Team “not actually oblivious to flirting, just terrified of appearing presumptuous” represent.
“Yes, in the balance of consideration this person’s behaviour could certainly be interpreted as flirtatious, but it would be purest arrogance for me to just assume they actually meant what they said. I should gather more evidence. Forever.”
Reblogging because true
And valuable insight.
You could ask.
In that delightfully direct way you ask every other question? Oh, you were taught or learned not to speak because it freaked others out and you don't like it when people spiral around you? Or perhaps some other psycho sexual cognitive dissonance?
Yeah. Better do some more research.
