if they don’t like the way we are, then fuck ‘em

@starry-eyed-collective

title from ‘nights like these’ by pigeon pit • asks and submissions open for whatever you need/want to talk about :) 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️✊🏿🍣

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hello !

we’re the starry eyed collective, a system of 200+ :) we aren't exactly sure what our origins are, but we do know we're mixed origin and endogenic. that being said, we do not want endophobes following us and won't argue about our existence. i'm not sure how active people will be on this blog, but whoever the current host is will probably be the most active. we tend to forget about our sideblogs a lot, so we may disappear off the face of the earth for weeks/months at a time, but chances are we're completely fine /gen

the askbox and submissions are always open ! feel free to ask us things individually or as a collective, we love interaction :) we’ll answer any questions as well, as long as we have the information necessary to do so. you can message us on here if you’d like, and will give our discord if anyone asks. we don’t always have the spoons to respond but we do our best !

collectively we go by mythos or mystery, they/it/ve/ae (in no particular order) and silence or space related pronouns ! if you don’t know who’s fronting (which will be in the tags of certain posts), use that for us :) our blurry/mixed tag is #mythos.txt or # - 💫 . we will also tag posts with (name).txt or similar tags, along with #starry thoughts, and tag whatever triggers you need so feel free to send in an ask !

current hosts/main fronters and DNI below cut

#intro post #endo safe #plural posting #starry thoughts #parker.txt #flotsam.txt #icarus.txt #system blog #pinned post

stellar-plurality-is

Greetings! ⋆₊☆

Welcome to stellar-plurality-is, a culture askblog for when multiplicity is stellar - or less than stellar. Asks have no required theme, but should be sent in a "__ culture is" format.

This blog is run by the Stardust Collective! If you need an overall name, call us Stardust. Otherwise, use the name listed in a post's tags.

We have many introjects and queer/trans headmates. Be respctful.

The askbox is also open for non-culture things! Send in whatever :3

If it wasn't clear already, we are very interested in space. Our system is space-themed. Stars are cool as fuck. Please talk to us about it.

Singlets are welcome to interact and send asks, questions, etc!

Minors are welcome, but please block the #stellar mdni tag.

We are pro-origin and pro-plural. Plural discourse will not be tolerated.

Asks regarding radqueers and transIDs will not be answered for personal reasons, sorry.

Tags are under the cut, as well as headmate signoffs/names/pronouns that will be updated accordingly. We tend to abuse dividers so those credits are below as well :3

#omg new fave blog just dropped #star themed systems >>>#parker.txt #- 🦕

does-it-introject

does it introject the sun

Does It Introject: The Sun

YES

NO

RESULTS

Voting ended onJul 11

#hm. technically more of a meteor but sure #arsenic.txt #- ☄️

inkpressedpetals

this is what best friends are for.

#antimony.txt #- ☆

poliwhirl-plurplexed

They need to add an update to plurality where you have multiple bodies and your singlet friends can see them

i love you sysmates who are confrontational. i love you sysmates who are mean. i love you sysmates who are loud and opinionated. i love you sysmates who are “evil.” i love you sysmates who are angry, and hard to deal with. i love you sysmates who handle big emotions, especially the negative ones. i love you sysmates who deal with those emotions and dont deal with them well. i love you sysmates who are messy. i love you difficult sysmates.

aurora-abyss-sys

A reminder~

Psst- these are also F2U and made by us <3

There's so much more of course, but too little time and space in one post to list off every single valid experience.. all plurality is valid, don't let anyone tell you otherwise

thestarrynightcoalition

"*Person* is faking being plural!!!!!!"

Okay? That's A) Not our business

B) indicative of a different problem

C) probably going to make them somewhat plural anyway

pro-willo-jack-bright

"Introjects need to source separate"

"Introjects need to look at and examine their source to figure out why they formed."

"Introjects need to be exactly like their source."

"Introjects need to be a little different from their source."

"Problematic Introjects should never acknowledge that aspect of themselves."

"Problematic introjects need to be aware of what they did and apologize for it every time they want to speak."

Actually, Introjects need to have a warm blanket and drink and their favorite snack of choice.

gentlewindchimes

uhhh shoutout to systems.. with headmates who have no roles.

depressedquetzal

The being a "singlet very interested in systems" to finding out you ARE a system pipeline is real

how it feels trying to hold back the mean alters from saying mean shit

#me & arsenic i fear #parker.txt #- 🦕

Echo and Narcissus, (detail), (1903), by John William Waterhouse RA (English, 1849–1917), oil on canvas, 109.2 × 189.2 cm, The Walker Art Gallery, Liverpool

I think it's important to recognize that the concept of a "little" means different things to different systems.

- Some littles are less responsible and emotionally mature than adults, and some are equally responsible and emotionally mature.

- Some littles don't have access to adult memories and knowledge, and some do.

- Some littles formed in childhood, and some formed later in life.

- Some littles age or emotionally mature over time, and some don't.

- Some littles need to be sequestered away with other littles, and some can socialize with adults both in and out of the system.

- Some littles have childlike interests and enjoy media and hobbies associated with kids, and others have broader tastes in activities.

- Some littles need to be kept away from potentially mature content, and others are fine with seeing violence, swearing, sexuality, etc. in media.

- Some littles need to be kept off of social media for their own wellbeing, and some can safely use and enjoy social media.

- Some littles can't do certain tasks adult members can do (driving a car, cooking, managing money and doing taxes) and some can.

- Some littles need to be frequently supervised and have decisions made for them by older members of the system, and some don't need special supervision or guidance at all.

- Some littles are completely asexual and may find exposure to sexuality distressing, and some have sex drives and can consent to sexual activities.

Any discourse questioning "can littles do X?" should be answered with "it depends on the little". Individual systems should be trusted to make decisions that work for them. Judgment calls can be made by the little in question if they have that level of maturity, or by older members of the system if they need that kind of help. But I don't think those decisions should be enforced by people who aren't members of that system. (With the exception of the specific people involved in a sexual activity, who can give or rescind their own consent.)

In my opinion rules in online environments should accommodate littles, not make assumptions and box them in. For example, little-specific Discord channels - great! Littles are ONLY allowed to use little-specific Discord channels - not so great.

Ultimately we should keep in mind that while littles have their identified age in common, they may differ from one another in other ways. When it comes down to it, how things work for one system will not be how they work for everyone.

pipshinwhatever

If you think about a fictional character enough you should be able to manifest them into reality. So I can make komaeda work the closing shift today

mariposaluminar

@funnier-as-a-system

thecreepycrawlersss

being plural means a headmate pulling you into headspace to cuddle with you and help you go to sleep because of your& insomnia

being plural means smiling and laughing at a joke one of your headmates made, or having witty banter with them as you make a meal that you'll both be able to enjoy

being plural means a headmate going "its okay, you don't have to do this, i can do it" and you thanking them because yeah, you cant do that, and thats okay

being plural means thinking about your headmates when buying new clothes, or seeing a shirt or pair of pants for sale and going "they'd love that !!"

being plural means making one of your headmate's simplyplural profile, and spending lots of time perfecting it so that it fits them to a T

being plural means knowing you aren't alone

being plural means knowing that your headmates, your friends, your family, are always there for you

being plural means love.

THIS POST IS INCLUSIVE OF SYSTEMS OF ALL ORIGINS !!! DO NOT BRING SYSCOURSE ONTO THIS POST.

#i love my system so much :(#important #starry reblogs

spoiler: it was more

#ohhhh my gods i want this .

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