID]

flawlest

the-real-seebs

The scariest shit I see always comes from people who are quite confident that, being very loving, they could not be doing anything abusive.

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okay. breathe. listen to my voice. can you tell me five things in this room you can fuck?

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okay great. now list me four things in this room you can kill.

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beautiful. there you go. okay. now: tell me three things you can impose unjust taxes on.

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almost done. can you list two things you could shove in a pipe and smoke?

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last one: one thing you could use as a makeshift weapon?

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why are you still crying

promethiae

we need a different word for "spicy" coming from capcasin. Spicy should be reserved for well spiced, like the best pumpkin pies. A good curry can be both spicy and spicy. This is confusing. Likewise, hot is a temperature. So a mulled win can be both hot and spicy, but also not hot or spicy.

I propose "noci", short for nociception, because capcasin activates your nociceptors even though no injury has occurred.

gr8writingtips

writing tip #4131:

make sure you dedicate your book to someone! then if another reader doesn't like it, you can remind them it isn't FOR them! it says right there at the beginning who it's for, silly! if the person you dedicated it to doesn't like it, you're fucked. sorry

avalonjoan

Love that you’re making it clear exactly what physical demands this job has, but could you possibly, potentially, phrase it differently?

epicdogymoment

[ID: text screenshot that says:

Crawling Rarely (Less than 2%)

Reaching Frequently (34-66%)

Gross Manipulation (Handling) Frequently (34-66%)

Fine Manipulation (Fingering) Frequently (34-66%)

Feeling Constantly (67-100%)

/end ID]

genderkoolaid

I'm non-binary, but I don't use enby (it makes me feel infantilised), so by extension don't identity as an enben, so posts saying non-binary people are enben would not apply to me.

i mean. that's a fair way to feel but i feel like this is also a little essentialist. some people specifically identify as girls or boys but not women or men; that's important on a personal level, but when someone is using "women" or "men" in a broad sense, i would say most people who prefer to call themselves women or men don't go "well i guess this post doesn't apply to me!" and in reverse the same is true. if someone says "this is for the girls!" they generally do not mean "this is EXCLUSIVELY for people who use the term "girls" for themselves, NOT people who dislike calling themselves girls and prefer to say they are a woman!" even though people often feel that way because "girls" feels infantilizing. we understand that there is a difference between what terms different individuals feel accurately represent them, and what terms are used to speak broadly about people of similar gender identities.

also, a lot of people prefer enban over enby? the two terms come from the same source but like. a lot of people use enban specifically because they don't use enby. if you dislike both that's fine but i don't really get the "by extension" here.

ultimately i Get It. and i don't think we should completely stop using "nonbinary people" for this reason. i try to use nb/gq/gnc when speaking as broadly as possible, since many people feel alienated by how nonbinary is used. and i personally think we should start saying people who are women / people who are men more. but i dislike the trend amongst the nonbinary community where any umbrella terms are problematic because some people don't personally identify with the umbrella term. not even "nonbinary people" covers how everyone personally identifies, but taking this approach to umbrella terms ultimately makes it impossible to ever talk about our community as a community. i personally prefer to call myself an androgyne (it feels more personally accurate and feels right), but if someone says "enben" and means "all people whose gender identity is outside of binary man or binary man" i think i'll live yknow