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About Me
Hi there! Call me Dolly <3 Welcome to my horny rambling page! My pronouns are she/they! I’m biromantic demisexual, so please get to know me first before flirting!
I’m a writer and an artist, though my art skills are not anatomically correct enough to draw anything ~*spicy*~ 💔
You might see my little bits of erotica float around on this blog. Mostly you’ll probably see me be horny on (not so) main.
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nsfw sideblogs r so funny. my friend we can't talk here it isn't safe.. we have to go to sex world together
“Tight pussy this tight pussy that” y’all not turning her on?? Y’all aren’t getting her so worked up and wet that you can slide in with two fingers and no resistance at all? Y’all not rocking with an open, welcoming pussy that’s soft and all but pulling you in? Tight pussy means she’s not worked up enough and your job isn’t done yet. Her shit shouldn’t be clenched til she’s cumming around your fingers so hard she’s seeing god and it’s important to me that y’all know that
"CNC is fine as long as you're roleplaying as the victim" "ageplay is fine as long as you're not roleplaying as the adult" do you hear the words coming out of your mouth
what anti-kink people think kink scenes should be like
A lot of kinksters need to hear this too:
If it's okay for someone to want to be taken care of, then it's okay for someone to want to take care of them.
If it's okay for someone to want to be hit, then it's okay for someone to want to hit them.
If it's okay for someone to want to be degraded, then it's okay for someone to want to degrade them.
Etc, etc. Doms, daddies/mommies, and other "aggressors" are a necessary and IMPORTANT part of kink and wanting to fill those roles isn't an indication of some deep and terrible hidden urges or whatever. This goes for all the most extreme kinks you can think of; as long as everyone involved is an adult who is aware of the risks and consents to them, then there is nothing wrong with ANY of the roles and desires people are fulfilling through kink.
Also, this is a big part about why I speak on aftercare for doms so much! There's often a lot of shame and concern after a scene that's seen as taboo, and it's so important that they receive reassurance that they aren't a bad person, that what they did was welcome and asked for, and that they're loved.
Aftercare is so often only talked about for submissives and bottoms, and that's so damn important too, but this deserves more attention.
This is like the Greeks saying being gay is fine as long as you do the topping
God the sapphic pining in me right now is unbearable. I want a cute femme pinning me down and kissing me right now and it’s so unfair that I don’t have a girlfriend to smooch
Like this post if you want a hot trans girl to kiss you deeply (with tongue)
Reblog to suck off a trans girl (with tongue) and let her cum down your throat as she moan cutely and grabs your head to facefuck you deeper, making you press up against her stomach until you're barely conscious before letting you back up for air
Isn't it nice when you don't have to think, cutie? When you can just sink into a fuzzy, quiet headspace. When your mind and body feels safe enough with someone there to look after you that you can let all of the complicated things go. When those racing thoughts calm down, and you finally feel at peace.
No need for a sweet little thing like you to worry or stress, not when your head is in my lap, and I'm softly speaking. It's not even important that you understand what I'm saying. I don't expect anything from you. You can just be.
Comfy, cozy, safe, and adored. You're safe right now. Despite everything else going on, you're safe in this moment.
While we're on the subject of swinging our fists at God
Mastercard's new policy unfairly targets the adult content industry, making sex workers more vulnerable, especially Black trans women. It mu
The ACLU is gonna take action against Mastercard for their anti-porn schtick! Y'know, one of the major reasons the internet turned to shit in the last ten years? It's literally like 95% of the way there, we just need a few more signatures and the petition Gets There. You have to be USAmerican to sign, but there's enough of us here to fill in the last few signatures needed several times over, so go on over and throw your name on there!!
It kind of sucks having kinks that don’t line up with the popular kinks being written about even if the kinks are in the same umbrella.
Like I’m not yucking other peoples yums it just often doesn’t hit right? And it sucks cause I often don’t want to *make* my own stuff, I want to eat at the table not stay in the kitchen cooking 😂
letter from a mother of a gay man. sent to ONE magazine, 1958.
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This post was flagged as adult content and the original poster was deactivated so I'm bringing it back.
“Mrs R” was the pseudonym of Phyllis Shafer, a Kansas City local who helped found the Phoenix Society for Individual Freedom in 1966, a full three years before Stonewall. Throughout the 1960s and 1970s, she and her son Drew operated the Phoenix House, a safe haven for queer people in the city, and a hub of national queer activism. Drew passed away due to AIDS related complications in the 1980s, and his lover, Mickey Ray, spent the rest of his life fighting to keep his memory alive, largely contributing to the creation of the Gay and Lesbian Archive of Mid-America.
Years before the Stonewall uprising, Drew Shafer started Kansas City's first gay rights organization and published the first LGBTQ magazine
“We tend to view American history as this constant march toward progress, which is total crap,” he says. “You gotta fight for that stuff. And if you don't fight for that, you can fall backward. Like it's not just this linear history."
Good quote from the article which may be relevant right now.
Bring this bad boy back with some delicious context for pride
[ID: Old photo of a typed letter.
Gentlemen:
I am not of the Gay World, but "straight". I have one child, a 22 year old boy, who has been Gay since he was 14 years old. I have known about this since last April. Since then I have made his life my life.
My husband and I have a large three-story house and we are filling our house with Gay boys. So far we have six who are rooming and boarding with us. The people I have known so far of the Gay World are wonderful, talented, fascinating people. I love them all. Since they have come to our home they are much more settled down, much happier and more secure. In our home they know they can be themselves are are protected. What a pity there cannot be more "straight" people who understand and accept Gay people. My son says I know more about Gay Life and homosexuality than a lot of Gay people do.
I am trying to write a book, in order to bring better relationships between parents and children of the Gay World. We have had parties in our home accommodating 25 to 30 at a time that were talked about for months afterward. They were nice, decent parties, where they can have drinks and be themselves.
Mrs. R.
KANSAS CITY, MO.
/end ID]
Doms can ask for attention too.
Doms can be needy for attention too.
Doms can ask for reassurance too.
Doms can be clingy too.
Doms can be not in the mood too.
Doms can get jealous and insecure too.
They're not weaker or less of a dom for any of it. They're humans, too, not just Doms. And the fact that people genuinely think otherwise is kind of weird to me.
I could reblog this 1000 times.
oh to be pressed against a girls’ back, kissing their shoulders, their neck, their cheeks— anything i can reach…
fingering them and feeling them twitch around me, feeling them press even closer, their head falling backwards as they pant…, little gasps and moans leaving their mouth, telling me how good it feels ahaaaaaa
“you deserve this, god you sound so pretty. fuckkkkk,”
”mmm just like that, please-“ “sure, i’m here. i’ll take good care of you, pretty girl. you’re doing such a good job for me, baby-“
“you feel so good against me, god— just sucking me in, you’re so fucking gorgeous.”
this post is about sapphic sex. minors & men dni.
Caretaking that is casual. Caretaking that's domestic.
You're sick, but it's just a cold. You're exhausted and sleepy, but it's nothing too serious either, so there's no need to worry.
So you're on the couch, sipping tea, trying to read, ending up just lying there, huddled under your blanket, drowsy and halfway to sleep.
Meanwhile, your partner is sitting next to you, also reading. Or playing a video game while you are watching, blinking tiredly but happy to be entertained in this way.
Or it's your friends. They're chatting, talking about their days. Watching a film. All reading. Studying. Playing cards.
And you're just sort of... there. They ignore your sniffling, don't mind when you blow your nose. They don't think you're gross or annoying. Occasionally, somebody might walk by and absent-mindedly pet your head. Squeeze your shoulder. Without even really looking at you.
"You okay?", somebody says, half-amused, when you sneeze forcefully.
"Fine", you mumble, closing your eyes again.
"You want tea?", somebody asks, but it's just an afterthought. They were already on their way to get tea for themselves.
"You warm enough? Want my jumper?", somebody offers. But it's only because they just took it off since they felt too warm.
You're literally just... there. Like a pet. Still part of it even though you can't do much. And you're so happy to simply be around them, feel included. Know you are cared for even though the illness is not that bad. Know you are loved without having to do anything for it.
reminder: being ace AND kinky is valid
Also Reminder to add onto that:
Being Ace is valid no matter if you are kinky or not, horny or not, sex repulsed or enthused by it. Generally, Ace people are very valid!
the thing about gay bdsm dynamics is they will make explicit what is implicit in normative cisheterosexual dynamics and then those complicit in cisheterosexuality will act all scandalized about seeing themselves in the funhouse mirror
in kink as in gender, a choice instead of an invisible pressure is reprehensible. If you put on the big clanky chain, you necessarily have the big shiny key to it, and you show it to be merely a thing, not a natural force.
I think the thing that's even scarier about kink, to the wrong sort of person, is that... it's a game. It's meant to be fun. You are not meant to take it too seriously, and if you start taking it too seriously, you will have to stop.
The kind of person who thinks that the big clanky chain is a natural force is also the kind of person who thinks that you should take that force SERIOUSLY AS DEATH. you shouldn't treat it like, say, the weather, like a nuisance to be planned around- no, you should let it rule everything that goes into and out of you. (Pun fully intended.) Every thought, every word, every relationship dynamic, even the food you eat is supposed to be constrained by Your Social Role As An Hetero Man/Woman. You're supposed to CONSTANTLY project dominance or submission with everything you do.
....And then kinksters, gay OR straight, come in with the big clanky chain and big shiny key and fluffy pink handcuffs and goofy-ass Saturday Morning Cartoon Villain outfits and say, "actually, social roles are a costume you can put on or take off, and we're having a costume party." It's not just that they're showing the natural force isn't all that natural- it's that they're making it into a big, campy joke.
And for someone who's spent their entire life abusing themself in the name of patriarchy? Turning that constant coercion into a thing you can laugh at and put away when you're done? It's unthinkable.
Good pets have to learn how to properly beg!~
You have to pull your cute little paws in close and hold them just so out front, squeezing your cute little chest so your owner can better appreciate you ^.^
Then you have to let out the cutest noise you can manage, tilt your empty head to the side and let your dumb little tongue hang for all to see~
The proper way to beg is for a good pet to remind its owner that it's just a dumb little plaything and that it is their responsibility and part of that is taking care of all the pets little wants~
i appreciate the species neutrality on this poast :3
There are so many wonderful different types of pets out there ;3c
COMMON DOM RED FLAGS 🚩
Never saying “I don’t know”. Like many other subjects BDSM is always evolving so no matter how experienced you think you are you can always still learn and should regularly do your research on your interests. Also watch out for the 20 year old Doms with 10 years experience that will “train” you. It’s common sense , be careful.
“You don’t need a safe word/signal”. Yes you do. Always. And it’s sacred. It’s not a mood killer. It’s not weakness. It’s necessary so you can enjoy a nice time while being SAFE.
Refusing to provide or receive any form of aftercare. Aftercare should be present in all forms of sexual interaction, even sexting, for both sides.
Comparing you to a previous partner or saying things like “my last sub would have done what you said no to”. Shows zero respect for your limits , boundaries and you as a person. It’s one of the early stages of abuse. Stay away.
Punishing you outside of a sexual act or acting like he owns you 24/7 without this being discussed and agreed upon beforehand.Another clear sign of abuse. Leave.
Pushing your limits without your permission. Physically or mentally. It’s something that should never happen if you are not feeling completely safe and ready for it.
Getting punished for saying no. You can say so to anything you are not feeling ok with. And a real Dom will respect it.
