last reblog and the whole anime prepubescent thing is totally related to my point like white people treat asian women as infantlike based entirely on their looks and demeanor (relative to white women) and then deem asian cultures, and people attracted to asian women as inherently paedophilic.
Its not just racist, it's 1875 ass racism. Yellow peril never ended.
Like it's not out of the question for Asian (or any) women to be below five foot, to have small chests, round cheeks, or all of above; who living in the west find themselves taking on butch or athletic personas simply to be treated as adults, to be seen as desirable while simultaneously avoiding the attention of a certain type of creep.
But no matter what you do white women will accuse you of catering to pedophiles, because more than you fucking think they see us as a race of children. It's really not that different to how sex tourists view us.
Me, I'm 5'7, and dress like a slut. Now I like doing that, but I'm also aware that when I *don't* dress slutty/revealing in public, I get child tickets on the bus, ID'd by the bouncer and it actually feels way less fucking safe alone because it's so palpable how it changes the way white men see me. Putting on a blouse is like an AoE that turns old dudes into nonces.
How do I square that circle? When am I not catering to the male gaze?
