Hi!!! Were the Shimmerstar Hive (sometimes spelled "Hiive"), also known as the Celestine Hive or Milkyway Shiver, and this is our casual coining blog where we coin gendas (genders), orientations, and other ids!! Sometimes we post personal things here as well, which are tagged appropriately.
Collectively, we use it/its and he/him, and are fine with being referred to with "you", "yall", or even "you&" and other such variants if you insist. We really like the sound of "you+", though, even though we've never seen it used before.
We switch between we/we're and I/I'm constantly, so sorry if that's confusing.
We are an OSDD-1a system. We are pro-endo all the way.
We all work in making the flags and like to brainstorm for new genders and identities.
We are bodily 20 years old.
We have schizophrenia, depression, anxiety, ADHD, HPD, BPD, and autism, all of which affect the system. Furthermore, I am clinically cynanthropic and lycanthropic, but still use "kin", "therian", and "alterhuman" in our identities.
We are unable to ID most flags, as attempting to do so, oddly enough, freezes our brain. Literally, it's basically only flags that we can't do, and I don't know why. Please help if you'd like to!
All other info, including a BYF below
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Rules
[pt: Rules]
• I will make flags and coin identities!
• I will coin genders, orientations, alterhuman identities, objectums, and anything mogai/liom or otherwise queer.
• I will edit pre-existing flags/make my own flags for pre-existing terms, but only with permission from the creators.
• I will make userboxes.
• I will make pronoun flags.
• I will try my best to make neopronoun and name sets/help with neopronouns and names.
• I will not make DNI banners or moodboards. At least not yet.
• I will not make/edit/use terms exclusive to poc or any cultures, ethnicities, or religions I do not belong to. general ideas from open religions are usually fine, however.
• I will not touch anything about the dsmp. Minecraft in general is welcome, though.
• I will not do name/term searching/help.
Keep in mind:
That I still have the right to turn down any requests for any reason, even if it is within the rules I've laid out.
That I may take as long as I need to. You may ask about your request status, but please do not spam.
This is still very much a casual blog, made for structure, but run for fun.
Tagging System
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Anything I coin will be tagged with '#genda coin' (gender)/'#sexuality coin'/'#alth coin' (alterhuman, 'kin, etc)/'#id coin'* (misc identity)/'#term coin'/'#flag coin'.
I'll also tag '#new genda' on my newly coined genders
Asks and requests will be tagged with '#shiver replies' and '#shiver requests'.
Personal posts will be tagged with '#shiver diary'.
And any miscellaneous posts will be tagged with '#misc'
When I find a cool genda? I reblog it, and tag it '#cool genda' or '#cool gendas' if there's multiple. I'll follow a similar tagging scheme for other IDs*.
If we find a cool ID* and wanna add it to one or more of our hoard, I'll tag it with '#hoard'.
We occasionally sign off in the tags, and we always do so when we find it important for the context of the post.
*ID in this context is for 'identity', as in a catch-all category for things folks may identify as/with. In case there's something that's more unspecific to a certain kind of self-identification, or if it simply isn't specified at all. This can also be for miscellaneous things like pride flags for mental illnesses and neurodivergency, including symptom specific flags (i.e. PTSD, ADHD/amism, or intrusive thoughts flags) ...Or if I just have no clue, in which case, someone can hopefully help me by correcting me, and I'll promptly fix my mistake.
Feel free to ask us anything!
BYF:
[pt: BYF]
• If this isn't clear, I'm radinclus (not radqueer, as stated further down).• I believe in BLM, land back, and ACAB. I am pro-Palestine. I have anarchist views and am also a feminist (NOT to be confused with radfems/TERFs/"gender critical"s or SWERFs, as I am against those ideologies).
• I believe in systems of all kinds and origins, and I believe all trans people on their identity (transness and systemhood obviously aren't the same thing or very comparable, but I feel as if antis and medicalists of both have a lot of ideological overlap). A fair bit of our system is made up from things outside of stress and trauma (although we are traumagenic).
• And while I'm on it, detransitioners are valid, too. You tried a thing that either never worked out or can't be continued for whatever reason, and that's okay. You were never the enemy, and neither were we. TERFs turned us against each other, and that fucking sucks.
• I believe all kinds of 'kin and alterhuman identities are valid. Even KFF (kin for fun).
• I never judge sources for 'kin or system members, and I expect to have that same respect.
• I only support identities that are in good faith, like bi lesbian, lesboy, turigirl, multigenders, and whatever else exclusionaries and separatists hate. TransX/TransID/PRATs can never be in good faith, outside possibly being used for those with BIID or POC in adopted families. Transspecies is not TransX/TransID because it came from alterhuman communities and is therefore good faith and valid.
• I am less than fond of anything MCYT, especially DSMP, but I'm also not gonna be an asshole about it. I will simply engage minimally with that specific content. I might like cool art posts or whatever, though.
• Obviously, I will not tolerate hate towards any marginalized group. This includes aphobia, homophobia, bi/pan/omniphobia, transphobia, xenophobia, and racism.
• I'm unfavorably mixed on transandrophobia/transmisandry discourse because I think most people mean anti-transmasculinity when they bring it up. I also think the terms being used now imply an inherent androphobia/misandry, which I don't think is all too great. I also think transmisogyny has a much clearer meaning (it's bigger than just the transphobia + misogyny, it's a bigger concept) than the nebulous transandrophobia/transmisandry, and so transphobia that doesn't fall under transmisogyny should just be called transphobia (or anti-transmasculinity, if applicable). Regardless, I think it's all very important to talk about, and I am going out of my way to learn more on the topic (as shown by how I was once favorable to this discourse).
• Obviously, I support MOGAI/LIOM, microlabels and neopronouns.
• I am generally uncomfy with proshippers, but I also know that there can be nuance and some people use that kind of stuff to cope. I can't say I get it, but it's not my business. I'm not gonna grill anyone, I'll usually just block. Regardless of reason, I generally don't want to see or consume pedophilic or incestuous ship art.
• I am pro paraphilia, I am pro objectum and etc. I wish those who have non-consensual paraphilias (pedo, zoo, necro, etc) love, support, and therapy (if needed, since "therapy" here means whatever actually helps. I am against inhumane shaming, reconditioning, or version therapy). Those with divergent attraction that could be harmful if acted upon are still entirely welcome if they are strictly anti-contact (contact does include consuming media that perpetuates harm, like CP). Obviously, I don't want any folks that are neutral- or pro-contact for any non-consensual paraphilia interacting.
• I support all types of regression and believe that negative language like "impure" should be used with caution if used at all by those who are not self-identifying.
• I will generally not engage in discourse for my own mental wellbeing, and anyone who tries to drag me into it will be promptly blocked and ignored.
• I genuinely believe that, save for some exceptions, friends can be made and maintained despite difference of opinion and ideology. The first step to try this is to not be an ass. Hope this helps <3
I may add more or change things as time goes on.
[ID: A banner of teal blue water. On the banner, it says "I can't stop folks from interacting, so just don't be an asshole, and I'll block you if I disagree with your views too much." End ID.]
i think you said you do flag requests are so heres one if you want to do it!
Cerromantic: only feeling romantic attraction to a specific person(s)
example: You cant feel romantic attraction for anyone but Person#1 and Person#2
idk if the term cerromantic is already used but i just call it that since i found no official term or flag for it, cerromantic standing for certain romantic. could you please make a flag for that? Thanks!
hi thank you so much for requesting its been so long since weve got anything lol
i couldnt find anything that specifically has this name or definition under it, so i did go ahead and make a flag ^^
cerromantic
for when your romantic attraction is only felt towards certain specific people and nobody else / you can only feel romantic attraction to a specific person(s)
i actually put a little more thought than usual into the flag so ill go into that :]
the colors are based on the many greens found in arospec flags since i would consider this term to be related if nothing else (and also i just really like green). the warmer undertone is meant to invoke that romantic attraction. the center and outer stripes are vaguely meant to represent the specific person(s) and anyone outside of that category, respectively. its almost like a highlighted selection in text but with more colors lol. hope that makes sense ><
Hello! Your support for paraphiliacs is lovely to see! I'd just like to ask what you mean by therapy? Because what therapy for paraphiliacs means can be very different depending on who you ask.
On one hand therapy can refer to attempts towards making paraphilic individuals non-paraphilic through methods like aversion therapy, reconditioning and shame therapy which are inhumane.
But on the other hand it can refer therapy that seeks to aid the paraphilic patient manage their behaviors (if they occur and cause harm) and/or come to peace with their divergent attraction.
I feel like it might be pertinent to specify what therapy you're referring to in your carrd/bio as it's practically a coin flip in terms of what that can refer to when discussing paraphilias
Have a nice day!
ah, yeah it was hard for me to word and try to keep it concise, but "therapy" is a broad term in the sense that i just mean, like, proper support. and its not like every paraphile necessarily needs therapy if were speaking on actual psychiatric therapy. just whatever that person needs to, like you said, manage possibly harmful behaviors or keeps them at peace with their attraction. just as anyone should have that kind of support. ill get that updated and worded better when i get to it (my carrd is fully a wip rn, im remaking it due to recent circumstances and im redoing some of the bullet points)
were still alive btw. we just mostly work off of requests, of which we have none jfmgkgk sorry abt that. maybe ill think to make original labels soon but life has been... not great
a gender for people who a) failed the gender orientation; b) consider themselves to be fails in pathetic ways; c) sad little wet things . the gender is self-explanatory so... enjoy!
please read my dni before using/saving! <3
image id below
[image id 1 (left): a flag with 5 horizontal, rocky textured stripes. from top to bottom, the flag colors go: dulled dark-ish blue, light-ish pink, off/pinkish-white, light-ish pink, dark-ish blue. on the pink parts, there are a couple of spots where the pink is more white-ish or brown-ish on the outsides of the stripes. /end id.]
[image id 2 (middle): a flag with 5 horizontal, rocky textured stripes. from top to bottom, the flag colors go: light brown, mustard yellow, white, mustard yellow, light brown. there are a couple of spots where the mustard yellow is more white-ish or orange-brown-ish on the outsides of the stripes. /end id.]
[image id 3 (right): flag with 5 horizontal, rocky textured stripes. from top to bottom, the flag colors go: dark magenta, light orange, yellow, light orange, dark magenta. there are a couple of spot where the light orange is more brown-sih or dark-yellow-ish on the outside of the stripes /end id.]
flag id: the left flag has 9 stripes, with the fourth and sixth being slightly smaller than the others and the fifth being much smaller than the others. they are medium dark pinkish-red, red-pink, light pink, very light pink, pinkish-white, very light pink, light pink, red-pink, and medium dark pinkish-red. the right flag has 9 stripes, which are the same colors as the left flag, and in its center is a light green square as tall as 3 of the stripes, and a light green rectangle as tall as 5 of the stripes and 1/3 as wide as the square overlaps it. end id.
banner id: a 1600x200 teal banner with the words ‘please read my dni before interacting. those on my / dni may still use my terms, so do not recoin them.’ in large white text in the center. the text takes up two lines, split at the slash. end id.
lexevalentinic | valentinelexic
lexevalentinic: when one’s gender is the word ‘valentine’; their gender may or may not actually be related to valentine's day, but the word just seems to adequately describe their gender
valentinelexic: a gender connected to and/or described by the word ‘valentine’
[pt: lexevalentinic: when one’s gender is the word ‘valentine’; their gender may or may not actually be related to valentine's day, but the word just seems to adequately describe their gender
valentinelexic: a gender connected to and/or described by the word ‘valentine’. end pt]
for anon! both flags use colors i associate with the word 'valentine'.
tags: @radiomogai, @liom-archive, @macchiane, @genderstarbucks, @sugar-and-vice-mogai, @freezingnarc | dni link
Allosexualunnec - an identity in which one does not feel connected to the allosexual label even though it technically describes them.
etymology: allosexual, -unnec (link)
[ID: a rectangular flag with 6 stripes, with the first and last being thicker than the rest. the colours go as such from top to bottom: dark silver, red-pink to light red-pink gradient, dark silver. End ID]
[ID: A flag with 11 horizontal stripes. The stripes from top to bottom are light green, dark green, dark red, muted purple, dark blue, pale grey, dark blue, muted purple, dark red, dark green, light green. The dark red stripes are wavy, while the pale grey stripe has a pair of fangs sticking down.]
flag id: a flag with 7 stripes, which are very dark blue, dark sky blue, medium dark faded teal, faded green, light yellow-green, very light sandy brown, and light sandy brown. end id.
banner id: a 1600x200 teal banner with the words ‘please read my dni before interacting. those on my / dni may still use my terms, so do not recoin them.’ in large white text in the center. the text takes up two lines, split at the slash. end id.
tidepullene: a gender that feels like the following scene: standing at the edge of a beach, where the ocean connects to the land. with toes outstretched, you let the water lap at them. this gender feels like the weird vertigo felt when the tide is pulling the ground from right under you. it feel serene, distant, and isolated in a comforting way.
[pt: tidepullene: a gender that feels like the following scene: standing at the edge of a beach, where the ocean connects to the land. with toes outstretched, you let the water lap at them. this gender feels like the weird vertigo felt when the tide is pulling the ground from right under you. it feel serene, distant, and isolated in a comforting way. end pt]
for anon! the top three stripes represent the ocean, the next two represent vertigo, and the bottom two represent sand. the gradient from green to dark blue away from the 'sand' also represents distance and isolation. the term is 'tide', 'pull', + 'ene' from 'serene'!
this gender is part of the scene system!
tags: @radiomogai, @liom-archive, @mogai-sunflowers, @narcette, @genderstarbucks, @sugar-and-vice-mogai | dni link
[ID/A dark red line with gold lining and a repeating star and half moon pattern./end ID]
Whumpefinalboy
[PT/Whumpefinalboy/end PT]
A whumpeegender & finalboy system term related to being a whumpee & a final boy, a whumpee who is a final boy, a final boy who assumes the role of a whumpee in whump media and so on for gender reasons. Connected to whumpee & final boy aesthetics, may be connected to goreture.
[ID/A rectangular flag of 9 uneven horizontal stripes. The stripes are four small stripes, one big stripe, and four small stripes in size. The colors go from top to bottom as dark red, red, dark blue, olive yellow, cream, tomato red, faded plum, purple, and lilac./end ID]
[ID/A dark red line with gold lining and a repeating star and half moon pattern./end ID]
if you don’t want to have access to the account anymore, make a throwaway email address, add it as a mod of the blog, then leave the blog from your original account. then you’ll never see a notification again and you can move on without deleting all the stuff you posted!
Can I pls get a gender related to clowns and their aesthetic, confetti, birthday parties, weirdness, arcade/bowling alley carpets, creepiness/eerieness, non-neon vibrant colors in dark spaces, old kidcore, weird art, cartoons/tooniness, darkness/the night, late 80s/early 90s stuff, and the game fatty bears birthday surprise? :3
The clown related gender anon here! I forgot to also mention beanie babies, vintage plushies, and furbies :3
flag id: two flags with 6 stripes. the left flag's stripes are near-black, dark blue, dull blue, dull light orange, faded sky blue, and dark faded blue. the right flag's stripes are very dark dull yellow-green, dark dull yellow-green, medium dark dull yellow-green, dull light orange, faded sky bue, and dark faded blue. end id.
banner id: a 1600x200 teal banner with the words ‘please read my dni before interacting. those on my / dni may still use my terms, so do not recoin them.’ in large white text in the center. the text takes up two lines, split at the slash. end id.
traumascminus | deadmascminus
traumascminus: a transmasculine gender that is masculine and 'boy/man' but also attached to nonconformity and defined by one's own views of masculinity due to trauma
deadmascminus: a gender that is masculine and 'boy/man' but also attached to nonconformity and defined by one's own views of masculinity due to being undead/slow/zombie-like and feeling like a reanimated corpse
[pt: traumascminus: a transmasculine gender that is masculine and 'boy/man' but also attached to nonconformity and defined by one's own views of masculinity due to trauma
deadmascminus: a gender that is masculine and 'boy/man' but also attached to nonconformity and defined by one's own views of masculinity due to being undead/slow/zombie-like and feeling like a reanimated corpse. end pt]
traumamasc + boyminus and mascdead + boyminus terms for anon!
tags: @radiomogai, @liom-archive, @neurogenderarchive, @narcette, @genderstarbucks, @sugar-and-vice-mogai | dni link
i had another ask and when i finally made the flag it got fucking eated wtf. thankfully, i have a screenshot of the ask saved, at the very least:
so here you go, dear-!
(neu)magiprightic
for when your gender is related to magical knighthood and/or princehood and combat, but in a purely neutral way. this gender is inherently NIN (neutral-in-nature).
and do not worry, the request wasnt too specific at all! we love specifics!
