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BDSM Links And Resources
I thought I would update the list of BDSM links and resources I posted a while ago, as some links were no longer working and I had several new ones to add, including a list of books. These should be particularly helpful to those who are new to BDSM and looking to explore D/s relationships, as the best way to go about that is to first read everything you can and then read even more! Not only will this allow you to educate yourself, help keep you safe and avoid any potential mistakes or regrets, but also the more you understand something, the less intimidating it will seem.
If you have anything to add, please don’t hesitate to let me know and I will update this list, in particular if there any books that a submissive might find helpful or informative, as most of the books I have read or included are intended for Dominants.
Note: For the sake of consistency and readability, I have used capitals throughout this document and have not used lower case when referring to submissives or slaves.
Websites:
Babygirls ‘n’ Daddy Doms: Website dedicated to littles, babygirls and Daddy Doms, with a lot of useful information on the subject.
Collarme: A free BDSM dating website and community, that is probably the most popular and a better option than the commercial alternatives.
DS Arts: Academy of DS Arts, fairly self explanatory.
Evil Monk: Ambrosio’s BDSM Website, featuring many useful articles.
Fetlife: An online BDSM community that I would highly recommend and which is perhaps best described as Facebook for the kinky, allowing users to create a profile, publish photos or writing and join interest groups where you can ask questions.
Kink Academy: An online resource with many educational and instructional videos on various aspects of BDSM, although users must pay a small fee to access all of the content.
Submissive Guide: As the name suggests, this is an online resource for submissives.
The Iron Gate: A general BDSM online resource, with many aticles, essays and even stories on the subject.
Dating and Relationships:
10 Principles For Healthy 24/7 D/s And M/s (Source: sexgeek.wordpress.com)
Difference of Dynamics in BDSM (Source: the-little-kitten.tumblr.com)
Finding Your Dominant (Source: asubmissivesjourney.com)
How To Find A Partner (Source: Jack Rinella / leathernews.com)
Initiating a Discussion About BDSM Interest with a Vanilla Partner Part 1 (Source: submissiveguide.com)
Initiating a Discussion About BDSM Interest with a Vanilla Partner Part 2 (Source: submissiveguide.com)
Initiating a Discussion About BDSM Interest with a Vanilla Partner Part 3 (Source: submissiveguide.com)
So You Want Your Boyfriend To Dominate You (Source: domwithpen.tumblr.com)
So Your Girlfriend Wants You To Dominate Her (Source: domwithpen.tumblr.com)
The Unfortunate But Common Misconceptions About DD/lg Relationships (Source: a-lolitas-life.tumblr.com)
Play:
Consent Is Mandatory And Non-Negotiable (Source: fortheloveofasub.tumblr.com)
Food Play (Source: bdsmsadomasochism.tumblr.com)
How (and Why) To Go Down On Your Submissive (Source: domwithpen.tumblr.com)
Initial Steps Into Orgasm on Command Training (Source: submissiveguide.com)
Rules and Tasks for Building Confidence (Source: themostdangerousplaything.tumblr.com)
Tools of Consent in BDSM (Source: the-iron-gate.com)
Training in D/s - Why? (Source: her-master.tumblr.com)
Training in D/s - How? (Source: her-master.tumblr.com)
Training in D/s - Thoughts And Concerns (Source: her-master.tumblr.com)
Wax Play (Source: bdsmsadomasochism.tumblr.com)
Safety:
Basics Of Safe, Sane And Consensual Power Exchange (Source: Molly Devon / the-iron-gate.com)
Common Sense (Source: Sean R. Powell / the-iron-gate.com)
Emotional Safety (Source: the-iron-gate.com)
Offline/Online BDSM Safety Rules (Source: the-iron-gate.com)
Ouch Is Not A Safe Word: Safe Words, Limits, and Scene Protocol (Source: the-iron-gate.com)
Rules For Meeting Strangers (Source: Jack Rinella / leathernews.com)
Safewords and Safesigns 101 (Source: kinkology.tumblr.com)
S.S.C. VS R.A.C.K. (Source: Justin Medlin / the-iron-gate.com)
Checklists, Communication and Negotiation:
BDSM Play Partner Check List (Source: Sovereign House / the-iron-gate.com)
BDSM Scene Negotiations (Source: daddyvinnie.tumblr.com)
Can I Get That In Writing: Basics of Negotiations (Source: the-iron-gate.com)
Communication (Source: submissivesupportgroup.tumblr.com)
If I Ever See Another Checklist I Will Scream: An Extremely Thorough Play Checklist (Source: the-iron-gate.com)
Negotiation Forms (Source: Jay Wiseman, SM 101: A Realistic Introduction / greenerypress.com)
What Are Negotiations Good For? (Source: the-iron-gate.com)
Sub Drop and Aftercare:
Aftercare for submissives (Source: Mistress Abode / brairthornblog.wordpress.com)
Aftercare for Dominants (Source: Mistress Abode / brairthornblog.wordpress.com)
Aftercare for Switches (Source: Mistress Abode / brairthornblog.wordpress.com)
Emergency Self-Administered Aftercare (Source: Mistress Abode / brairthornblog.wordpress.com)
Sub Drop (Source: David Williams / subshelpingsubs.tripod.com)
Sub Drop and Aftercare (Source: desires-of-a-domimant-man.tumblr.com)
Dominance and Dominants:
A Dominant is NOT… (Source: the-iron-gate.com)
Advice to a Novice Dom (Source: Washington Sexuality University / the-iron-gate.com)
Advice to a Novice Dominant (Source: cherhatton.tumblr.com)
An Open Letter To A Novice Dom (Source: evilmonk.org)
Qualities of A Successful Dominant (Source: Polly Peachum / the-iron-gate.com)
Daddy Doms: They’re Not What You Think (Source: edenfantasys.com)
Domination for Nice Guys (Source: Franklin Veaux / the-iron-gate.com)
How To Spot A Non Dominant (Source: the-iron-gate.com)
Learning To Be A Dom (Source: the-iron-gate.com)
Run Don’t Walk: Warning Signs of A Predator Dom/me Part 1 (Source: submissiveguide.com)
Run Don’t Walk: Warning Signs of A Predator Dom/me Part 2 (Source: submissiveguide.com)
Red Flags, Warning Signs, and Intuition: Learning to Trust You Instincts - Part One: Dominants (Source: the-iron-gate.com)
The Dominant (Source: the-iron-gate.com)
What Is A Daddy Dom? (Source: babygirlsndaddydoms.webs.com)
What Makes A Good Dominant (Source: Kim Debron / kimdebron.tripod.com)
What Should A Dominant Be (Source: the-iron-gate.com)
Submission and Submissives:
10 Considerations For Inexperienced Subs (Source: fortheloveofasub.tumblr.com)
A Submissive Bill of Rights (Source: the-iron-gate.com)
A Submissive’s Creed (Source: the-iron-gate.com)
A Submissive’s Ethics (Source: the-iron-gate.com)
Introduction To Submission (Source: Kim Debron / kimdebron.tripod.com)
Learning to Trust Your Instincts (Source: bewildbetruebekinkybeyou.tumblr.com)
Red Flags, Warning Signs, and Intuition: Learning to Trust You Instincts- Part 2: Submissives/Slaves (Source: the-iron-gate.com)
Some Rules For The Submissive (Source: daddylookingforhisbaby.tumblr.com)
Submissive Owner’s Manual (Source: youmadememe.tumblr.com)
Ten Tips For The Novice, Heterosexual submissive Woman (Source: Jay Wiseman / the-iron-gate.com)
Warning Signs for Submissives (Source: RC Bauer / the-iron-gate.com)
What Is A Babygirl? (Source: babygirlsndaddydoms.webs.com)
Books:
BDSM: The Naked Truth by Dr Charley Ferrer
Dear Raven and Joshua: Questions and Answers About Master/Slave Relationships by Joshua Tenpenny and Raven Kaldera
Devil in the Details I: The Art of Mastery, A Mentoring Trilogy - The Master, The Slave, The Power by LT Morrison
Devil in the Details II: The Art of Mastery, A Mentoring Trilogy - Mastery Refine: The Issues, The Skills by LT Morrison
Devil in the Details III: The Art of Mastery, A Mentoring Trilogy - Sustainable Structure and Traning by LT Morrison
Different Loving: The World of Sexual Dominance and Submission by William Brame, Gloria Brame and Jon Jacobs
Living M/s: A Book for Masters, slaves and Their Relationships by Dan and Dawn Williams
Master/slave Relations: Handbook of Theory and Practice by Robert Rubel
Master/slave Relations: Communications 401 by Robert Rubel
Master/slave Relations: Solutions 402, Living in Harmony by Robert Rubel
Protocols: A Variety of Views by Robert Rubel
Real Service by Joshua Tenpenny and Raven Kaldera
Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns: The Romance and Sexual Sorcery of Sadomasochism by Phillp Miller and Molly Devon
SM101: A Realistic Introduction by Jay Wiseman
The Control Book by Peter Masters
The Loving Dominant by John and Libby Warren
The New Bottoming Book by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy.
The New Topping Book by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy.
The Ultimate Guide to Kink: BDSM, Role Play and the Erotic Edge by Tristan Taormino
This Curious Human Phenomenon: An Exploration of Some Uncommonly Explored Aspects of BDSM by Peter Masters
Where I Am Led: A Service Exploration Workbook by Christina Parker
Great list! Please note that collarme is now collarspace.com - it changed a couple of years ago due to a falling out of the site owners.
Chastity
Sometimes my Owner orders me to wear a chastity belt. Unfortunately, it is not possible to wear it 24/7 by hygienic reasons. The biggest amount of time that I was wearing it was 3 weeks. I was taking it off only for washing every day under control of my Owner.
One thing happened in the third week. I was on the work, I. called me and said go to the bathroom. When I entered the toilet cabin, she asked me to get AirPods. I inserted it into my ears. The voice of my Owner was everywhere around me now.
“I want you to touch your nipples”, she said. I unfastened the rob, and put my fingers under the bra. “Yes”, I said quietly. I was afraid that someone will hear me. “Play with it”, her calm voice filled my years. I started touching it. The warm feeling was filling me somewhere below my belly. “You’re mine property”, my Owner said. “You are just my obedient bitch” - she continued. I was continuing playing with the nipples. “Pull your nipples very hard”.
I immediately started pulling it as strong as I could.
Ten seconds passed.
“Now, make it gently”
I started rubbing it gentle again. With this contrast - when the pain was changed with pleasure again - I could not keep it in myself and moaned. Not very loud, but if someone was in the nearest cabins, she could definitely hear me.
“Yeah, that’s good”, I. Said. “Stop it, return back to work”. I felt confused. «Yes, ma’am.», I whispered.
Did you feel frustration? Did you notice how it is only started and then ended so fast? Nothing happened yet, but it is already stopped? I felt this feeling back then. I felt desire. I felt frustration. I felt desperation. Multiply it on three weeks of chastity! But I never felt myself so alive, then on that day.
Yours, Vicki 😘
Are you going to be a Good Girl for Mommy? 😈
Chastity guide by sissyjoyce
I’ve been in chastity for a looooong time. The very first thing i did when i turned 18 is take a buss to a crowded city, and bought a chastity cage CB-6000 in there. I remember that, i got so nervous. If you are looking for the perfect chastity cage for you, feel free to folow my advise, it will save you allot of cash. 1) Don’t buy a device that can pinch your skin.
2) Don’t buy cheap plastic devices or flexible materials! The only plastic device i know won’t break are the expensive CB-series and Holytrainers.
3) Don’t buy a transparant device. You dont want to see your penis, after 2-3 weeks you will forget how your penis looks like exactly, and forget about it more and more.
4) Dont buy a chastity cage with a lockpad. You can grab the lockpad and move your cage untill you orgasm, lets be honest sissies.
5) Dont buy a cage that shows too much skin. With erections, your skin will just get swollen and hurt.
6) The perfect cage examples and places where you can buy them :
I dont get anything out of this post or something like that, this is just to help you! Dutch people can buy from https://www.kuisheidskooi.nl/huismerk/Kuisheidskooi-Metaal Extremly cheap, i bought mine there… For the others you can buy one at for example : https://steelworxx.de/ But those are expensive, you can probably find one like this online cheap, but be carefull. I know you are wondering… ‘’Sissyjoyce, on your picture you are wearing a holytrainer S" I know… its a good chastity cage, but these are better. Right now i got the right one from the lowest picture i showed. xxx
Joyce
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A Slave Contract
All slaves should know what is expected of them, a. Contract, while not legally binding, does help.
CONTRACT of SLAVERY and
DEED of OWNERSHIP
Whereas I, ______, hereafter called “The SLAVE”, agrees to voluntarily give up all rights, personal and legal, and become the personal property of my master, hereafter called “The OWNER”; and, whereas The OWNER has accepted The SLAVE as his legally titled property, the purpose of this Slave Contract is to codify and enforce the property rights of the OWNER over the SLAVE.
I. RECITALS
Now,
Following the initiative and firm wish of The SLAVE and The OWNER, both parties pledge and agree as follows:
1. The SLAVE agrees to become the property of and to submit completely to The OWNER in all ways. There are no boundaries of place, time, or situation in which The SLAVE may refuse to obey any wish or order of The OWNER. The SLAVE will never be given the option to act on its own desire, but will be trained to complete obedience by a combination of systematic humiliation and punishment. The SLAVE’s status and duties are permanent and will be performed 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, each day of the year without any presumption or provision of leisure time for The SLAVE, independent from whether The OWNER is present. By execution of this contract, The SLAVE has surrendered her personhood to The OWNER at all times and for all times.
2. As compensation, The OWNER will seek to use The SLAVE, his property, for his benefit and enjoyment in any fashion he desires. The SLAVE will be at The OWNER’s complete disposal to perform or submit to any task commanded by The OWNER. The SLAVE acknowledges that The OWNER is a committed sadist and dominant male, and that The SLAVE will be required to suffer pain, deprivation, degradation, and humiliation far beyond its endurance. The OWNER takes the slave as his property specifically wishing to humiliate, harass, torture and punish The SLAVE, without any mercy, respite, or recourse, by means of sadistic and mean orders and permanent obligations. Further, The SLAVE understands that The OWNER wishes to invent continuously new torments and cruelties to which The SLAVE will be subjected, and to enforce compliance by any punishment, torment or humiliation required.
3. The OWNER will endeavour to ensure that all orders for The SLAVE will be extremely mean and humiliating, forcing The SLAVE to do things, or do them in a way she never would be prepared to do under normal circumstances.
4. The SLAVE’s will and psyche will be reprogrammed to complete obedience and servitude. The SLAVE’s personal desires and sexuality are irrelevant and also become the property of The OWNER. The satisfaction of any and every of The OWNER’s sadistic and sexual desires will be The SLAVE’s highest duty; The SLAVE’s only pleasure and arousal will come through his fulfillment of The OWNER’s every desire.
5. The SLAVE may be locked in chastity that may include features for punishment of arousal. It is fully at the discretion of The OWNER to deny sexual relief to The SLAVE as long as he desires; The SLAVE does not have any rights to any personal satisfaction or gratification - it exists only for the betterment and pleasure of The OWNER. However, if in rare cases that The OWNER considersa sexual reward to the slave is appropriate, The OWNER will take care that it is combined with pain and/or humiliation and will often be ruined or be stopped just before orgasm, be it while performing enforced masturbation, or be it while The SLAVE is violated by The OWNER or one of his friends. The SLAVE will always be required to consume his semen or that of any others required by The OWNER.
6. For the pleasure of The OWNER or one of his male or female friends, it is The SLAVE’s duty to lick or suck them, or to submit to any sexual or personal use, at any time or place requested. Alike, at any time The OWNER can sexually use The SLAVE in any way, or ask one of his male or female friends to rape her. In any case, there will be severe punishment if The SLAVE’s performance is not absolutely satisfying, even when being raped. If the slave unwillingly has anything exit from her body during these exercises, whether it be her own puke, urine, or shit. It may be made re-enter her body through her mouth at the owner’s discretion. Subject to V(6) below, the slave can only release her bodily excrements on command of the owner.
7. The OWNER will have the enjoyment of any lovers he chooses. The SLAVE may be required -or denied- participation to enhance The OWNER’s sexual experiences. The SLAVE can be expected to prepare The OWNER’s lovers by orally satisfying them or by submitting to sadistic cruelties to arouse them. The OWNER may require The SLAVE to orally or otherwise enhance his and his lovers enjoyment during foreplay or copulation. Further, The SLAVE understands it will be required to clean and sooth the genitals of The OWNER and his lovers when they have completed their enjoyments. The OWNER may vest any lovers or friends with the right to give orders to The SLAVE and punish her according to their caprice.
8. The OWNER will take as long as necessary to train The SLAVE. Training will be harsh, and will by no means be fair. Such training will be delivered by The OWNER or by other Mistresses or Masters. The SLAVE may also be sent to a slave training facility that is documented for a most severe training regime.
9. The SLAVE will be provided a sufficient, but controlled source of food and water at the OWNER’s discretion. However, at times, food will be used as both incentive and punishment for The SLAVE’s performance and behaviour. The SLAVE’s normal meals, even in the absence of The OWNER, may be food eaten from a dog bowl on the floor. Long periods of time will ensue when the slave will only consume that which comes out of the owner’s body, his friends bodies, or her own body at his own command. This includes piss, shit, spit, and vomit. Rewards may include table scraps. These periods of time could last from several hours to days or weeks. It is completely at the OWNER’s discretion and is used to completely denigrate the slave.
10. The OWNER will take videos and photos showing The SLAVE in most humiliating situations. It is up to The OWNER’s sole discretion to publish them in the Internet, or in sex magazines or videos which are available in sex shops. These pictures or videotapes become the sole property of The OWNER at the time the pictures or videotapes are taken. While The SLAVE would prefer to keep these pictures or videotapes private, The SLAVE understands that they are not her property and The OWNER may do with them whatever he likes.
11. The OWNER may loan The SLAVE at any time to any other person. There, The SLAVE may be subject to rape, torture, severe whippings, and whatever else they desire. Further, The OWNER may charge for The Slave’s slut services in any way he chooses. Any money or other negotiable earned in this manner or any other is the sole property of The OWNER.
12. To enforce the permanence of the slave’s status, The OWNER shall tattoo, brand, or mark the slave on any body part and in any way he so desires. The purpose of such tattoo, brand, or mark should be the permanent reminder and humiliation of The SLAVE. The SLAVE may be required to publicly expose such markings at any time in any way.
13. The SLAVE will sexually please the OWNER or any of his friends in any way he sees fit. This predominantly includes complete anal and oral penetration. If the OWNER sees fit he will also use her vaginally, but this method may be used for procreation or at the OWNER’s discretion. She should not expect or desire to be used for her own pleasure at any time. Furthermore, if the slave does not adequately clean her rectum before the OWNER penetrates her, she will slowly clean it with her mouth by exchanging either a toy or his cock back and forth until the owner is satisfied. The Slave will regularly be given enema’s by the OWNER and will dispose of them at his request. If the slave releases the enema before commanded by the OWNER, she will surely be punished.
II. TERM of CONTRACT
1. This Slave Contract will be in force for an indefinite period of time up to the rest of the life of The SLAVE, unless terminated by The OWNER. The SLAVE will have no rights to legal recourse if terminated by The OWNER.
2. The SLAVE has no right whatsoever to terminate this Slave Contract. The execution of this contract will be videotaped and the complete contract will be read aloud by The SLAVE. Upon signing, The SLAVE’s status will become forever and permanent.
3. The OWNER can at any time discharge The SLAVE, but she shall remain a slave subject to sale on the Internet or transfer to any other Master or Mistress.
4. The OWNER has the right to transfer all rights of this Slave Contract to any other person, male, female, or shemale, if She so wishes, without asking The SLAVE. By means of a simple transfer of the original of this Slave Contract this person will then become The OWNER.
III. AMENDMENTS
1. Henceforth, The terms and conditions of this Slave Contract may be modified and supplemented at any time at the sole discretion of The OWNER in whatever way he likes. The OWNER will ask friends and also people in the Internet for proposals to aggravate the Slave Contract especially with regard to further humiliation of The SLAVE, and implement such proposals without further consent.
2. The only original of this Slave Contract will remain with The OWNER. There will be no copy for The SLAVE, since it is considered to be an undue duty for The OWNER to provide always a copy of the amendments to this Slave Contract to The SLAVE.
3. It is agreed upon that a copy of the Slave Contract will be mailed to a distribution list including The Slave’s employer, friends, and relatives should The OWNER decide to terminate the contract. Therefore it should be in the genuine interest of The SLAVE that The OWNER will not terminate the Slave Contract.
IV. REMEDIES
Should The SLAVE ever try to avoid its obligations under this contract, it is agreed that The OWNER will destroy the all keys to The SLAVE’s collar. If that action fails to compel compliance, or if there is any other attempt of The SLAVE to not fulfill its contractual obligations, The OWNER will mail copies of the Slave Contract to The SLAVE’s employer, friends, and relatives along with any other video or photographic records he chooses.
V. RULES for The SLAVE
1. Without any exception all rules apply to all situations and locations at any given time, may it be when only The OWNER is present, may it be in the presence of other people or in the public.
2. There will be absolutely NO safeword for The SLAVE.
3. The SLAVE shall speak only when being asked or when The OWNER gives permission. If being addresse by somebody else, The SLAVE will wait whether The OWNER instructs her to answer with the words “answer, slave”.
4. The SLAVE shall address The OWNER as “MASTER” or “SIR” at the owner’s discretion, his male friends as “SIR” and his female friends as “MISTRESS” at all times and any place. In the presence of other people The SLAVE will address The OWNER at a voice level that it can be clearly understood in what way The SLAVE has to address The OWNER. The OWNER will never address The SLAVE in another way than as “slave” or as “slut”, and he will ensure that all his male and female friends will do the same.
5. The SLAVE will have absolutely no right to privacy. When asked by The OWNER his thoughts, The SLAVE will respond truthfully and completely. The SLAVE will promptly confess to The OWNER all thoughts and fears and desires.
6. The Slave will not use the toilet without permission of The OWNER. Anything released without permission of the owner may be re-implanted through the slave’s mouth until the owner commands her to release it at a later time.
7. The slave will be expected to perform toilet service whenever the OWNER desires and shall always be ready and eager to use her tongue to clean the master after his use of the bathroom, or at any time he wishes or requires. The Slave can never deny the owner from using her as his toilet, and must always swallow what he gives her along with cleaning him after.
8. Indoors The SLAVE will always be completely naked apart from her steel collar. If The SLAVE is on duty outdoors The SLAVE will always wear what The OWNER determines to be the appropriate attire for any given situation. This may be as little as her slave collar, even in public. The fact that this may cause The SLAVE embarrassment is of no concern. The OWNER may command “Strip!” at which point The SLAVE must stop wherever it is, and immediately strip itself of all clothing on the spot. Whether completely naked, clothed in a revealing or humiliating outfit, or fully dressed, The SLAVE will always make every part of her body available to The OWNER at any time, displaying and exposing the demanded area within easy reach of The OWNER, and following all spoken commands as to the display and exposure of its body for any and every purpose.
9. The SLAVE will perform any domestic services required by The OWNER. These will include all cooking, food service, cleaning, home care, as well as bathing The OWNER, dressing The OWNER, shaving The OWNER’s body, or in any other form of personal service. In addition, The SLAVE will always clean The OWNER and the fixture after any toilet use in any fashion required.
10. The SLAVE will never touch its vagina, clit, anus or nipples without The Owner’s permission or allow others to do so. They are for The OWNER’s enjoyment only.
11. The Slave shall live by the rule that everything is forbidden which is not explicitly permitted or authorized.
VI. SLAVE CARE
1. The SLAVE will be fed limited nourishment, subject to I(9) above.
2. When sexually surrendered to others, The SLAVE will be used in whatever fashion her master desires whether or not it is for the betterment of the slave.
VII. PUNISHMENT
1. The SLAVE acknowledges that her performance will never be more than adequate and that The SLAVE will be punished regularly for her shortcomings. The OWNER will be required to punish The SLAVE severely for any lack of immediate compliance, lack of performance, or poor performance, or for any other deficiency in The SLAVE’s duties, or for no reason at all. Punishments will be administered mercilessly at least as severe as announced, and under no circumstances diminish a punishment threatened. The OWNER, however, has every right to enlarge any punishment in any way he likes. It is being agreed explicitly that punishment may even be out of all proportion with regard to the misbehavior of The SLAVE.
2. It is up to the sole discretion of The OWNER to decide whether there is a case of no immediate compliance, lack of performance, or poor performance. In the opposite, such decision holds true even if not valid at all. Similarly, any allegation of no immediate compliance or lack of performance if claimed by anyone is to be taken as given. The SLAVE does not have the right to argue even the falsest allegation resulting in a severe punishment.
3. The OWNER may ask other Mistresses or Masters to execute any punishment imposed on the slave.
VIII. AFFIDAVIT
1. I, the undersigned, certify that I am ___ years old, that I am not physically or mentally impaired by influence of any drugs, including alcohol, or other reason where I do not know what I am doing and am legally and mentally competent to contract in my own name. I am signing this Slave Contract of my own free will, without coercion or pressure of any kind. No one has made any promises, guarantees, warranties, or offered threats or inducements of any kind to get me to sign this Slave Contract.
2. I hereby totally submit to The OWNER without limit and without reservation. With full understanding of the meanings and implications of this Slave Contract, I specifically desire and request The OWNER to force me to comply if necessary, using any means at The Owner’s disposal without any limit. I specifically request and authorize The OWNER to use force to compel my obedience, and I specifically request and authorize The OWNER to ignore anything I may say or do what might in any way be considered a refusal or retraction on my part.
3. I do want The OWNER to enforce his orders by punishment without limitation, by making me to do whatever he wants done. I do want that, as one method of discipline, I will get whipped, lashed, or caned. I do want the whippings to hurt and accept that they may make me bleed, may leave long lasting marks on my body, and will make me cry uncontrollably. Under no obligation will the owner stop even if the Slave is to fall unconscious from pain. The OWNER may punish me either for a lapse in my behavior, for a completely arbitrary reason, or just for his enjoyment, amusement, or gratification.
4. I desire to be placed in a position where I CANNOT change my mind ever again.
5. Furthermore, I hereby execute an unconditional, unlimited, irrevocable, assignable Model Release in favor of The OWNER covering all pictures, films, video, audio, public performance, and recordings of me of any kind, whether true to life or manipulated in any fashion, and all associated material, including promotional, either factual or fictional. I waive all rights to inspect the products before or after use and waive my claims for embarrassment or mental distress specifically and all other claims of any sort generally. I consent that such material may be sold with all revenues due to The OWNER, or distributed free of charges, or put into the Internet at public display.
6. I accept and even request that The OWNER destroys immediately all keys of my steel slave collar while I am locked in them should I ever dare ask The OWNER for Her consent to annul this Slave Contract. This would clearly leave me forever locked in slave collar, with no possibility at all to remove it ever again.
7. Last, but not least, I accept that the OWNER may freely convey this Slave Contract to anyone at any time and I will continue to abide by the terms therein.
IX. ATTESTATION
By my signature below, I, _______________________, now, to become on my signature The SLAVE as described in this contract, acknowledge that I have read, understand, and agree to to be bound by the terms of this Slave Contract. In my last act of my own free will,
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(Signed and dated by the Slave)
Accepting this Slave Contract and obliging me that I will under no circumstances give consent to cancel it, but do everything to enforce execution by the use of punishment as outlined above.
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(signed and dated by the OWNER)
The parties also wish to have a witness who is prepared to testify about the circumstances under which the Slave Contract was executed and that the Slave Contract was entered into voluntarily, consensually, and without coercion or force.
Who’s ready to sign?
10 Reasons I’m a Submissive
(in no particular order)
1. Because his pleasure is my pleasure.
There are lots of things in life that bring me pleasure. A perfectly roasted chicken. Unicorns. Glitter. Tootsie rolls. Fairy lights. Getting an A+. A really good action movie with lots of explosions and guns and violence and goofiness. Debating ridiculous philosophical and political and other stuff with my best friends. Traveling. Getting the perfect messy bun. Literally, the list goes on and on and on.
But nothing brings me pleasure the way that his pleasure does, the way my Dom’s pleasure does. And I’m not just talking about sexual pleasure – I’m talking about all kinds of pleasure. Sucking his cock and taking it all the way down my throat over and over until he feeds me his cum and tells me what a good girl I am for him and getting to revel in the fact that I’ve given him such pleasure that he couldn’t help but cum brings me such tremendous pleasure. But you know what else brings me pleasure? Knowing how pleased he is when I serve him his favorite dinner. Knowing how much it pleases him when I fold his t-shirts the right way. Knowing how much he loves and gets pleasure out of watching me sing along (badly) to my bubblegum pop playlist while I wash the kitchen counters. Watching his face light up when I meet him with a drink and a smile when he gets home from work. Kneeling at his feet and leaning against his leg so he can pet my hair while he reads or watches TV and giving him the comfort of knowing I’m there, knowing I kneel for him, knowing I serve him, knowing I love him, knowing that I’m his with that very simple act.
And when it’s sexual? The way he chuckles when I’m tied to his bed and writhing beneath his touch and whimpering and begging for release? It makes me smile inside. The way it turns him on to deny me? It makes me even wetter. The sick and twisted joy he gets out of ruining an orgasm or denying me one? It makes my girl parts tingle and makes me beg even harder. If he didn’t get pleasure out of the things he did to me? It wouldn’t be the same. I get turned on because of his dirty words and his talented fingers and the way he fucks me until I can’t think straight, sure – but, even more, I get turned on by knowing how much pleasure he gets out of watching me whimper and moan and beg and cry and do what I’m told.
It’s all kinds of pleasure. Any pleasure I give him, any way I please him, any way I make his day better or make him happy or make things just a little bit easier for him brings me pleasure. It pleases me to make him feel good. It makes me happy to know that I’ve made him happy. It makes me feel whole and safe and happy and good to bring him pleasure. It lights me up inside. That’s why I serve him – because pleasing him is what makes me the happiest I can be.
2. Because I crave structure and I crave it from him.
I am a person who craves structure. No, I don’t just crave it – I need it. I do better with rules and limits and a schedule in place.
But here’s the thing – I don’t do well with following the rules and limits and schedule when it’s wholly self-imposed. I can create a structure to follow when I have something to answer to (for example: a job). But when I am wholly left on my own I struggle to maintain that balance and those limits and that structure. I do well with picking one thing to focus on and setting up the structure for that (for example: gym and diet) – but when it comes to creating a structure for my overall life I get overwhelmed and tend to withdraw to a day of procrastinating and ignoring the schedule that I’ve tried to put in place for myself.
I am a person who does better when I know someone else has expectations of me. I have such passion and talent and drive – but I struggle with figuring out where to channel all of that without having something to work toward. And my brain works at such a speed and in such a way that instead of being able to focus in on a few options or possibilities I just see all of the options and end up in a never-ending loop of everything I could do and not knowing which to pick. So having someone to help me wade through that, help me set in place the limits and parameters and structure to figure out how to focus that drive and passion and talent… It makes it easier for me to know how to order my day, for me to plan what to get done when, for me to accomplish things and go to bed feeling like I’ve been productive.
So I crave someone who is willing to take on the very heavy responsibility of helping me create a structure for my life and then holding me accountable when it comes to sticking to it.
3. Because I don’t always do what’s best for me and when that happens I need someone I can trust to point that out to me.
It’s true. I have a habit of spiraling and, when I do, sometimes I can recognize it and set myself back on track and pull myself out of the hole. But sometimes I make a bad decision. And then I make another. And before I know it I’ve set myself on the path to a cycle of self-destructive behavior.
And then that happens, I need someone who can gently but firmly sit me down and talk me through it and help me set myself back on the right track. I want him to help me set limits. To help me set-up the rules. To, once again, help me create that structure - or alter the structure that’s already in place.
I need him to be my voice of guidance when I can’t guide myself. I want to know that he has my back. And I want to know that he’ll put limits in place for me when I can’t do it for myself.
4. I need someone to hold me accountable.
I am a people pleaser. I like to please people. And, true, if my mental health struggles and therapy have taught me anything it’s that you can’t live your life entirely focused on pleasing everyone around you. But having a set person in my life who has agreed to be in a relationship with me where he holds me accountable and gives me rules and structure and sets expectations for what he wants from and requires of me gives me a way to feed that people-pleasing need without going overboard and feeding my anxiety.
But it’s more than just feeding that people-pleasing need. It’s about being held accountable. It’s about knowing that if I say I’m going to do something or if he asks me to do something or if he sets me a task or a rule or what have you – that he’s then going to follow-up to ensure that it’s done and, if it’s not, that there are going to be consequences and those consequences are going to come from him.
It’s part of the structure that I need. And I don’t want to put this on someone who doesn’t want to provide that kind of structure or who doesn’t want to take on that responsibility – I’m looking for someone who gets a sense of fulfillment out of taking on that role. Who enjoys providing me structure, who enjoys holding me accountable, who enjoys leading me. Because knowing that he enjoys that helps me feel pleasure, helps me feel calm, helps me feel at peace.
I need to be held accountable. I need to know that there will be consequences for my actions. And I need to know that that accountability and those consequences will come from the person that I respect and trust most.
5. Because I want a relationship that’s a give and take.
So much of what you see on tumblr has to do with the Dom being responsible and taking on all the control and having to set in place all the rules, limits, and boundaries, and having to be responsible for the welfare of their sub and on and on and on…
But that’s not a real D/s relationship. At least not to me.
A real D/s relationship is about a give and take. Both (or all) parties take on responsibility. Both parties are responsible for watching out for the other, for caring for the other, for protecting and respecting and loving the other. Both parties are agreeing to act like adults, to handle disagreements with maturity and within the parameters set-up, to respect the limits and boundaries and rules put in place.
Your Dom takes care of you, yes. Your Dom agrees to hold you accountable. Your Dom agrees to lead you and pleasure you and take on responsibility for providing for your needs. But you take care of your Dom as well. I am responsible for watching out for him, for making sure he’s happy, for ensuring that he’s reaching his full potential and that I’m helping him in whatever way I can. I am responsible for talking to him, for telling him what I think and how I feel and for making sure that I share my problems and worries and issues with him. I am responsible for remembering that he can’t read my mind. I am responsible for asking him if he’s okay. I am responsible for listening when he needs to share his problems and worries and issues with me. I am responsible for taking care of him. I am responsible for loving him and respecting him and being the best I can be for him.
Because when he agrees to take on the responsibility of being my Dom – I, at the same time, am agreeing to take on the responsibility of being his sub. Because the responsibility of a D/s relationship doesn’t belong to just one party – it’s shared between both of us. It’s a partnership, a team, a unit. It’s a power exchange. An exchange. Which means there’s give and take. And I want that. I want to give my partner as much as he allows me to take from him. Because that’s the only way that both of us can remain healthy and whole.
6. Serving gives me pleasure.
Serving him gives me pleasure. Making a home not just with him but for him. Making it pretty, making it pleasing, making it a warm and happy place to come back to every night. Making him dinner. Doing his laundry (but not the ironing!). Making sure his shirts are all hung-up in the proper place when they come home from the dry-cleaner. Bringing him his favorite drink at the end of a long day. Washing him in the shower. Worshipping his cock. Keeping our home clean. Making sure I pick up his favorite snacks at the grocery store. Making sure he remembers to grab a water before he leaves the house for the gym. Serving him in so many ways.
Doing the little things (and the big ones!) that makes his life happier and calmer and altogether just a little bit easier – that makes me happy. Knowing that I’m helping him and making it easier for him to go through his day makes me feel complete.
And I know a lot of people will read this and ask what he’s doing to make my life easier and happier and calmer – and the answer is this: he’s doing so much. He’s holding me accountable. He’s providing my structure. He’s giving me a healthy and safe outlet for fulfilling my needs to please people and to serve. He loves me. He helps me make sure that I take care of myself – and takes care of me when I can’t do it. He gives me just as much as I give him. In his way, he serves me too. It’s a different kind of service than I give him. But it’s still service. Like I said, it’s a give and take.
7. Because kneeling for him brings me tremendous peace.
I suppose this could fall under service but it’s such a distinctive act that brings such tremendous fulfillment and peace that I felt like it deserved its own number.
It really is that simple: kneeling for him brings me peace. Kneeling for him makes me feel safe. Kneeling for him is fulfilling. Kneeling for him is a privilege. Kneeling for him is calming and pleasing and a position of both pride and complete and utter joy.
I love kneeling at his feet. I love kneeling in front of him. I love kneeling in the center of the room so he can watch me. I love kneeling simply because it’s where he wants me to be. It’s like meditation and prayer and supplication all rolled into one. I enjoy taking a position of worship on my knees. I enjoy worshiping him. I enjoy bestowing that honor on him time and time again. And I feel so tremendously lucky every time he allows me the privilege of kneeling at his feet.
It makes me feel safe, it makes me feel whole, and it makes me feel lucky to take my position at his feet. Because it is a physical, positional reminder of who owns me and it gives me the time to reflect on exactly why I picked him.
8. Because I don’t want to be in charge.
It really is that simple. I don’t want to be in charge. I am in charge of so much in my day-to-day life. I take on so much responsibility. I care for my friends, I care for my family, I feed the people I care about, I have tremendous responsibility in work, I am responsible for teaching new hires, I am responsible for providing advice on this blog (and yes, I am aware that is a self-imposed responsibility). And there’s more – so, so much more.
And when I’m done with that I don’t want to make decisions. I don’t want to have to make the rules. I don’t want to have to be responsible for what happens next. I want to be told what to do. I want to be told what is expected. I want to be told how to please someone and how to do it right. I want to submit myself to someone else’s control. I want to hand myself over to him and his decisions and his direction. I want that peace. I want that safety. And I want to end each day with that sense of fulfillment.
9. Sexually, I find far more pleasure in cumming for him than I do in cumming for myself.
Orgasms are great. I love orgasms. I really fucking love to cum.
But cumming for myself just doesn’t give me the overwhelming sense of pleasure (emotionally, mentally, physically, sexually) as cumming for him does. When he tells me how to get there, when he tells me what to say, when he makes me beg and cry and whimper and scream and tell him all of my darkest, dirtiest, most depraved fantasies while I try my hardest not to cum without permission… When he makes me wait for it, makes me edge over and over and over, making me hold off… When he finally tells me to cum. When he finally gives me permission. When he finally tells me to let go… It’s unlike any other feeling. Because I know I have earned that orgasm. Because I know he’s allowing me to have that orgasm because I’ve pleased him so much that I’ve earned the gift of it.
Orgasms are great. They really, really are. But orgasms are even greater when they’re a gift from him.
10. Because I love being told no.
I do. I love the reminder of who is in charge. Or who I have trusted with my welfare and my care and my pleasure and my safety. I love knowing that he’s paying attention to me. I love knowing that he’s watching what I do. I love knowing that he’s making sure I’m staying within the lines – because it reminds me every single time of how committed he is to me and to our dynamic and to the promises that we’ve made to each other.
And I love knowing that he’s in charge. And that he knows he’s in charge. And that he wants to remind me he’s in charge. Because it makes me feel safe. And, tbh, it makes me pretty damn wet.
Perfectly written 🔗
Ways to treat me
Designate a time and space I will be treated like a little girl only. Dress me up in dresses and skirts, make my hair and tell me what to do. Let me ask you permission for everything and don’t let me decide anything. Help me with the simplest tasks and give me little girl activites. Let me sink in in that little space and devour in it. Toy with my tiny mind and my body.
Deisgnate a time and space I will be treated like a pet only. Tie the collar to the leash and let me crawl on the floor. Forbid me to use furniture.Let me lie next to you until you want to use me. Let me drink and eat out of a bowl and bark if I want anything. Let me sleep on the floor and make comments about how I am an animal.
Humiliate me in various ways. Make me ask for permission to eat, drink, pee. Deny me frequently. Show me that I have no shame. Make me pee infront of you and lick it up. Pee on and into me. Tell me that I am a little dummy and I make you treat me that way. Laugh at me when I try to protest. Put me in diapers because I cannot control myself. Make me pee in them and tell you.
Hurt me casually. Slap me out of the blue. Put me over the knee when I slip up. Make me wear clamps until I beg to take them off. Beat me when you feel like it until I whine and pleed and carry on. Put me in painful positions for your entertainment. Drown me and waterboard me. Make me feel your strength.
Take away my food privileges. Let me really feel that I am owned. Let me ask permission to eat whenever possible and deny me. Make me weak and small. Feed me cum instead of dinner. Teach me that you decide whether I eat. Chain me up without food and feed me scraps or something blend and untasty when I mess up.