[recomvery]

One of the most dangerous things in the world is not being able to say no to people because you don't want to upset them or dissapoint them. This will completely ruin your life in every way possible, at work, in your private life, your sex life and your friendships. It's a way of removing your own consent in your own decisions and go against your wishes, it is always a crime against yourself. Let yourself have a say. Upsetting people is better than traumatizing yourself.

[badd-thoughtz]

Learning this at 30 years of existence

[blossomview]

Jessica Kalkhoff

[futuristic-koala]

[soul-from-another-era]

Unconditional love isn't a free pass to hurt me.

[unreadable]

[remanence-of-love]

[poetryforall]

[free-my-mindd]

Keeping things private until you know it’s permanent is self-care.

[suntara]

my favorite love language is trying, actually

[suntara]

like when people try to learn your hobbies or try to play the same sports that you play in an effort to get closer to you, people who try to love you the way you love people, people who will go to places you want to visit just for your sake, people remembering, putting in an effort. just. trying

[heavyrain-dc]

“In the end you can’t always choose what to keep. You can only choose how you let it go.”

— Ally Condie

[dianahastings]

[newvision]

— Bob Dylan from When the Deal Goes Down on Modern Times (2006)

[aszmxm]

lmaam Ash-Shaafi'ee رحمه الله ; said to his student Rabee': "O Rabee'! Do not speak about things that do not concern you, for indeed every time that you speak a word, it takes control of you and you do not have control of it!"

'Abdullaah bin Mas'ood رضي الله عنه said: "There is nothing that deserves to be imprisoned more than the tongue."

Others have stated: "The example of the tongue is like that of a savage beast. If you do not lock it up, it will set out against you .

( book: guarding the tongue)

[heavyrain-dc]

“You are worth finding. Worth knowing. Worth loving. You and all your one million layers. Always hold that close.”

— Danielle Doby

[wholeheartedsuggestions]

better to be honest about your feelings now than down the road when they’ve been eating away at you. it can be scary to express yourself because you worry it will burden others, but it’s doing you harm to push it down and suffer in silence.

[netflixandnudez]

[classycookiexo]

[aquiraxuno]