pâro

don't jugde unless you know the feeling.

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

You didn’t love her. You just didn’t want to be alone. Or maybe she was good for your ego. Or maybe she made you feel better about your miserable life. But you didn’t love her. Because you don’t destroy people you love.

Grey’s Anatomy (via onlinecounsellingcollege)

[stop-judging]

O grande amor é aquele que te traz paz, enche o peito de coisas boas, dá e doa, causa sorrisos, arrepios e sabe dosar os momentos de conversas, parcerias e mãos bobas. Não maltrata, não acaba com a vida de ninguém. Pelo contrário: todo amor assim nos devolve a vida. E, quando não fica, todo grande amor deixa o melhor gosto do mundo: saber amar e ser amado.

Gustavo Lacombe (x)

[awwww-cute]

My gf is a vet tech, her dog comforts others who just went through surgery (Source: http://ift.tt/1Yh01hd)

[thegirlwhocrieswolf]

New piece, hope you like it! xo Lang 

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My new book Lullabies is now available via Amazon, BN.com + The Book Depository and bookstores worldwide.

[asparagusandcanolilover]

jobs are for survival, not for joy. not everyone has the luxury or pleasure of loving what they do. they do it bc it pays the bills and everyone needs to stop acting like everyone is supposed to love their job. if you love your job, you are lucky.

[breatheinpoetry]

When I talk about bad habits people think I mean my actions how I forget to floss sometimes and stay up late when I could already be asleep But my worst habits aren’t the way I bite my lip when I’m nervous or pull at my hair when I’m stressed my worst habits are choosing sadness, even when it’s sunny outside feeling lonely surrounded by crowds my worst habits are thinking of you again when I see someone with the same sweater  and drowning in thoughts I should get rid of my worst habits are the ones in my head

Meriam BHT, bad habits (via breatheinpoetry)

[mutablerising]

[forthefuns]

[adreamersday-deactivated2017110]

Say this is what the pain made of you: an open open open road. An avalanche of ‘feel it all’. Don’t let anyone ever tell you you are too much.

Andrea Gibson (via adreamersday)

[brutereason]

Sometimes a friend with depression will say no to a lot of things and decline all or most of your invitations. This can make you feel like you’re overstepping boundaries and should immediately leave them alone until they reach out to you themselves. Pay attention to this feeling: it’s true that when people keep saying no to things you ask, it’s probably a good idea to stop asking. However, depression can also cause people to say no while wishing they could say yes. The way to deal with this is not to assume, but to just ask directly: “You’ve said no the past few times I’ve invited you to do something. That’s okay, but I just wanted to check: would you like me to keep inviting you?” I’ve done this before with other people dealing with depression and found that they often respond that they do want me to keep asking, and they hope that one of these days they’ll be able to say yes.

Some Advice on Supporting Friends with Depression (via trappedinvacancy)

[psych-facts]

The most rarest thing in the world is to find a person who would love you more than you can ever lover her. If you have found her, You are the most luckiest person in the earth. And if you let her go because of any reason, You are the most unluckiest person in the earth too.

starsndarks (via psych-facts)

[thanzaghours]

this is the most important thing that has ever happened 

[fuckyouverymuch]

[thecutestofthecute]

Here are some adorable dogs holding flowers. Have a great day everyone

[lizard-is-writing]

How to Get Back to Writing-

Now this is straight from experience. If you haven’t written anything in a little while it is hard to get back in the swing of things. Everything you write feels a bit contrived, a bit desperate, but you know what, that’s okay. I had to take a few weeks off while traveling and when you go from writing every day to not writing at all, trying to get back into it just does not happen easily. But here’s how I got back into it in the quickest and least painful way I possibly could: 

Don’t work on anything you’ve been working on before at first. Likely you’ll have a standard for your writing that goes into your ongoing projects and if you have taken a long enough break from writing, you won’t return right away at that standard. You’ll just get more frustrated. So instead, pick a prompt and write something new. It can be a short story, a few scenes, something to go alongside of another project - anything like that. 

If your first sentence sucks, don’t delete it. The second one might be better. This goes for scenes too. The first scene was just meh… the next one might be eh - okay.  And it will improve from there. If your writing is just sounding horrible to you, just keep writing. Going back and editing and fixing it will not help you here. Just keep writing. Write 100 words. If it’s still eh… then write 200. I wrote 2,000 words just the other day before it started looking alright again. But, you know, it worked. 

Anything that sounds terrible just needs to be edited six months from now. Use that as your golden rule in times like these. Just until you get your mojo back. Just keep saying, yeah, I know it’s bad, but I can fix it later.  Believe it or not, that helps a lot. Just get to the story and keep telling the story. 

Work in sprints. Don’t let yourself stare at a blank screen for hours. Write for 15 or 30 minutes and then take a break. I do 15 minutes on, 15 minutes off and I get a lot more writing done that way than a solid 30 minute session and can keep that pace up for hours.  Maybe read a book in the 15 or 30 minute break. It helps to see good writing and to let yourself be just a little bit influenced by another writer. I don’t recommend this as a permanent solution, but a temporary aid. 

[vipizza]

She was too quiet, or she was too loud. She took things too seriously, or not seriously at all. She was too sensitive, or too cold-hearted. She hated with every fiber of her being, or loved with every piece of her heart. There was no in-between for her. It was either all or nothing. She wanted everything but settled for nothing.

(via ninjutsugrl)

[living-in-bed]

For someone who is tired 100% of the time, I sure am bad at sleeping.