xysria 🕸️

thinking about gay hockey players & sexy blonde ladies

[cptspau1ding]

i forget that sum suits fans treat harvey as like the ultimate sigma male meanwhile him and mike spend half the show eye-fucking each other across the room 🥹

[natsgirl222]

secret relationship marveycore ft. my first marvey edit in A YEAR wow lmao

[just4vibez]

Harvey leaning in to smell Mike's perfume??? Oh he's down bad!

[gqa1]

Reblog In 5 seconds for good luck

[nullelemental]

​this worked last night lets go for round two

[helloitsbreeisnotonline]

I really need some good luck rn

[animentality]

[mbrainspaz]

I really enjoy just existing in hotels. The long identical hallways. The soulless abstract art. The weird noises the air-conditioner makes. Strange city lights in the window. Six stories off the ground. Strangers chatting in the hall. Nothing in the dresser. No past, but an infinite present. 

[bleachblondebitches]

Ivan was drawing both of his true loves, aka Lovro and his Tomos❤️

[3491q]

nedjelja 11:15

"you didn't even sleep next to me" "of course not, when you sleep like this"

nedjelja 20:45

[nwlats-lovro]

"they don't seem like they actually like each other"

OMG SHUT UP

here is a kolacic gif, watch it💖

[matmat05056789]

I didn't actually want to make a longer post before the next clip because everybody (me included) can have pretty drastic reactions in the heat of the moment, and the last clip was really intense and obviously generated a lot of reactions from everybody.

I'm not here to invalidate anyone in their feelings, nor am I here to impose any of my points of view on anyone. However, some takes I have seen from last night and today, especially regarding Lovro, made me really want to talk about because I don't really understand them.

I've seen this sentence in so many posts across all platforms since yesterday, and it's: "Why would Lovro even fight for this if he's always so uncomfortable?" (I'm not pointing at anyone in particular here, I have genuinely seen this take multiple times everywhere so you know, it's nothing personal.)

And... why wouldn't he?

I made a post about this yesterday, and I don't want to repeat myself word for word, but the thing is, Lovro is NOT uncomfortable around Ivan. The best example is obviously Sunday's clip, where it was vividly obvious that he was completely at ease. Going back to Ivan's after the bar, completely at ease again. The problem doesn't lie there, because he loves spending time with him; he loves the physical aspect of their relationship.

And you're going to tell me, yeah, okay, we get that, but he's constantly uncomfortable in public and refuses any advances from Ivan. So, if he hates this so much, why would he fight for this relationship? Why does he keep trying if all it does is make him uncomfortable? We keep running in circles with this character, and we're not moving forward, so why would he fight for this relationship?

And once again... why wouldn't he?

He has been fighting himself the entire season. He's been fighting his shame and his disgust, and what an entire life hidden does to you. He has been fighting for this relationship by fighting to find himself first. And, I don't know what to tell you apart from the fact that above it all, above all the steps back and all the pain, he's winning? Slowly, but surely, he's battling and winning against a part of himself that has been rooted deep inside of his bones the entire time.

He came out to another queer person, was able to find community, and was shown part of the queer culture, where, despite everything, people are proud and exist within a space that allows them to be themselves, no matter who they are.

He came out to his best friend, one of the most important people in his life, without knowing if he would be accepted or not. He came out to his friends. He came out to his mom, and he was loved through it.

And he was able to find himself on his own despite of a relationship, but also... because of it? Because he wants to fight to be with Ivan, even if it means fighting his own fears.

He IS moving forward, and he's being braver than I think a lot of people give him credit for. I could analyse every single Lovro move since episode 1, but I already wrote too much so I'll just give a few examples lol. In episode 5, he meets Ivan, and he not only kisses him back when they're barely hidden but initiate a kiss even if it was small peck. Mind you, this was episode five and he was drowning in shame and disgust. But he was also battling his own wants, which were Ivan. The simple fact that he EVENS continues to always meet Ivan, that he allows himself to be vulnerable with him and that he continues to look for him everywhere, even when everything was screaming at him the oposite is a proof of how much he has evolved. He's allowing himself to want this, and he's letting himself want physical intimacy.

And suddenly Ivan's going ten times faster and stronger, and Lovro can't keep up the pace. Where he was allowed the space to move at his own pace before, now it's being ripped away from him. And this is not against Ivan, I'm just talking about Lovro here. On top of everything he went through this week with Filip. I made a post about this already, so I won't say much more. (And even now, he's still moving forward, because he wants to be with Ivan and he wants this to work. He didn't run away during or after the sauna debacle because he wanted to confront Ivan instead of running away. Like, he's litteraly running after Ivan at the end of the clip.)

Romance is everywhere in the show, and it's also there in the way that even when he still can't battle some of the parts of himself because he's scared, well, he still wants to. Because he wants to be happy, and this makes him happy.

Why would he fight for this?

Because he's allowed to fight for himself and for what he wants, even when it doesn't work. Because he never allowed himself to fight for something like this before. Because it's not because there are things that seem impossible to him now that he can't be allowed love. Because he has been fighting for this, even in the small ways, from the beginning.

I have approximativelt a thousand more things to say and I could make a post just on the ways the show has written Lovro and what he has been doing from the beginning, but I'm gonna stop there for now lmao.

If all you see are their fights, and if you feel that they didn't have enough moments, even despite everything, well you're completely allowed to, but I don't know what else to tell you. We'll just probably never agree on this, and it's okay lol.

[dxtrove]

"we need more complex characters" you can't even handle Ivan and Lovro, neither the complexity of their relationship and the context in which it develops

The media literacy is dead 🥀🥀🥀

[blorbotown]

we got a manic episode represented in a teen show in which the most drastic action was clearly shown to make sense within the internal logic of where the character is at instead of used as a plot twist or for shock value and people are complaining about the lack of lovey dovey romance in the show about shame 🤕

[blorbotown]

So y'all remember how I said the snake (little prince) might be vito and/or the queer community? HIM TALKING ABOUT BEING SCARED OF BEING ALONE? HELLO?

I'm the galaxy brain meme again

EDIT: FROM THE 7TH OF FEBRUARY

[sramz]

these could literally be stills from a movie

[juliusbir]

i think this kind of disdain for depicting homophobia in queer fic stems from an anxiety and a difficulty in recognising what actually constitutes homophobia……such systemic oppression wont disappear so long as there remains a class of men (as inherently sexual) and a class of women (as inherently submissive). and queernormativity and “queer joy” rhetoric fail to situate homophobia within this larger framework of structural sexual oppression, even though homosexuality itself destabilises heterosexual norms and reexamines gender dialectic.

what imo sram does the best here is that it correctly identifies how school environment reproduces and affirms dominant perceptions on sex-gender through lovro’s characterisation, specifically by analysing these intersections of internalised and externalised homophobia and sexism within the sites of school rituals: gym class is a space where teenager boys discipline and police one another’s gender, and a slur directed at lovro immediately denotes him as an “unmasculine male”. it later extended itself to sexually repulsive images and imitations, and lovro’s presence as not just a homosexual boy but a figure embodying anxieties about failed or insufficient masculine competence creates a fracture within their friendship, endangering the very masculine sense of self - filip threatening lovro is an act of repudiating weakness and unmanliness. and instead of framing lovro’s fear and self-disgust as an individual shortcoming that must be overcome, if only he just “worked on himself,” the show stays fixated on a sociopolitical picture of why someone like lovro would feel and behave this way (and develop such beliefs and attitudes in the first place, as a string responses to his environment )

[nedeljkovicsaysno]

How’s your knee?

[youmake-meshine]

I think people are being way to negative about sram. I honestly think its one of the best written remakes out there, I think people that are criticizing the show too much are missing three big key points.

1. The best thing about the skam universe is that you get the same story but in different ways, thats what made druck and skam españa so good and loved, this remake is focusing on the struggles, like I get it they could have still have more cute moments but this is clearly the direction they wanted for this remake and they are doing it well.if you want lighter story watch the other remakes I think it actually completes the universe to have this more angsty (for lack of better word) version.

2. Sram is prioritizing character depth over the relationship, both characters are so well written and feel so real, all the decisions they make are absolutely in characters and they are even predictable because of how well we know them by now, and the reason we do is because they have chosen to, instead of showing us more cute relationship moments, to show us moments that are very telling of how the characters feel at different times with dif people etc.

3. Their relationship has never been built on cute moments together its always been about the inability to stay away from each other. This is the point that makes me most sad that people are missing cuz its so good, it proves how much they want to be together, they have had more struggles and fights and still they always go to each other cuz they cant not to, lovro has pushed Ivan away or left him so many times but ivan still goes to him when asked, no hesitation and lovro no matter how confused and afraid he is he still keeps reaching out to him. Like they have so many obstacles but they cant help wanting to be together.

GOD I LOVE THIS SHOW

[nedeljkovicsaysno]

Okay.

I completely understand Lovro being frustrated that Ivan has repeatedly ignored his discomfort at being touched publicly. I would not like that at all. Ignored boundaries = disrespect.

I also just want him to be comfortable with being touched by his boyfriend :( I want him to be READY, and to accept himself. I think all this shit with Filip is making him feel so uncomfortably seen. He’s barely out, barely accepted that he’s gay.

The fact that we got to SEE Ivan running away. This feels like the most visceral representation of Even’s manic episode of ALL the Skams

Ow.