hi! um. i’m a 24 y/o bi nonbinary person of color, & generally i’m very ok with being called fem/masc/neutral terms and people of any gender/sexuality following me!
disclaimer: this blog is largely for fantasies. it contains triggering content, including consensual non-consent kink or non-consent fantasies. the content i post and reblog does not necessarily reflect real life desires. fully-informed and freely-given consent is essential.
this blog is 18+ only. you will be blocked if you do not state your age or age range in your bio or pinned. i will also block you if you post content that i disagree or am uncomfortable with, but age is what i always consistently check for.
asks are open & encouraged; friendly or flirty or filthy! though i may reply in a teasing or reluctant way to a kinky ask, i will not engage playfully with an ask that genuinely makes me uncomfortable.
DMs are fine, but i’m not looking for any kind of romantic relationship, and may not always reply.
i have a backup account @quietplaything! other stuff like tagging, kinks, and limits are under the cut.
i tag kinks as much as i can:
kinks or possible triggers are tagged by adding a period to the end: #somno. / #cnc. / #intox. / #group. / #sadism. i’ll try to make a full tag list at some point.
original posts about kinks and fantasies will be under #plaything's mumbling
less serious and shorter ramblings or jokes are in #plaything's status
#plaything's whines is for original audios
#plaything's game means i want you to interact with me
#plaything on display means you can ask for pics of me in dms!
#asks! is for, well, asks; #playful questions is a more specific tag for nsfw-ish and kinky asks, including giving me orders and teasing me — i may answer a lot of these in a row sometimes, so please filter the tag out if it makes you uncomfortable!
#safety is a catch-all tag for posts about healthy kink dynamics, body positivity, queer pride, warnings, advice, and the like.
#stunning people is the tag for other people’s original photos, videos, and audio.
kinks i post about: cnc, somnophilia, restraints, intoxication (drugs & alcohol), overstimulation, impact & pain play, light piss play, royalty roleplay, dacryphilia or crying, kidnapping roleplay, degradation & praise, group sex or gangbangs, objectification or dehumanization, mild exhibitionism, weapon play (guns & knives), surreal fantasies (tentacles, werewolves, etc).
things i won’t post: photos of me, any personal information, patriarchy kink, “traditional” dynamics, pregnancy, caregiving dynamics, race play, corrective rape, misgendering, scat, vomit, needles, ageplay, realistic beastiality, piss swallowing.
what to call me: jay/quiet! but also fucktoy, slut, whore, good boy/girl, praising endearments, pet, pup, plaything, etc! please do not call me slave, femboy, sissy, or kid.
overloaded at work -> hate work even more bc theres so much of it -> tellmyself ill finish work on the weekend to get ahead of it -> hate work n want rest too much to finish it on the weekend -> overloaded at w
The best kink experiences I’ve had with people are the ones that are very fluid. Where you can flow easily between being silly/awkward and sexy/serious. I used to get so worried about “ruining the mood”, but all that did was put unnecessary pressure on everything. It’s so much better when you just get to be your whole self with people, and you feel comfortable to do so. When there isn’t the expectation to perform. Where you can just be a human being having a human experience. That’s the kind of sex I want to have.
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