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21+ ONLY! CHECK PINNED POST! Put your age in bio or I will block you. 31 He/They, I go by Aramis. Soft Dom, Daddy Dom, Service Top. Polyamourous, Pansexual, AuDHD. This is a place for me to find mutuals and to have a break from real life.

[strivingtofall]

Hello, I am a 31 year old enby, I use He/Them pronouns. I go by Aramis as my nome de scène. If you know me IRL, you don't.

I am a Dominant, but I am a Soft Dom/Service Top. So if you're looking for someone hardcore, off ye feck. I prefer Sir or Daddy to Master or Owner but I do not ask to be called an honorific until something develops.

I am polyamourous and live with my spouse. I am also AuDHD, so please communicate directly with me, I struggle with social cues. I recently have started identifying as placiosexual, I much prefer bringing pleasure to others and don't really care for it being reciprocated outside of text.

This blog is for horny blogging/finding poly/k!nky mutuals as well as getting out some hard feelings every once in a while.

Into

Good girls/boys/third option (love, pet, darling, sweet one, etc.) I am already married to a brat, I'm not looking for another one.

I'm down to chat or role-play, I'm not actively looking for a new relationship but if one evolves I could be interested in negotiating.

Praise - giving

Breeding - strictly a kink, I cannot have nor want children of my own. If something develops with someone who has them already I could be open to discussing my role for the future.

Knotting - giving

Spankings - giving

Using overstimulation as a punishment

Oral - giving, only like receiving in text form

Biting - giving and receiving

Scratching - giving and receiving

Begging - recieving

Vampire the Masquerade - just checking you're reading

Choking - giving

I play a Ventrue - and you wonder where my control issues come from

Voyeurism - I like watching my sub play with someone else or watching others play.

Shibari/Kinbaku - would love to experiment more with

Lactation - extremely curious about

Puppyplay - curious about

Somno - curious about

CNC/Free Use - must talk extensively before the scene but can be convinced

Intox - must talk extensively before the scene and have strict adherence to traffic light/safewords

Feel free to ask for my BDSM test results or my kink sheet.

DNI

Minors (obviously)

R*pe and incest - my history is my own to reveal

Degradation - I already struggle with unsavory thoughts I don't like to give or receive degradation

Misgendering/detransition

TERFs, MAGA, Trumpers, Elon Bros, Fascists and Naz!s, you can fuck all the way off.

Anyone under 25, I am too old for you.

Bodily fluids - sk@t, watersport, diapers, vomit, etc.

Asks and DMs are open to anyone 25+

I will block you if you do not have your age in your bio or you're an asshole.

You have been warned. I will NOT be policing myself on MY blog, I have listed everything I am and am not into, so if something squicks you, it is YOUR responsibility to block the tags and block me. No one is responsible for monitoring your triggers but you.

Taken Anon Emoji's 🐼, ☀️, 🦇, 🎶, 🕷️, 🌸, 🐕,🐇,🦆

[aceysun]

"love is love" until it doesn't include sex

"love is love" until it lives in separate beds

"love is love" until it is queer platonic

"love is love" until it does not comply with compulsory sexuality and amatonormativity

love IS love, for aspecs, for sex repulsed folk and for platonic relationships

"love is love" apply to more than same-sex relationships in a world where romantic and sexual relationships are considered more valuable

Remember to advocate for Asexuals and Aromantics this pride. Because we are also here, and we are also queer

[hell1sme]

Mind if I spread your legs and eat you out until I’m satisfied?

[kinkysappho]

in the mood to eat a girl’s pussy all slow and messy while she lies there looking beautiful

[ississipp]

Reblog if...

You want your balls emptied inside a tight, wet pussy

Or

If you want your pussy filled to the brim with cum

[malwareproductions]

hey. you have to love your trans brothers of color okay. and your trans sisters of color. and your nonbinary siblings of color. you have to okay. its simply non-optional

[userfish]

this pride month we’re all going to be radically pro transgender. or else.

[userfish]

hey so this means radically pro ALL transgender. don’t put limitations on this. all trans people are radically accepted here.

[vaguelyluciddragon]

Trans women are radically accepted on my page.

Trans fems are radically accepted on my page.

Trans men are radically accepted on my page.

Trans mascs are radically accepted on my page.

Nonbinary people are radically accepted on my page.

People with neopronouns are radically accepted on my page.

People with xenogenders are radically accepted on my page.

All transgender people, no matter how "weird" their identity is, are radically accepted on my page.

[thequeenoftheentiregoddamnworld]

Hey, hey, look me in the eyes when I tell you this okay? The whole "do trans women or trans men have it worse?" debate going on right now is the most obvious CIA bullshit on earth cause honestly we've both got it pretty shitty and fighting each other isn't helping anyone

[grendelsmilf]

I think the hot new trends for this summer should be reading comprehension and critical thinking skills

[kairithemang0-fm]

Reblog if you're transmasc, support trans men, or want a chocolate chip cookie

[dripflower]

Petplay Idea: Unicorn trapped in a pen. Chained by the neck to a post, spreader bar holding their legs apart. Their hole is wetter than they'll ever admit. Their new owner (who captured them) has set this up as an traveling attraction, and if certain patrons pay enough, they get to fuck the magical beast in front of all the spectators. All those eyes watching, unable to get away,, something so pure becoming so disheveled and needy. UGH <33

[the-sir-of-the-sun]

Being a brat looks so fun unfortunately I have good puppy syndrome and will die if I upset my dom

[strivingtofall]

And my first thought is, is it the bratting itself that looks fun or the punishments from bratting.

If you're looking for the punishments, you can negotiate that with your Dom.

If it's the bratting, you could always start with something small. For example, I'll be washing dishes and my brat will come up to me and tell me "who told you you could wash the dishes?" Cut to them getting spanked for being a sassmouth.

[zinziinziiin]

[thisusernotfoundatthismoment]

whispering filthy things in her ear in public while my fingers tease her under the table 🥰✨️

[mrsterlingeverything]

Do you only top?

I try to eat and sleep sometimes too

[brattycenterfold]

if i sat in your lap would you get a boner be honest :(

[strivingtofall]

If you squirm like a naughty thing, yes

[this-is-poly-joy]

poly joy is when one of my girlfriends messages me to tell me how delighted she is that i'm as madly in love (her words not mine) with my other girlfriend as i am with her

~ This is poly joy! ~