down with the discourse

Nolan / 16 / Trans Guy Discourse, music, memes and I guess fandom shit or whatever. Living good. MAPs/NOMAPs/supporters of either please don’t interact.

[starryintoxication-blog]

“Being trans isn’t fun” means please don’t romanticize and simplify the experiences of transgender people because that could hurt us and questioning people and I feel like everyone should think about that.

[starryintoxication-blog]

That was a long break but I’m back. Stuff happened. On meds again. Feeling good. I have a discourse post that has been on my mind for a while so that’s coming soon.

[starryintoxication-blog]

btw I’m going to do way less discourse now because my mental health is kind of… getting worse? and i have been super busy lately. still gonna try and keep this blog active though.

Also I am getting bored with and just done with it general because it is nothing but generalizations, insults and other things that are… horrible. :/ maybe I’ll post opinions here and there because i don’t get to do much talking about my opinions (I’d rather talk about music and video games)

[starryintoxication-blog]

“Truscum are obviously suffering from internalized transphobia and self-hatred.”

One… shows how much you actually fucking care, considering you are calling us scum and are not even trying to reach out to us and give us advice to deal with it or anything like that. Be honest, you just want to be in the right and look like you are above us like a condescending asshole. Two, even if a truscum was suffering from self-hatred… should you really bring this up in discourse? This is a very serious and personal issue. Please piss off if you think dealing such a low blow is acceptable in a discussion about a very important issue. Finally… thinking you need some level, any level of dysphoria does not make me transphobic towards myself or others… it is just my opinion and an actual fact backed up by science. Also, I am not some kind of radical member of this discourse. I leave people alone. If me, a trans man, having an opinion on a serious neurological disorder that I fucking have to deal with everyday while people appropriate it and make it seem like some fun journey that’s easy for everyone makes me transphobic, so be it. I’m done, honestly. 🤷🏻‍♂️

If you aren’t going to have a sense of civility on this post or actually listen to what I am saying don’t even look at it to be honest because I have been holding in this rant forever now and I won’t take any shit after practically suffocating myself. Sorry, but you guys have been super insufferable lately.

[allobottomprivilege-deactivated]

I do reach out to transmeds but we aren’t entitled to help someone saying stuff and acting in a way we find cruel and harmful. That being said I don’t like trans teenagers suffering so I try to reach out.

Anyway if someone’s arguments are being heavily influenced by their emotions and shame and anxiety around being trans, pointing that out isn’t inappropriate or irrelevant. It gets frustrating when bad political opinions are shaped by someone’s shame towards what they are!

[starryintoxication-blog]

That is good that you try to reach out. But tucutes apply that argument to truscum who are not like that all and are actually very happy with themselves. And they are so rude and condescending about it. That is not how you tell someone that they are showing bias. They will tune you out and the discussion will go nowhere.

None of our opinions related to transitioning are related to the shame you think all of us have. It is more about making sure people do not have to go through detransitoning or getting dysphoria. It is about making transitioning available to people who need it.

[allobottomprivilege-deactivated]

Things common to truscum include obsessive focus on transness not being a choice and completely neurological, constantly talking about tucutes “making trans people look bad”, pushing the idea that being trans is a mental illness and inherently a bad negative experience and not something you’d want to be if you could choose and trying to uphold a gender binary are all heavily influenced by internalized shame and anxiety about being trans

[vanillawound]

ngl i stopped reading after ‘you call us scum’ because you realise you literally… gave yourselves that name..

[starryintoxication-blog]

We didn’t actually. Truscum and tucute were both coined by a tucute (a tucute with a very sketchy and bad past btw). Some of us choose to use that term anyway, but the rest of us just use transmed or transmedicalist for whatever reason. I just use transmed because I don’t like truscum at all.

[starryintoxication-blog]

I come back and I see that I have been blocked by someone I have never even interacted with before… are you okay? It’s a big blog too. So I don’t know why they’re angry at a small blog with a little bit of a discourse? I am not even all that active here anymore. Sheesh. :/

[starryintoxication-blog]

“Truscum are obviously suffering from internalized transphobia and self-hatred.”

One… shows how much you actually fucking care, considering you are calling us scum and are not even trying to reach out to us and give us advice to deal with it or anything like that. Be honest, you just want to be in the right and look like you are above us like a condescending asshole. Two, even if a truscum was suffering from self-hatred… should you really bring this up in discourse? This is a very serious and personal issue. Please piss off if you think dealing such a low blow is acceptable in a discussion about a very important issue. Finally… thinking you need some level, any level of dysphoria does not make me transphobic towards myself or others… it is just my opinion and an actual fact backed up by science. Also, I am not some kind of radical member of this discourse. I leave people alone. If me, a trans man, having an opinion on a serious neurological disorder that I fucking have to deal with everyday while people appropriate it and make it seem like some fun journey that’s easy for everyone makes me transphobic, so be it. I’m done, honestly. 🤷🏻‍♂️

If you aren’t going to have a sense of civility on this post or actually listen to what I am saying don’t even look at it to be honest because I have been holding in this rant forever now and I won’t take any shit after practically suffocating myself. Sorry, but you guys have been super insufferable lately.

[allobottomprivilege-deactivated]

I do reach out to transmeds but we aren’t entitled to help someone saying stuff and acting in a way we find cruel and harmful. That being said I don’t like trans teenagers suffering so I try to reach out.

Anyway if someone’s arguments are being heavily influenced by their emotions and shame and anxiety around being trans, pointing that out isn’t inappropriate or irrelevant. It gets frustrating when bad political opinions are shaped by someone’s shame towards what they are!

[starryintoxication-blog]

That is good that you try to reach out. But tucutes apply that argument to truscum who are not like that all and are actually very happy with themselves. And they are so rude and condescending about it. That is not how you tell someone that they are showing bias. They will tune you out and the discussion will go nowhere.

None of our opinions related to transitioning are related to the shame you think all of us have. It is more about making sure people do not have to go through detransitoning or getting dysphoria. It is about making transitioning available to people who need it.

[bigdyl18-blog]

Haven’t posted in a long time but heres another galaxy.

[starryintoxication-blog]

one more rant and i am going to bed because whew lads 😞 i have not been sleeping well at all!!

[crimsonsrim]

[juxtapoesition]

Didn't Stalin kill, like, 20 million people? How can anyone defend that piece of shit or his ideology?

Probably, Mao killed 20 million.

Holodomor was 7 million.

There have been other communist genocides.

All together that comes out to a significantly higher number than even hitler killed.

But yeah communism is so ideologically correct 😂

[starryintoxication-blog]

Stalin sent his own son to a gulag. For no reason too. That should say enough if you ask me.

[truscumftm]

Hot takes that will probably get me called a bigot on this hellhole

[haweswater]

“gender-affirming surgery” is such a fucking stupid name. it’s sex reassignment surgery. because i am a transsexual.

[starryintoxication-blog]

Who is even using that term and why? Why would we need to change from sex reassignment surgery? So pointless…

[starryintoxication-blog]

I am happy for people who have positive experiences being trans! I really do! I am glad you did not have to go through the bad things! But do not look down on people who have it harder to the point that they can not transition because they can’t afford it or they have horrible depression and harm themselves because they can’t fucking cope with having severe dysphoria! Be nice to your trans brothers and sisters no matter what please!

[such-justice-wow]

I hate when people say things like “just because a film was entertaining doesn’t mean it was good”

If you enjoyed a film it has fulfilled its purpose as a piece of entertainment media. Not every film has to be a work of art!!

[starryintoxication-blog]

“Truscum are obviously suffering from internalized transphobia and self-hatred.”

One… shows how much you actually fucking care, considering you are calling us scum and are not even trying to reach out to us and give us advice to deal with it or anything like that. Be honest, you just want to be in the right and look like you are above us like a condescending asshole. Two, even if a truscum was suffering from self-hatred… should you really bring this up in discourse? This is a very serious and personal issue. Please piss off if you think dealing such a low blow is acceptable in a discussion about a very important issue. Finally… thinking you need some level, any level of dysphoria does not make me transphobic towards myself or others… it is just my opinion and an actual fact backed up by science. Also, I am not some kind of radical member of this discourse. I leave people alone. If me, a trans man, having an opinion on a serious neurological disorder that I fucking have to deal with everyday while people appropriate it and make it seem like some fun journey that’s easy for everyone makes me transphobic, so be it. I’m done, honestly. 🤷🏻‍♂️

If you aren’t going to have a sense of civility on this post or actually listen to what I am saying don’t even look at it to be honest because I have been holding in this rant forever now and I won’t take any shit after practically suffocating myself. Sorry, but you guys have been super insufferable lately.

[graybles]

[byrongraffiti]

Iconic

[starryintoxication-blog]

ehhh i am back thank you for all of the notes you guys i got really concerned at the amount of notifications in my inbox for a second.

also good news i have a found a specialist and am seeing her now she is great and i hope everything works out… i feel like my dysphoria is getting shittier hahaha… 💙💙