Not As Sweet As I Look

Wendy • 25 • she/her/elle • bi/pan • polyam • minors do not interact -_-  Dominant side blog of chronically-loquacious

[mas-o-kissed]

Forced intox….. forced hypnosis…. forced regression…. any sort of forced alteration of the senses, the state of mind….. grrraaa

[kysluts]

i love subby boys who are still gentlemen. open doors for me, carry my bags, take me on thoughtful dates, make sure i feel happy and safe and taken care of and in return ‘ll bend you over and fuck your pretty dumb little brains out till you’re a whimpering slutty mess. seems like a good deal imo.

[luvsicksubs]

seeing sub boys absolutely broken and fucked out is literally the 8th wonder of the world 

crying, sobbing, drooling and begging about how much they need you, still even after you’ve pushed them far past their limits and they’re still keening for your attention and clinging to you, chasing their next orgasm or spark of pleasure cause they worship you 

the level of devotion and adoration when you touch or kiss them or reassure them and they’re just so adorably helpless for you all they know how to do is say thank you over n over.. so pretty and good. such sweet sweet boys. 

[starlitdomme]

Discovered a new aspect of hypno kink this weekend.

As a new hypnodomme and analytical person I spend a lot of time discussing boundaries, expectations, and desires with my partners. I also spend a lot of time observing my partners and their reactions.

This weekend, I noticed that my pet kept falling into trance from simply staring into my eyes. As cute as it was, I wasn't sure why it was happening, especially without priming. Then I remembered that I gave him that suggestion when we played months ago. While the fix was easy it made me realize how different our default states were.

As a subject I assume that a suggestion is only active for the initial session unless otherwise stated, which is the complete opposite for my pet. He assumes that the suggestion is active for all play sessions unless otherwise stated.

After adjusting my approach I got the desired behaviour but now I'm wondering...

Have you noticed anything similar with yourself or play partners?

[starlitdomme]

I like the idea of subtle conditioning. Creating submissive associations between otherwise innocent gestures.

Positioning myself so that you have to look up at me when we cuddle.

Holding your hand and guiding you whenever we go out.

Asking you to do things for me even though you we going to do them anyway.

Essentially conditioning you so that you feel naturally submissive around me.

[starlitdomme]

To all the subs with "no limits" please consider

Why would any responsible adult want to play with you? You're basically saying "I don't care about safety, don't respect my health or yours, and have no concept of boundaries"

I'm not talking about thoroughly negotiated "no limit" fantasies. I'm talking about subs that day this during pre talks.

Doms aren't mind readers, even if it might seem like they are at times.

You might think "yeah I want that evil dom that's gonna use me however they want" but without pre talks that's just abuse.

[starlitdomme]

Does it hurt baby? Do you want me to stop?

Aww your frantic nods almost make me want to give you a break...

almost

but I can't help myself when you're like this.

Overstimulated, frantic, and begging with your holes stretched so nicely on my strap.

You've already lost track of how many times you've cum for me.

Don't worry pet, you'll stop cumming eventually.

Why don't you give into it? Give in to the pleasure. You'll do that for me right? Just lean in and let it overwhelm you.

You can even pass out if you'd like, I'll take care of you.